is it easy to accept ur best friend as your lover?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hi friends

I dont mean to heart any one but i was just thinking how can a person can think to love his/her bwst friend.
i mean till now you was having special relation like friendship and suddenly you have to accept him/her as your lover.
The relation of friendship is so pure that we can share each and every thing without any hesitation and how can we accept him in respectable relation.
in friendship our friends touch us with pure heart but in love lovers touch each other with different feeling.
its easy to accept relation of mayanka and nupur because they were not friends before their confession but samrat and gunjan after feeling so pure relation of friendship will it be easy to accept each other as girl frd and boy frd.
will it be easy for gunjan to accept the person till now who is always holding her hand for her strength and motivation will now touch her with different feelings?
friendship is pure relation and love has totally different defination.
so in battle of love and friendship who will going to win?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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agree with u😊
nice topic👏

Edited by sweety307 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Good question and excellent topic!👏

Honestly I wouldn't know about it since I don't have a best friend who I could fall in love with 😆 But this question and the things you said are making me wonder alot of things...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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nice topic
but one thing i want to say here yes it is difficult to accept u r friend as u r lover but friendship is base on every relation without friendship we cant do any thing even i m also going to propose my best friend let see wt will happen
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Love just seems to bloom out of nowhere!!!
Yaar it's a complex thing. It just happens.
Ur thinking what a GREAT freindship u have wiv a girl and den one day u begin to fall in love wiv dem!!!
Rememmber: A girl and a boy can never be freinds!!!
Well dat's wat dey say in MJHT!!! lol
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: minalpink100

nice topic
but one thing i want to say here yes it is difficult to accept u r friend as u r lover but friendship is base on every relation without friendship we cant do any thing even i m also going to propose my best friend let see wt will happen
😊

WAT???
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Well my best friend is also a guy but if it was in my experience I don't think it would be hard to confess to my best friend. (Not that I love him of course) One reason would be because you're already comfortable with each other. And plus, already knowing each other makes the love more understanding and pure. What I would say is that you're already past the stage where you need to get to know each other and stuff. And btw, Mayank and Nupur were friends before they fell in love with each other. Maybe not best friends but they were like college buddies.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i actually cant think of it as my best friend is also a girl... 🤔
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Intersting topic ⭐️
Okay love just happens, it doesnt need a reason.
I dont think its weird to fall in love with your best friend if he's a guy.
I mean i have seen many people who were friends go out with eachother.
I guess since you already know your BF (best friend) well and you have some affection.
youre likely to have feelings for him, whether its infatuation or whatever.
Im not saying a girl and guy cant be friends, but usually one friend will develop feelings.
I know what i said was confusing, but try to see what i am saying lolz 😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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yaar friendship is the begining of luv in my POV.
buh i definately think it wud be hard to confess to ur BF cuz itmight ruin ur friendship if he/she dusnt love u bac.

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