MAA, maa hein SAAS, saas hein...

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Posted: 16 years ago
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... is this girl crazy.... what is she on... it just shows what low mentality this girl has... mein meri maa ki jaga kisi ko nahin doo gi maa hein or saas saas hein... kon usay apni beti banana chahega... i can never tolerate a daughter in law like that... phir baad mein keh diya i was missing my mom alot... that still no excuxe to talk non-sense... agar show mein ai ho to prepare urself...
i feel some of the girls are just in the show for fame!
quote of the day...
"agar larkiya saas ko maa manay gi to saas be oon ko bitya mani gi"
i felt that was very well said...

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Posted: 16 years ago
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By the by who said this " Maa hein............"

I don't agree with ur quote.."agar larkiya saas ko maa manay gi to saas be oon ko bitya mani gi"
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Hey this is a real old episode. I guess the first elimination episode, but I felt what she said was correct, though her justification of saying this bcoz she was missing her mom was wrong.

But if u watch the next day's episode, u would find the actual reason why she said so, and I agree with her explanation for the same.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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As far the second quote u highlighted, it was said by Momma Hitty, who herself once said that a DIL can never become a Daughter. So her saying this statement is just to show her good-will to the audience, nothing more than that. A person shouldn't go back on their own words.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Nandita said that and i agree with her words. How can you give the same value to your MIL as your mom? You mom has given you birth..she has been with you since the day you were born..she knows you inside out..accepts you..loves you uncondionally no matter how many mistakes you make or how ever much you hurt her..can a MIL do the same? NEVER in a million years..why is that? That's because your MIL will think about her son before you. A girl leaves her family..the only family she has known all her life to go to a totally different household..i think the new family should try to make her welcomed and at home..but most times it's the bride who has to go out of her way to 'please' the in-laws. So yeah..i don't think what she said was wrong for you to call her "crazy". It was definitely not a smart thing to say if one wants to stay in the show..but Nandita is not like the rest of the girls who suck up to the MILs and put up with their irrational behaviour without any complaints. She speaks her mind..and i admire that about her.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Absolutely agree with u Aashi. Our mother is a mother and our MIL will be always be a MIL. They can't take each others place at any cost.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: axeion

Absolutely agree with u Aashi. Our mother is a mother and our MIL will be always be a MIL. They can't take each others place at any cost.

*yayy* Im glad that we FINALLY agree over something. 😛
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aashi3



*yayy* Im glad that we FINALLY agree over something. 😛



very true lolll.... else most of the time, I end up arguing with everyone here.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyyy

By the by who said this " Maa hein............"

I don't agree with ur quote.."agar larkiya saas ko maa manay gi to saas be oon ko bitya mani gi"

i if uve watched the show then u'll know who said wht!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I agree with what Nandita said, but her reasons for saying such a thing should've been backed up by her......I didn't like the fact that she became all defensive and backtracked on what she said as soon as ppl started disagreeing with her, or asked her to elaborate on what she meant......Her excuse of missing her mom didn't cut it, IMHO.
At the time, a clip was shown wherein all the MILs were either resting, or loitering around, or ordering the girls to cook stuff for an event that was to take place later on....this was happening while the girls were working their asses off to impress the MILs....a REAL mother doesn't just sit back or complain about the food that her daughter has made her.....The MILs should've have overseen their cooking and tried to help them out as much as possible.....That is what a mother does.....Nandita could've cited that as a reason for thinking the way she does.
And, of course, it is beyond ridiculous to expect a girl to love someone they have just known and lived with for one week as much as someone they've known for their entire life........Perhaps over a period of time, a bond and a level of understanding can develop between the MIL and DIL, but I don't think it ever translates into the kind of love that a girl feels for her own mother or the kind of love that a mother feels for her own daughter.....
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