Why is Avni's self esteem so low?

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I am so confused as to why her self esteem is so low. She says boys make fun of her and then they show that people in clubs make fun of her. Even when she went on that blind date, the people were like the boy must have ran away after seeing her.
It's all ridiculous! She is sooooooo pretty! She is a little traditional and shy.....but most guys like that! I don't understand why they protray her as pathetic. If they were going to portray her like that then they should have had an underlying reason like - she used to be chubby, or she was burned, or had some sort of disability. All of these are factors that contribute to low self esteem, but Avni has none of those. I feel like her character is insulted by the show as ugly, when she is really pretty and has no reason to have such low self esteem and lack of confidence.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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YESSS
i know
she has nothing to be afraid or sad about
i agree if she was u know like she had a disabled condition, or something happend in her past
i could understand, but here's a girl who is soooooooo pretty, dresses fine, maybe not like other girls and she belongs to such a big family, how can anyone even dare to insult her.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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its true she's not ugly
but there's many people like avni out there..they have very low self esteem because they think they are not pretty and they can't be like other girls..they tend to compare themselves with other girls who are very pretty,perfect , avni's characteristic is such that she finds it hard to believe a guy like sam will fall for her.what i want to say is it does exist , the creatives are not making her ugly, it's just a character
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Avni is pretty. She looks beautiful than most pple out their in the world. But I guess she feels that way coz she is not as stylish and fast as compared to other girls around her. Thus she feels like that.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Avni is really very beautiful, she shouldn't be shown as a low self esteem girl.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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i know it is getting really over the nerves to have her reiterate this again and again!! and i fear that sameer's so called hasty wedding plan and the mistaken identity will turn out to be even worst and her self esteem will hit bottom of the ocean floor :(
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I agree that low self-esteem is generally based on childhood trauma, but, ultimately it's all in the mind. I've observed otherwise too that persons whose siblings are prettier/more intelligent/more popular tend to be very critical of themselves... They focus on their siblings' good qualities so much that they lose sight of their own... And that's what is happening to Avni.

Edited by diya86 - 16 years ago

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