Rakhi's Character - Page 3

Originally posted by: purva

arti.. ok I get what you are saying.. don't know what happened before between you and other members here as I joined this section late. Your post was talking about people having fun.. and I am one of them so was bothered that someone is judging my life from what I am writing here.. and in no way I have been mean to any member here or even Rakhi. I just find this whole swayamvar fake.. that's why I am not taking it seriously.. In the end if Rakhi finds her dream man.. I will be happy for her but other than that this whole thing for me is no less than any other "k" type drama. So I am enjoying it just like that. Anyway.. peace from my side too 😊

Yeah, I think there was a misunderstanding. I can see how what I said on fun was so broad that it could be interpreted that way. I like your attitude, and your posts seem really sensible and mature, and I am sorry if I came across as if I lumped you together with some other folks on here. Of course, I did not mean to suggest you are not entitled to your opinion.

In my first post on this thread was more referring to the kind of circus-like tamasha, as if Rakhi is some sort of circus animal, "look at her chin here, look at her eyebrow there." I don't approve of plastic surgery, but I don't want to talk about a person as if they're a circus animal. Reminds me of Hottentot Venus which I just studied about. Supposedly it is against IF COC, but it's happening. With pictures and everything. And even on that thread, I just said I am going to stop discussing it, not that people should not do that. People can do what they want, but I am also entitled to express my view.

Yeah, I also think it's possible this swayamvar may be fake. I think Rakhi should eat healthy and not avoid food, I've posted topics about how she would look nice with less makeup. Fun is fun, but I was talking about a particular strand of mean-spirited gossip, and it bothered me when people did that with Manmohan and his family too. But it was not meant to dictate to others what to like and not to like at all.

Anyway, nice to meet you! 😊

^^ nice to meet you too. No need for a sorry.. let's just leave it here. 😊

Okay guys, i guess i went to bed while all this was discussed here. I completely agree with Arti and I must confess that my choice of words was wrong. I may be a poor writer but I am not a kid who's writing a thesis on a TV show. I have traveled the world a lot. I have done a thesis my self on drilling equipments in deep sea water. I work, live by myself in a foreign country. I work hard for everything but I still am firm on my belief that no one has right to judge anyone. Be it me or somebody else. I am not judging Manmohan or anybody. You would not find a single post from me degrading anybody and I expect the same from other.

I completely agree that this forum is for fun but then not at the cost of someone's dignity. I also believe that everyone has right to express their feeling. I am not here to dictate anybody but I do not appreciate people being sexist. That's all.

No hard feeling...I am here to make friends myself. As they say 'Life is too short to make enemies"😊