is it easy to accept ur best friend as your lover? - Page 2

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Its like Samrat said: Agar dosti nahin ho ghi toh phir pyar kaisay ho gah?

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Theres a famous saying that you can have Friendshp without Love but you cannot have Love without Friendship. Those who love each other ARE friends. And it would be quite easy to fall in love with a friend. Friends share everything and I think Friendship is a stepping stone to Love. Of course not all Friends fall in Love but thats to do with Chemistry. You need a spark to start up Love. Friends can have it or they can not.
SaJan DEFINATELY had it😉

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Posted: 15 years ago
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its very well said...that u'll be lucky if your lover or your husband/wife is your best friend.....very few people can find two relations in one relation....you said that you can share anything with your best friend w/o any hesitation....why would you hesitate to share something with a person whom you love immensely....love is a pure relation...and the person who loves you expects that you are completely open to them in any matter...you don't hide anything from them....i think it is the best thing on earth if your best friend is your lover....then you will be only person who knows him inside out
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Posted: 15 years ago
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nice topic!!
no I don't think its going to be easy which is why we're seeing hesitation and apprehension from both samrat and gunjan! i think it differs for different people but generally, i think it takes getting used to cuz like you said, the feelings are different now and things may not be the same like when you're friends, the whole boy friend vs boyfriend and girl friend vs girlfriend.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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@MizMagick
wt i told it is true yar
Posted: 15 years ago
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yeah i agree with you..
friendship is the realation of closeness and bondings
will it be same after the realation change into love???
i dont think so...
whenever lovestruks...the ambiance of friendship is lost somewhere..
the closeness is not same as earlier..

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I believe best friends can become lovers...
As best friend you know everything about the person...the understanding part is already there...
If the attraction part comes, then the relations really works out well
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Posted: 15 years ago
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nice said by minalpink100.agree wid her.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think that one canfall in love with his /her best friend.

You can have love But itbecomes a little meaningless IF you dont or havent become frnds with your lover.i mean that if one gets to know another then only he/she falls in love with one quality of that person !!

"Agar friendship nahi to pyaar kaise" like in Ddlj "Pyaar dosti hai"

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