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During the G3-Veera-Nihal phase I used to wonder just what is the limit to Prem's tolerance towards his family and to what extrent is he going to keep his and Heer's lives on line for his GFN family....🤢
I mean the situation was so sad that I was actually not sure if Prem would ever support Heer when his mother and sister insult her or make her look bad....😕....What if G3 asked Prem to let go of Heer again...If it happened once, it can happen again..no?😕....Remember how Prem caught Maya bit*hing about Heer, but still he did a squart to her other than just looking the other way and walking away from there.....
During the G3-Samir-Rajveer phase I used to wonder to what extent is Heer willing to trust G3 and put her and Prem's lives at stake - all in the name of doing good for Prem🤔...
I felt like throwing up when she would say to Rajveer stuff like ' agar tum ho toh mujhe chinta ki koi zaroorat nahi hai'...😲🥱....And I can neither forget nor forgive her booking the room in the name of Mr&Mrs Juneja...and then when her bluff was caught by the police...her still not confessing to Prem and then in the end when all is lost, her telling everything to Prem ( whatever happened to her so called word to G3 then!?!?🥱)
All that love is at its place and the other aspects of a relationship like security, trust,honesty,loyalty etc are at their own place....Love can keep two hearts together...but for two people to have a thriving relationship...just love isn't enough....Prem and Heer have everything else going great for them...But Prem failed to provide that security to Heer and Heer failed to give that trust to Prem....That's why they have all these problems....That's why Heer tried to lie to him time and again....And Prem...Prem utterly failed to provide that security blanket to Heer which every wife,lover and friend would look forward to have from his/her partner....I mean...I know he considers Heer as one with himself and puts his family above himself(and Heer!)....However if they were to have a family and have kids and stuff...this has to stop..no??I mean just for how long is he willing to make his wife look bad for his GFN family....:((
Now???Prem learned from his mistakes...Now he got his priorities right (hopefully!)....Now after he gets Heer back into his life, he will NEVER again put her on line for his GFN family...
Heer??I am still not sure if they have shown us everything about her....I would be immensely disappointed if they don't show Heer accepting her part in the pre-leap mess and feel guilty about it....😔...But she is deeply hurt...that can be seen...The sadistic manner in which she made Prem feel disgusted about himself when she told him about the shirt that he wore...😲🤢😕....and her stone like attitude....😕...all that shows that the hurt is much much deeper than we can measure...I have a sneaking feeling about Heer meeting with A** after that fateful night and that creep telling her all false stories about how Prem forced himself on her 🤢as he just wanted to take revenge on Heer(about Rajveer..)...Poor thing!!!!!...I felt like hugging her today when she was saying there is no vishwas and imandari in their relationship anymore....Actually she is right....Prem and Heer had lots of love and the other things....love is there...but the other things??I think they forgot to learn them....They just didn't have the makes of a good wife and husband...😕...NOW THEY WILL LEARN!!!! (Prem already is learning...Heer will too..after A**'s truth comes out...)
All for Good! no?😃
PS1:(BTW did anyone else feel all twitched when Heer said Prem was nothing but a mere stranger when their daughter inquired about him the first time???Felt bad for both Prem and Heer...)
PS2: Oh btw...I watched the show after like missing 3 episodes....and I thought Heer was looking completely different...More beautiful, but different nevertheless...or is it just me?
I mean the situation was so sad that I was actually not sure if Prem would ever support Heer when his mother and sister insult her or make her look bad....😕....What if G3 asked Prem to let go of Heer again...If it happened once, it can happen again..no?😕....Remember how Prem caught Maya bit*hing about Heer, but still he did a squart to her other than just looking the other way and walking away from there.....
During the G3-Samir-Rajveer phase I used to wonder to what extent is Heer willing to trust G3 and put her and Prem's lives at stake - all in the name of doing good for Prem🤔...
I felt like throwing up when she would say to Rajveer stuff like ' agar tum ho toh mujhe chinta ki koi zaroorat nahi hai'...😲🥱....And I can neither forget nor forgive her booking the room in the name of Mr&Mrs Juneja...and then when her bluff was caught by the police...her still not confessing to Prem and then in the end when all is lost, her telling everything to Prem ( whatever happened to her so called word to G3 then!?!?🥱)
All that love is at its place and the other aspects of a relationship like security, trust,honesty,loyalty etc are at their own place....Love can keep two hearts together...but for two people to have a thriving relationship...just love isn't enough....Prem and Heer have everything else going great for them...But Prem failed to provide that security to Heer and Heer failed to give that trust to Prem....That's why they have all these problems....That's why Heer tried to lie to him time and again....And Prem...Prem utterly failed to provide that security blanket to Heer which every wife,lover and friend would look forward to have from his/her partner....I mean...I know he considers Heer as one with himself and puts his family above himself(and Heer!)....However if they were to have a family and have kids and stuff...this has to stop..no??I mean just for how long is he willing to make his wife look bad for his GFN family....:((
Now???Prem learned from his mistakes...Now he got his priorities right (hopefully!)....Now after he gets Heer back into his life, he will NEVER again put her on line for his GFN family...
Heer??I am still not sure if they have shown us everything about her....I would be immensely disappointed if they don't show Heer accepting her part in the pre-leap mess and feel guilty about it....😔...But she is deeply hurt...that can be seen...The sadistic manner in which she made Prem feel disgusted about himself when she told him about the shirt that he wore...😲🤢😕....and her stone like attitude....😕...all that shows that the hurt is much much deeper than we can measure...I have a sneaking feeling about Heer meeting with A** after that fateful night and that creep telling her all false stories about how Prem forced himself on her 🤢as he just wanted to take revenge on Heer(about Rajveer..)...Poor thing!!!!!...I felt like hugging her today when she was saying there is no vishwas and imandari in their relationship anymore....Actually she is right....Prem and Heer had lots of love and the other things....love is there...but the other things??I think they forgot to learn them....They just didn't have the makes of a good wife and husband...😕...NOW THEY WILL LEARN!!!! (Prem already is learning...Heer will too..after A**'s truth comes out...)
All for Good! no?😃
PS1:(BTW did anyone else feel all twitched when Heer said Prem was nothing but a mere stranger when their daughter inquired about him the first time???Felt bad for both Prem and Heer...)
PS2: Oh btw...I watched the show after like missing 3 episodes....and I thought Heer was looking completely different...More beautiful, but different nevertheless...or is it just me?
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