Ashi - a split personality?

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Although I love Ashi's never say die attitude, her sensitive side and her helpful nature, what I don't get is her blatantly rude behaviour with Sonia, her mother. Sonia has always been an attentive mom. She has been most understanding. She is also the coolest parent. Ashi can relate to Varun's and Leo's tragic pasts with their parents and yet how can she be so uncivil with her own mom? What has Sonia done that makes Ashi hate her so much? She was disrespectful to Sonia in front of the entire class when Sonia came to give sex education. She decided to make out with Sahil just to defy Sonia and then she tore Sonia's clothes because her mom locked her in. This is like a totally different side of Ashi that I am not liking. I feel very sorry for Sonia.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I understand where you are going mango (i'll can u mango from now on😆😳) when ashi can understand everyone else than why not her mom?? See the thing is ashi is a child of a superstar actress and she dislikes it when sonia just becomes center of the attention where ever she goes...it might be the case that ashi is insecure with sonia but i know that is not the case (seeing further remix)...Sonia has given ashi soo much freedom that ashi carves for more...you know how we humans are never satisfied w/ the amount of stuff we get...so she hates it when Sonia just interferes in her matters...rather she thinks that sonia interferes but she doesn't...ashi hates it (atleast right now) when Sonia comes to school and all her friends/classmates goo gaga over Sonia, who is ashi's mom! And thus when sonia decided to lecture, ashi took it wrong way thinking that Sonia wanted center of attention...and you know how they say that you always tend to behave mean and rudely with the person you love the most....that's the case with Ashi-Sonia...Ashi knows that sonia loves her soo much that she won't be able to live w/o ashi and ashi just takes it for granted...And its true that ashi loves sonia a lot too...but she just won't express it!!

I dunno if i was clear enough but lets just say that my mom gives lecture to my classmates...it would feel awkward naa... i mean amongst every classmates ke parents...it has to be my mother who is firstly superstar and always center of attention...then its quite obvious!

Also yes i do agree that ashi is very immature right now but this journey from being immature to mature lady is another amazing aspect of ashi!😳😳😳 Ashi is a great friend and amazing person but she is just taking Sonia for granted!!! That's all i can say mango😆😳😳

PS: Although it was quite immature of her to rip sonia's clothes...but i still loved it!😆😆 I just wish they had shown sonia's expression to that coz i can soo imagine it!🤣🤣
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Nitz yaar ... please not mango! ... All my friends call me LadyM on IF ... and somehow I prefer that too :-)

I know Ashi is insecure of Sonia being the center of attention. But still, I do think she takes her mom's love for granted. How can she see others problems with an open mind, and yet turn blind eye to her own mom? She's never even had a decent conversation with Sonia. It is good that Sonia's character takes her daughter's tantrums in a lighter vein - otherwise someone else in her position would be heart broken by her uncivility.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Okie fine not mango but LadyM sounds too formal and long too! 😔 But fine if u want that i'll call you ladyM😳😳

And i agree to that...sonia is really patient with ashi...ashi is indeed taking sonia's love for granted!! Seriously ashi you need to stop taking it for granted coz sonia is also human...she won't be patient always! I soo agree...agar koi aur mother hoti...she would have seriously slapped ashi and also would have been totally heart broken...but that's why i love sonia too...apart from being cool mom, she sometimes understands ashi too! Sonia is really patient with Ashi yaar!!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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U know d fact that ashi can handle all other problems so welll is testimony of her lvoe and faith in Sonya somehwere even ashi knows it by heart that watever she is shes coz of her mum and i dunno from where u saw Remix but ashi came to maurya only and only for her mum coz else her dad wld have taken her custody from Sonya and ashi didn't want that so for Sonya for her own self she decided ot be part of this skl and belive me ashi hated it atleast before she got friends like mp ranny etc she reallly hated d skl hated d people around and missed her old friends she wanted to run away break out of htis prison where every second person wears a facade for a face but for the first time in her life she couldn't do anything coz she knew it wld mean gng away from her mum.....and yup i agreee sonya is d only one jisko ashi takes for granted but theres a saying u can only afford to take those people for granted whome u r sure off whome u know wld be there wid u for u come wat may no matter how rude or blatent u r wid dem Sonya is ashi''s biggest security infact shes no less than her soulmate ashi knows it very dammed welll that she wnt be complete widout her mum
Did u see that scene where she was talking to vrinda abt vrinda's relationship wid her mom? u shld have seen the shock and disblief she felt on learning ki vrinda doesnt share a special bond wid her mother I mean she was litrallly flabbergusted coz it felt so unreal so unnatural to her and why did it feel that ways to her? Coz she knewwwww it that her own life wld be unimaginable widout her mother that she cant even think of a day where she and her mum wld be strangers to each other Yup she never accepts it not to anyone niether to her own self but she knows dis she lives wid dis stounch belief that Sonya is her biggest biggest support nothing less than God's imprint That is the only reason why she was so shooocked upon leanring Vrinda's relationship wid her mother.
And somewhere even Sonya knows dis she knoooooooooooooooows that ashi loves her from her soulllll Remember the scene where sonya gets the psychologist ka report and she knows it instantly widout even a second's doubt that This report just could not be ashi's coz it had revealed some crasss things abt their relaitonships Sonya knew it that this could not be true at all coz even if dey fight from outside ALL THE TIME stilll from widin she knoooooooooooooooows it that her dotty adores her to pieces and u should have seen ashi's expression then she too wa so shocked and more than shock she was huuuuurt seeing sonya hurt she didn't want her to feel bad about herself or their relaitonship Hd Jumbo no interfeared ashi wld have told Soonya then and there that its not her in the report
I do agree that shes horribly rude to her at times most of the times actuallly but see from where she coming shes just a normal teen and just imagine how she might feel wen everytime shes out everyone just g on oggling at Sonya as if shes some world's wonder So many times she had been subjected to comments like "shes not fit to be her dotty" and wat not...call it a coincedence or wat but jo bhi guys kke liye she felll dey ended up crushing over her mum insted so many tims people cme close not coz dey like her but coz she is Sonya Ray's daughter U tell me wats her fault if her mum is a superstar why should her identity be overshadowed by her mom's identity? Thats wat shes fighting for..to create her own identity distinct from her mum's superstar image so that people love her look up to her envy her not coz shes Sonya Ray's daughter but coz shes a good honest true daring loveable human beingggg..that is the only reason why she hates Sonya getting too involved in ehr skl life yeah she knows Sonya is doing this for her but in d end the dumb crowd goes all flowery eyed for Sonya and den Ashi feels left out and its justifiable anyone wld feel that ways Ashi is a very pproude person she loves herself like anything she loves being Anvesha Banergy Ray Shes her own favorite but this dumb brainless crowd sometimes makes her feel wiered as if she really doesnt deserves to be The Great Sonya Ray's daughter Why just coz shes not pretty in their eyes?( And am saying "in their eyes" coz in my eyes shes beautyfullllllllllllllllllllllllllll every minute every secooooooooooond) All dis makes her odubt herself fills her wid insecurities and she hates that feeelinggg she hates feeling weak and undeserving coz she knows it very welll if any one deserves to be Sonya's daughter its herrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr coz oh welll all dese creepy slimy people wld love Sonya as long as shes a Superstar as long as her face wid glow wid gloss and glitter but the minute all that wld fade away it wld just be Ashi who wld hold on to her who wld be her safe sanctuary She loves Sonya not for wat she is today but she worships her for who she really is since time immemorial she worships the purest part of Sonya Ray ie her soul her real timeless transecedental beauty....and plus i really do feel ashi is freaking possessive about Sonya coz she knows dis is d only soul on earth who wld ever love her dis selflessly...To the world it might feel that ashi doesn't loves her mum and blah but dey r just seeing wat is their on the surface..let things unfold u wld know exactly how much ashi loves her mum....
Grt topiiiiiic LadyM "claps" Ashi-Sonya is my mooooooooooooooooosht fvt bond in the whole show i love dem more than i love Ashi-Yuvi and any opportunity to delve into the mysteries of this pure pure puresht bond is just always more than welcomeeeeeeee I adore eevrything about them every single smallll nano second of their moments together be it their fights ro be it their emotional momentts its just the moooooooooooooooost soul touching experiance to watch them fight and then to see dem reconcile again and fir se become one whole soullll geeeeeeeeeeeeee just love themmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.."TW"😉
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Posted: 16 years ago
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^^ Expected a huge, long post from you on this loons 😆 Lazy to read abhi...will read later and reply! 😛
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Posted: 16 years ago
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FollowYourHeart - sorry I don't know your name, firstly, thanks for responding in SUCH an elaborate manner. Makes the creator of a topic ALWAYS feel good .... So thanks again :-)

I can understand where you are coming from. The bond between Sonia and Ashi is unbreakable. In a mom-daughter relationship nothing has to explicit. Besides Ashi is a teenager, out to prove her identity to the world, so she is jealous of the attention Sonia gets.

I get all that ... what I don't get is - rebel against her mom. She decided to make out with Sahil just because Sonia opposed it w/o thinking about the consequences of right and wrong. Yes, she is a typical teenager, and yes she is attracted to him, but Sahil was very obviously pressurizing her. And if she is smart enough to size up people, she should've known the right from the wrong. I would also have loved to see moments between Sonia-Ashi where Ashi softens up to her mom.

I don't know. It just didn't feel right and felt OTT at times.
Edited by LadyMcbeth - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: LadyMcbeth

Although I love Ashi's never say die attitude, her sensitive side and her helpful nature, what I don't get is her blatantly rude behaviour with Sonia, her mother. Sonia has always been an attentive mom. She has been most understanding. She is also the coolest parent. Ashi can relate to Varun's and Leo's tragic pasts with their parents and yet how can she be so uncivil with her own mom? What has Sonia done that makes Ashi hate her so much? She was disrespectful to Sonia in front of the entire class when Sonia came to give sex education. She decided to make out with Sahil just to defy Sonia and then she tore Sonia's clothes because her mom locked her in. This is like a totally different side of Ashi that I am not liking. I feel very sorry for Sonia.

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One word: Jealousy😆

She's jealous of her own mom because her mother always manages to steal her thunder😆

Also I felt this thing with her mom hid a rather insecure side of ashi...you know she thinks her mom's so sexy and beautiful and she's not....so she lashes out at her sole point of frustration and the only way she knows to get even...by snapping at her mom and unleashing all the pent up frustration and anger and hurt and insecurity on her.

Actually I rather like the way they have shaped up this relationship...cause it develops quite beautifully..with many cute and lovely and emo scenes! It takes the show forward....😊
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: LadyMcbeth

FollowYourHeart - sorry I don't know your name, firstly, thanks for responding in SUCH an elaborate manner. Makes the creator of a topic ALWAYS feel good .... So thanks again :-)

I can understand where you are coming from. The bond between Sonia and Ashi is unbreakable. In a mom-daughter relationship nothing has to explicit. Besides Ashi is a teenager, out to prove her identity to the world, so she is jealous of the attention Sonia gets.

I get all that ... what I don't get is - rebel against her mom. She decided to make out with Sahil just because Sonia opposed it w/o thinking about the consequences of right and wrong. Yes, she is a typical teenager, and yes she is attracted to him, but Sahil was very obviously pressurizing her. And if she is smart enough to size up people, she should've known the right from the wrong. I would also have loved to see moments between Sonia-Ashi where Ashi softens up to her mom.

I don't know. It just didn't feel right and felt OTT at times.



Oh you will see them 😃 It cmes later on slowly and slowly
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Hey LadyMcBeth, u raised some really thought provoking questions about Ashi's rude behaviour to Sonia sometime back ( I can see I'm quite late responding to ur post...:P lol)....I think its part of her personality, the fact that she is outrightly loud and very aggressive and blatantly vocal about her feelings not just to Sonia but to everyone whenever shez happy and more so if shez angry.I agree, being a teenager she takes Sonia for granted...but then again thats the story of every teenager. But looking at her rebellious and fiercely independent nature, most of the time she ends up doing exactly the opposite of what shez been asked to do and likes to be in control of situations which is not the case when Sonia's around. Also regarding the way she tore Sonia's garments, lol..I thought that was one of her mellower response if we consider her gamut of lies and other outbreaks..lol.

But I think I can still relate to the fact that as a teen she wasn't able to see Sahil's wrong side. I think its a different thing to care for other people's emotions (lol..every person other than Sonia...) or empathize with a tragic past of someone... but at the same time you can totally lack correct judgement which comes partly from experience. And she is one optimistic soul by default and thus knowing the hidden agenda of someone by just looking at the outward behaviour is not her cup of tea... shez way too impulsive for that. And that is something I do not expect from a teen ..so I guess when her mom tried to stop her, she thought she was being forced which she hates and thus tried to be protective about her relationship with Sahil ...the way she normally does in all her relationships whether its her friends or Leo....LOL..looks like I wrote a lot...hope its making sense.
Edited by Ipshitaa - 16 years ago

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