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-Veena-

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Posted: 16 years ago

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@Doc..

LOLLL @ script writing.. may be they are waiting for someone like us!!!

Loved the discussion.. after a long time.. feels good!!!

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Posted: 16 years ago

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@Veena: I know this discussion was excellent thanks to Nandani's awesome post.
@Nandani: We did not mean to hijack your thread..sorry! And ya come online so we can take this discussion forward.

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-Veena-

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Originally posted by: Dr.KaranSG
@Nandani: We did not mean to hijack your thread..sorry! And ya come online so we can take this discussion forward.

Ditto... second you..

Nanduuu I want you online for more discussionss...😳

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sakshiluvskaran

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Posted: 16 years ago

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@ nandini i agree people are really blaming riddhima too much....ridz and armaan are justified right and wrong at the same time.....ridz question was justified and i do agree to your view point

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Priyanka

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Originally posted by: dmg07

Nandu... banng on.... Communication has always been an issue with our Sanjv dears...

@Armaan and Ridz .. ....

Wish... Ridz sit Armaan down and let him understand...

She loves him... she will be with him.. she will never leave him!! Give him the assurance that things like this

will not lessen her love for him but make their relationship grow..

Why does Armaan do what he does... .
Because Ridz always goes to the Extreme.. just like she did today..

This is the exact fear that Armaan has "Of him losing her" that makes him do the jump around everytime...

I am not saying it is right.. but if Ridz gave him that solid confidence in making sure she will neverrr go and will

love him forever.... i think his nautanki will not be as much!!!

More so with Armaan always getting senti and packing his back and skipping town is not going to make it any better..

we need to grow in this relationship people...

Looks like we are were we were during Kasuali days... 😕

Nandu.. i know u will understand what I am saying...

but..

other readers...I am not saying Armaan is right and Ridz is wrong.... both are right and wrong in their own places..

They just need to mature in love..... in this relationship...

Thanks dear!!!😳

Wowwwwwwwwww wt i wntd 2 say u said ot sooo perfctly👏 Nice post Nandini! u noe d problem lies in deir approach towards ds situation! dey bth r rite and wrong in deir own way!

Armaan luvs Ridz 2 d core and wnts her wth him fr life and soo wnts 2 gt married! he s nt a guy who thinks much.. and so according 2 him apologising 2 Ridz and telling her dat he wont do nything lyk dat again means d end of discussion! whereas Ridz as alwz thinks too much! and wnts Armie 2 do d same.. d quesn she askd him dat if she ws in his place hao wud hav he reacted!!!!! I felt she ws rite asking him cz she wntd him 2 noe wt she ws feeling! and as xpctd Armaan dnt hav ny anwser! bt dat dsnt mean dat u wud say no 2 marriage 2 smthin fr wich u waited sooo long! did she realise dat if he lied 2 her d reason behind it ws her own insecurity isssues!!!!!!!!! and Armaan needs 2 realise dat har baat chhoti ni hoti h! I feel no guys go in such cmplications soo d key s to talk 2 each other and sort out rather dan playing blame games! wich AR alwz do! dey hav 2 think lik WE nt U or ME!!!!!!

Bt still I dun thnk soo cln off d marriage s d rite decision wich Ridz made! if she thinks Armaan s nt understanding den gal make him undrstand! y do u frgt dat u bth dun think alike!! u hav diffrnt mindsets! I had earlier also said dat AR r taking deir marriage as a challenge or a game! and wen Ridz said dat tum jeet gaye and tmhare lie yeh sb ek game h!!! I flt lyk asking her wt she ws doin ws also nt much diifrnt! did she goa nd talk 2 him calmly and approach things ina sensible way! no infct she too played along!

In a relationship wen 1 prson fails 2 understand it bcums a dutie of d other 2 help his/her partner by acting sensibly!! bt unfrtunately AR did nthing lyk ds and soo here dey r on a verge of another................... Dun feel lik saying!

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Spriha

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Posted: 16 years ago

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I think u analyzed everything just perfectly

Rahulz purohit system does luk puzzling..wonder whats in store; Riddhima, uff I just dunt wanna talk about her; Abhi n Nikki have left a hard impression, their story is such that it makes me want to see more n more of them; Armaan n Riddhima- I am afraid Riddhima is going to make me hate the couple; Armaanz accident: DOES luk scary, i hope allz fine !

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nandini

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Posted: 16 years ago

#17

@pri_armaan...thanks sooo much for replying in such a detailed manner 😊...and i agree with most of your points, except that Ridz hasn't exactly called off the marriage yet...all she's asking him to do is think about what she's trying to convey to him, so that their relationship can move on to the next level rather than breaking apart...that is the reason why her reaction does not yet qualify as entirely outrageous, although i do agree that it could have come in a slightly more sensitive package, considering whether it'll really make Armaan think, or just lead him into uncomprehending misery...😳

@Spriha...hey don't hate AR...i know it's just about heart-rending, but it's a step forward, really...ensures that they don't lie stagnant for too long...and it'll work out, i hope, in good time...and yes, i do hope nothing's really serious about that accident, although it looked quite ominous, with the shattered photo-frame, the scattered belongings, even the stuffed toy in the background as Armaan's arm drips blood...gave me the shivers, to be honest...🤔 and yes, i whole-heartedly agree with Doc and Veenz...that this accident should not be an escape route for either AR or the creatives...let's see, let's see...

cheers! 😃

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nandini

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Posted: 16 years ago

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@Doc...🤗 i don't know where to begin...what you wrote so completely and perfectly summed up what i was trying to convey that there's really nothing i could possibly comment on...although i have to point out that i completely and whole-heartedly agree with your view on Armaan's accident...i would not want to see the Creatives resorg to an escape route of this kind...i would still hope for something positive to come of it...maybe it'll be a mindbender for Riddhima when Armaan comes back, because she probably will show concern, and if he's still reeling under last night's meeting, i don't think he'll be all that forthcoming to reciprocate all that affection...hopefully, that'll get the wheel rolling towards some understanding and communiation subsequently...you never know...what is also a question is when Armaan will be back, and in what condition...that accident looked pretty ominous to me, with the shattered photo-frame and the scattered clothes and lots of blood...i have no idea what they're planning to do with this, really...i couldn't even take any reasonable guesses at it this time...😳

let's see, let's see...

cheers! 😃

P.S. Veenz and Doc, you guys are not hijacking anything...😆 hehe...the entire purpose of making this topic was to get down to some good and solid discussion...and that's precisely what you're doing...so i should be tg you for responding to my topic the way you did...! 😃

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Priyanka

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Nandini thanks fr replyin! U cn cl me Pri! hope u rite dat Ridz aint cln ff d marriage!

Yaar dun u fel Ridz need 2 initialise dat wteva Armaan lied 2 her s coz of her own insecurity!! I mean has she ever made Armaan feel spl?? has she takd 2 Armaan and tld hm dat yeah she trust hima nd nthing cn break deir relationship!! if she had instilled ds faith and cnfidence in Armaan den i dun think all ds wud hv hapened!! Armie alwz feels dat Ridz s v possesiv and dats y he dsnt wna loose her ever!!

Dts y Ridz need 2 instill dat cnfidence in hima nd shd talk 2 him!