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hello friends i know manyof us thinks that yudi is dead for us they have not seen weakest character like him
but i will say opposite ..............i used to think how could he do this and accept marriage how could he marry someone when he claim to love his wife too m uch.............that;w what strike me yes he agree to marry only because he loves his wife unconditionaly and can do anything for her............even go through torture that is equal to death for him...........yup marrying imli is nothing less than that.......for him but he is doign this only and only because of rani's happiness.
if he would not have loved her too much he would have been stuck to his stubbornness and let rani in grief. he would have rani let die with her sorrow..........and he would have let rani live with assumption that yudi love himself and his decision more than rani.............
as i have been saying this right now rani is mad with her stubborness and blind in her desire so not able to see what is right and wrong and to prove her point she manipulate each and everyone..........even when amma and CR as woman tried to make her understand rani did not listen to them why because from one point she is unable to think anything else and you know that's our nature when we get stuck with something and make that thing our life questions or ego problem we don't budge but we force other people to act against their wil ..................at any cost.........yup at any cost .........if not emotionally than by force
rani did same thing the way she was giving cold treament to yudi how could yudi let her suffer.........and many times you have to let learn people hard way.........through their mistake because however you try to make them understand they are not ready to listen anything logical
and that's why i am telling you yudi is not weak but very strong who is sacrificing his love for rani's wish he is giving place to some stranger in hsi life only because of rani ........i ask how many of us can do??????
if yudi would not have given up rani would have lived life with grudges that yudi did nto even do that much for her happiness and waht was she asking only yudi's happiness..........so she is actually playing reverse game in her blindness..........
i give you one example actually happen in somebody's life who is very dear to me
this man used to love his wife and his parents equally and that girl used to love her in law a lot . but as time passed seeing her friends living free life seperat from in laws and brainwaashed by few bad influaence this girl also started dreaming to live seperate from in law and started forcing her husband .....now this man was in dilemma one side parents whom he love too much and one side wife.......and he knew that his wife is not capable of taking care of house and small children single handed .......he tried to makr her understand but she was too blind to understand anything........she started miss behaving with in laws and evryday fighting in house................now this husband took drastic step......he talked with his parents and ask permission to live seperate because he thought its no point liveing together when everyday bad atmosphere in house and fight ...........it si better they go seperate and let his wife suffer ........because he knew that his wife will not able to handle and in few days will realised her mistake..............but his parents were upset too and told him he is weak and giving up against his wife .....theytold him to keep his wife in control useing force but he though that will only create more problem and kids life will be ruined too but it is better wife herself realsied her mistake so in future she cannot complain that her husband does not love her and love his parents more than her
so he promised his parents he will look after all their needs but only for few months let him try.........and the way he dreaded his wife could not look after house and got tired and fed up in few months and one day broke down realising her mistake and went to her in laws and ask for forgivness..........and all are now very happy
so in short soem times you have to let that person go through few desire than only they realised
like small kids love to touch everything..........many times hot plates and when you ask them it will burn they try more and become adamants and think you are bad and don't want them to enjoy whatever they want to
but one day you have to put stone on heart and let them touch saying i love you a lot so your happiness is my happiness if you are happy touching plates touch.......and the moment that kid feel burn next time in future they will not come near that plate and will respect your suggestions
so friends that s we our nature is that
indirectly may be we might have forced our love once for many things directly in directly emotionally or anyother way so does i tmean our love once weak
and yudi is not marrying e=imli to have soem fun
he is not cheating his wife he is not doing on back of his wife and doing this only fo rhis wife now tha tis somethign different than other drama where main leads play hate you hate you game and create situation that male has to marry.........but here what did yudi told to rani
chahe kitne bhi sathi na badal jaaye lekin hum aapkaa saath nahi chhodenge..........yup i will say that's true love if staying apart your love subsided so that's not love...............
Anupamaa
Cricket
