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Posted: 16 years ago
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I am not really fond of the moral (or you could call it a statement) that comes at the end of each epi but yesterday's moral was disgusting.....It says when a widower with children can marry , why not a pregnant widow....
I somehow, didnt like the word pregnant there....I support widow remarriage , and may be the widow could be a mother too...but the reaction of Madan Singh is justifiable here.....he has accepted that his son is getting married to a widow, but he dint definitely expect Suguna to be pregnant, he's been kept under the dark and this is a shocker ....so may be he will oppose the marriage (but it seems certain that the marriage is gonna happen)...but the point is what are the creatives trying to tell.....the BV folks never really worried about any messages thru their show....even this Suguna marriage is a "dhong" and remember where dadisa opposed phooli's presence in Suguna's gauna and thats what exacly happened , dadisa's fears came true.....
The moral at the end of the show is jus to make the show "different" , but BV is jus like any other family drama....atleast the other shows dont boast of any false messages ....

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Posted: 16 years ago
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But Shyam only hid it because he knew his father wouldn't accept it. He didn't do the right thing,but it is a fact that a widower with five children can get remarried more easily than a widow, pregnant or not., in Indian villages.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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whoever is giving all these morals, if you tell them to get their son wedded to a pregnant widow...I am 100% sure that they will NOT do that..
these things are just good to advise somebody..not to follow in reality.. whatever they are showing in show..its very rare to happen..especially in village...so unreal... they could have just shown widow remarriage without showing sugna a pregnant...then it would have been reality... but this..i dont think so..🤢
madan sign is correct...anybody at his place would go crazy after learning that his son is getting married with a pregnant widow..
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: london741

whoever is giving all these morals, if you tell them to get their son wedded to a pregnant widow...I am 100% sure that they will NOT do that..


these things are just good to advise somebody..not to follow in reality.. whatever they are showing in show..its very rare to happen..especially in village...so unreal... they could have just shown widow remarriage without showing sugna a pregnant...then it would have been reality... but this..i dont think so..🤢


👏 i agree...any morals given should be palatable.

Originally posted by: london741


madan sign is correct...anybody at his place would go crazy after learning that his son is getting married with a pregnant widow..



and dont forget this pregnant widow is more or less a an unwed mother. so eventhough she claims the kid is her hubby's it cud be anyone else's too. in the society they live in a girl even talking to her husband without adult supervision is considered bad. why dont they show something abt this practice?
madan singh may not be justified in opposing a widow remarriage but he is justified in opposing having a characterless girl(in his eyes) as his daughter in law. actually they should have shown madan singh opposing the marriage more earlier(when he didnt know suguna is pregnant too) when shyam first talked abt it to his parents rather than agreeing with one threat of shyam leaving the house.
and what's with suicide threats? maasa does it...suguna does it and now shyam too. and the victims are bhairon's generation. they must try it too!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: smittu

I am not really fond of the moral (or you could call it a statement) that comes at the end of each epi but yesterday's moral was disgusting.....It says when a widower with children can marry , why not a pregnant widow....


true...why dont they explore the possibility of a widower with an illegit kid and then compare suguna's case with the same.

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