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Posted: 16 years ago
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By relationship I meant one established under the law and society and being in love is certainly not that. Marriage is not to be taken lightly and broken on a whim simply because their son happened to fall in love. Maybe first or second or even third love is difficult to forget but people do move on, DM will and so will Hiten.

I did not see any evidence that Hiten went looking for Khemi except in Jamkhambadiya....when did he have the time when all the time that Khemi was missing, he was shopping and going on dates with Toral or celebarting Janmashtami with friends....just because he tells Khemi he looked for her does not mean anything....maybe he meant he looked for her in Jhamkhambadiya or that DM organized a search for her...but after Khemi went missing the second time not once was he seen looking for her, he just moped around. And to say it is creatives fault...I mean the whole show is the creatives "fault", if not for the creatives we wouldn't have a Hitmi or SanRaj or even a Bandini....everything in this show is because of creatives...thats no excuse.

And how will a son be happy knowing he caused sorrow to his parent and how will a sister be happy knowing that because of her, her younger sister is a divorced woman and we all know how divorced women are treated in rural India and that because of her the younger sister is going to spend the rest of her life alone. Do parents have all the responsibilities and the kids, especially grown-up ones none....I don't think so. Hit-mi should just quit being a problem in SanRaj life.
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Posted: 16 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: sg08

By relationship I meant one established under the law and society and being in love is certainly not that. Marriage is not to be taken lightly and broken on a whim simply because their son happened to fall in love. Maybe first or second or even third love is difficult to forget but people do move on, DM will and so will Hiten.


I did not see any evidence that Hiten went looking for Khemi except in Jamkhambadiya....when did he have the time when all the time that Khemi was missing, he was shopping and going on dates with Toral or celebarting Janmashtami with friends....just because he tells Khemi he looked for her does not mean anything....maybe he meant he looked for her in Jhamkhambadiya or that DM organized a search for her...but after Khemi went missing the second time not once was he seen looking for her, he just moped around. And to say it is creatives fault...I mean the whole show is the creatives "fault", if not for the creatives we wouldn't have a Hitmi or SanRaj or even a Bandini....everything in this show is because of creatives...thats no excuse.

And how will a son be happy knowing he caused sorrow to his parent and how will a sister be happy knowing that because of her, her younger sister is a divorced woman and we all know how divorced women are treated in rural India and that because of her the younger sister is going to spend the rest of her life alone. Do parents have all the responsibilities and the kids, especially grown-up ones none....I don't think so. Hit-mi should just quit being a problem in SanRaj life.



Wow, SG, your thinking is very good on this. I totally agree with you.I know there are others that oppose this view. But we can all share our opinions, in the end, it's Ekta who decides. We can gripe about all the stories until the cows come home (American expression) but it won't make any difference😆
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: sg08


And how will a son be happy knowing he caused sorrow to his parent and how will a sister be happy knowing that because of her, her younger sister is a divorced woman and we all know how divorced women are treated in rural India and that because of her the younger sister is going to spend the rest of her life alone. Do parents have all the responsibilities and the kids, especially grown-up ones none....I don't think so. Hit-mi should just quit being a problem in SanRaj life.

Totally agree with you... but hiten is different...he just can't tolerate his dad and you expect him to be nice and forget his love easily to let his father have a peaceful life..NO.. he will not spare a single chance to blast at his dad.....
Why couln't he just give Santu some respect atleast as a human being....its not her fault taht she became his step-mother...don't consider her ur mom but plz don't disrespect her.....his attitude is like everything is wrong coz of Santu type...may be influenced by his foi's upbringing...
Hiten just think with a cool mind...you will see what you should do, and don't forget that you are living in rural India not in any western country....
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Exactly...I don't think Hiten should forget his love easily....but he should learn how to treat people. And why does he always have that sour expression on his face, it's irritating. Especially, I don't understand his attitude towards Santo, what has she ever done to deserve it, it was not her fault that she got married to his father or that he fell in love with her sister...she has always tried to help and look out for him and still is....why does he then treat her with such contempt and disrespect? He is a grown up man and should be able to understand the circumstances of SanRaj marriage and understand that it was not Santo's fault, then why this attitude towards her...he is so immature. I know people would say it's because she is trying to mother him....if that's the case then he should politely explain to Santo not to do that...but when has he ever talked to her nicely? But he doesn't hesitate to take her help when he needs it and when he does not need her help, promptly forgets all about it. I wonder what Khemi will have to say about his treatment of Santo?
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Well I dont want SanRaj to get divorced.. Surely DM can't do college romance types thingy at this age, and specially when he SO loves his dead wife.. with Santu he can't be like what he was with Subhi.. But Subhi's death was an unfortunate part, and DM should move on now.. There're thousand ways to keep the memories of Suhbi alive.. That does not mean he will not take care of Santu..

The love they will have kinda pletonic types.. 😳 And that would be amazing.. 😊 His love with always be Subhi.. but he can share it with Santu too😃

Well I guess the only way left is, we need Subhi's aatmaa to order him to love Santu😆
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Thats funny Guddi...

Yes SanRaj romance cannot be college romance type, that would be wierd - lets leave that to Hitmi and Kaddu-Shanky and in future Maulik and Toral and Birwa and...well you get the picture. SanRaj love story is a mature and different kind of love story. You are never going to see DM moping and pining for Santo, that would look ridiculous but does not mean he doesn't miss her. I think Subhi is always going to have a place in DM's heart and she should but I also firmly beleive that people are capable of putting their past behind them and moving on...so will DM. His love for Santo is not going to be the same as that for Subhi but it will be as strong and as deep...he has already come a long way and well on his way to falling in love with Santo...just has to realize it...I think that will be a phenomnal scene....when he realizes his feelings.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Just one scene like DM blushing and hesitating to stop her from going would prove his love.. that's what DM is made of ! My babu shona does not need to pin for her.. His rude-love will do the work...😳 In fact I wont mind even if DM slaps her for what she's done😆 and then a hug🤗

He's very cute in all possible ways hehe.. He will do ALL the duties of a hubby... out of his love, but he wont admit that😳.. And Santu will get it😉

I can't wait to see all these happening😳 he is feeling shy that's it😆 I dont mind though😍
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

Just one scene like DM blushing and hesitating to stop her from going would prove his love.. that's what DM is made of ! My babu shona does not need to pin for her.. His rude-love will do the work...😳 In fact I wont mind even if DM slaps her for what she's done😆 and then a hug🤗

He's very cute in all possible ways hehe.. He will do ALL the duties of a hubby... out of his love, but he wont admit that😳.. And Santu will get it😉

I can't wait to see all these happening😳 he is feeling shy that's it😆 I dont mind though😍

OMG you're hilarious!🤣

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