Is Manjusha totallyvery guilty?Vinod OverReacting?

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Malini

@Rumii

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

I have a thought after watching today's episode..... I Think both Manjusha n Vinod are Wrong!! Yes,both of them..... I cannot blame Manju alone as she,as a mother thought of her daughter's future but she's wrong as she hid this huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuge truth from Vinod(Reason behind that's also Vinod Overeacts to everything Manju says,so she's started to hide facts from Vinod)and Vinod's fault 's that he did not Care even to Consult his wife about the Budget of the gift they are going to give..Is that Right?? I do not support Vinod in this point...... It's NOT NECESSARY to \gift a whole set to show your love,both of Vinod-Manjusha could've sat n discussed about the Budget n could've gifted a set of earrings to Archana>?In this age of Inflation,Gold is soooooooooooooooooooooooooo costly that gifting an entire set doesnot seem very Practical&that too when Vinod has 2more Sisters!! I'm sorry to say,probably 95% of Bhabhis would've been concerned about their daughters if they were in Manjusha's shoes!!

Tell me one thing, when Archana's in-laws family asks for Jwellery,Archana's a BECHAARI 🤢 but when Manju's husband spends tooooooo way(Yep,a full set is wayyyyyyyyyyyy too much since Archana already had 3 sets!!) Manju expresses concern n she's VILLAIN😕 doesn't even have the right to budget that gift from their side??

And OMG..31st Aug episode Vinod is shouuuuuuuuuuting at Manju😲,even using "Tu"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Can't support Vinod at all😡!!Vinod needs to learn how to treat your wife from Manav!! Even Manav's supporting Archu going against his own Mother ,right?? But how is it possible that Archana's a bechaari n not a "Chugalkhorr" instigating Manav against his family..haan? DO BHABHIS HAVE TO BE VILLAINS?

What are yourviews?

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Mandy

@mandy0310

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Posted: 16 years ago

Vinod did not overreact, with his own money he asked Manju to buy the jewellery for Archana. Archana has done a lot for her family, Vinod just wanted to do something nice for Archana and Manju ruined that. Manju was wrong and she knew it, it's why she felt guilty for what she did.

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Malini

@Rumii

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

Idon't think it thisway.... you r saying whatever they areshowing on the show,Manju as a 'Villain' [since a cunning type music plays in her background😆 ].... but tell me,isn't ahusband's money after marriage wife's sharetoo?? I Think Vinod wasWRONG IN NOT ASKING SUGGESTION FROM MANJU because after people get married it's VERY IMPORTA NT TO SHARE EVERYTHING WITH YOUR SPOUSE & as I said,Vinod could have gifteda10,000Rs Jewellery to Archana....after all budgeting your Expenses isn't aCrime!!!!!

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Maddy

@blackdaughter

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Posted: 16 years ago

yes i agree, i think they are both at fault! totally agree with you.

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Mandy

@mandy0310

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Posted: 16 years ago

Yes, in a marriage income becomes shared but it's not like Vinod hid this from her. She knew what he wanted to do, if she had concerns she should have voiced them then instead of going behind his back. Manju was wrong, how could he have not be upset at what she'd done?

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HennaGumDrop

@HennaGumDrop

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Posted: 16 years ago

Also, Manju does not share HER money with the family OR her daughter. Punni goes to school on Vinod's budget, the house runs majorly on Vinod's money so it IS his money to do with what he wants. His sister took care of him and Manju and Punni for so many years, even if Manju doesn't want to give her sister-in-law money, she should realize that Archu has been their maid and atleast give her some compensation for that.

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pinkishot

@pinkishot

Beginner

Posted: 16 years ago

Vinod acted right. His wife is the villian in this show. Since it started she's been creating hell all up to the wedding and see now after still hell. She knew she was caught so she faked the crying scene. Also in the flash back she knew what she was going to do ahead of time. The woman is pure trouble. She is selfish. She cares more about what's her and only hers. If it's to create hell for Vinod's family she will surely do it out of spite.

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Sadvita

@Ubuntuu

Explorer

Posted: 16 years ago

I do understand Manjusha to some extent that she has concern for daughter and to save money in this inflation time,is something that everyone is going to think,but here Manjusha does not take care of daughter only what she cares is only money her daughter,and we have to know money can't buy love, tom if her daughter is celebrating her birthday or something and if Archana does the same thing will Manjusha forgive her?
Manjusha is not very guilty,she told the truth to every one because she was afraid that if Vinod comes to know the truth from someone else then it may create more problem in her marriage life.
Vinod is not over reacting definitely he felt bad because he has a wife who tells him not spend money on guest who come home for food and she tells lie once again to him after she told that she would not do the mistake of saying lie to him once again after she told lie to him about her brother

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PRITHEE

@PRITHEE

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Posted: 16 years ago

i think tht manju is totally guilty since she hasnt done this after considering the family budget or her daughter's future she has done it only hurt archu and to create probs for her may be since she knew her mother in law so z main concept was to trouble archu ... she wanted archu to marry manav bcoz frm her point of view thre couldn't possibly be any worst family and guy thn manav..but fortunately z girl was save frm a bad hubby ... so she deserves z worst treatment ...and lets hpe tht the famiuly find out about her before she try destroy another daughter's life.

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farah

@angelina23

Inactive

Posted: 16 years ago

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I dont think Vinod was wrong at all. Archana took care of their daughter and fulfilled all the responsibilties of the mother. He wanted to do something nice for his sister. He could have consulted with his wife, but really, it depends on the couple. If the couple has mutual understanding in all matters, then i could have understood. Manju is the kind of woman who doesnt share a penny with her husband. they dont share financial responsibilities, and they dont budget for their family together. In the case of a selfish wife like her, I dont think Vinod did anything wrong by deciding by himself to buy the gold set for Archana. you honestly think Manju would have allowed him to buy the necklace if he consulted her? I agree with you, budgeting is important, but as a brother who really loves his sister, he has the right to gift her something for her wedding and if I was in Manjus position and I felt bad about him spending so much money, I would stay quiet and would have supported him if I really loved my husband. (Because loving a husband means also loving his family, especially when the family is so nice like Vinods). What Manju did was totally evil. and her little babbling about "oh, I was thinking of my daughter's fauture," that was total BS. It was just an excuse and a justification because she knew she got caught and had to save her butt. I would have sympathized with her a little bit if there was any genuineness in that comment, but there wasnt.

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