before arguing further yudi i like your post we are giving yudi free ridr because he is hunk yaar ab itnaa to karnaa padegaa naa .............hahahaa
hoke about healthy discusion be serious beena..........
first of all imli is not giving yudi drugs everyday she only gave something to make him unconcious once only and that situation was so freaky............like if you are in yudi's situation will you be able to doubt imli that she who was very sick moment before and who is so naive could give him anything????? and it was not planned stay in that hut so everything from yudi's point of view was un planned.......so how could you think that somebody is carrying something to make you unconciouse and for what?????????
think through yudi's point of view the girl who does not know waht is noodles look like and how it can pronounce can do such thing....the girl who has not brain how to talk where......could plan something so grave????
now about who is responsible........i will say both at some extent but why rani is more responsible because she was the one who planted all this seed first in her own mind and than forced everyone to harvest on that plant.........
and about yudi not consoling rani........actually i can understand that part because i myself is the person.....when i am sad or angry i would rather choose to remain alone by myself .......that way i get control over myself faster than remaining with somebody i love.........because if i am sad and weak i don't want my love one also break down seeing me because in many situation you cannot console someone........its just not possible .......few wound take time to heal and that you have to work for that......if somebody keep coming to you and consoling you i actually find it very annoying because indirectly it open up my wound
so basically that's why i can understand why yudi choose that rani should cope up with her pain because i am myself is same person......though i saupport them with everything........and yudi did supported rani all the way.........rani herself heard waht yudi told Cr that he does not care that rani could not give birth for him rani is more important than anything else........and if i remember clearly yudi told same thing to rani too..........now how many times that woman need to keep reminding who is important for her husband...........even when rani propose for surrogacy that time also yudi told her that she is insulting his love........and he is not angry with her but does not agree with her and she should not think about it in future
but did rani stop .........no she was hell bent on solving this problem.......why did not she trust her husband ? did she has doubt that her husband was lying and secretly he desire kids more than her??????? so basically she did not trust yudi's love for her and did not respect his feelings but did whateve in her power to force yudi.......
and that is emotional blackmail..........showing her sad and crying face to yudi so she thought she is the only one who is sad and yudi is ok if he does not have kid or did she thought she is sad and yudi does not care about her sorrow?????????
till date she took all decision without involving yudi and only point she went to yudi when she needed yudi's consent if it would have been in her power that without yudi's consent she could marry yudi to imli i bet she would not have even ask yudi about it...........and directly would have married yudi to imli.............she is plainly selfish for me who did not regard for his husband's trauma and suffering .......she did not care about her own situation going to happen after words but she did not even care how his husband will feel in entire this situation the man who does not even look into some other woman how could he will sleep with that woman.......she did not thought about imli if yudi will not able to give him love how would seh feel
even the way she took imli's permission was like you have promised me you will do whatever i ask you to do.............right? so don't you think it is call indirect force that you are bound to fulfill you promise and i ask you to marry my husband in regard to that promise
now imli is negative and it was all her doing but htink if on place of imli we are there how would we feel that we have been asked to marry some man only because that woman wants kid...........and we know we will not get our husband's true love never in our life and our husband will not even desire to spend single moment with us.....so basically as baby producing machine you are need there......how does it feel???????
because rnai wanted to be great in front of everyone she wasnted to sacrifice in front of everyone she made other people sacrifice a greater part.................what does she lost??????? her husband for one night? her sitting place? thats all but what yudi has to sacrifice
nonstop guilt and betrayal feelings. ...........
i only see yudi's fault is he loves rani unconditionally he does not care waht rani can give her or not.........but rani does not love yudi unconditionally otherwise she would not have create this condition in front of him
Edited by bsingapury - 16 years ago
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