hari's behavior... n past marriage?

i had a few inklings regarding what the raaz could be.. but after watching today's episode... they've really strengethened!
what i feel is.. hari was never married to that aatma.. maybe he was supposed to... maybe a childhood engagement or something.. but not marriage...
cuz in today's eiposdes.. when the brothers n baas r discussing.. anant says all that is happening is the same as 10 yrs ago.. rite now hari is 25.. so back then he must've been 15... so a past marriage is not possible..
also from today's episode we know that the mehsaani mangalsutr is the khaandani mangalsutr..... mayb the aatma loved hari.. or a child engagement or something.. n so she believes the mehsaani mangalsutr is hers.. as she was supposed to be the bahu...
another possibility is that kangna was his wife in his past life.. n his past life was also as a raghuvanshi.. which is why when he married her... she wore the mehsaani mangalsutr... which is now the khaandani mangalsutr...
the reason y i think hari wasnt married before in this life.. was cuz hari saying that he tied the mangalsutr on someone else.... was all under the influence of the aatma... hari going away from shri.... hari being pulled to bindiya.. is all under posession of the aatma..
the aatma made him say all this.. in order to break his n shri's relation.. but i dun think hari was actually married to that aatma...
cuz when he 'regained consciousness' n became normal in today's episode.. he told shree he doesnt knw why he feels like he tied the mangalsutr on some1 before... n why he feels like he is searching for someone.. the fact that hari doesnt remember being married.. probably means he wasn't married.. but the aatma is influencing him to feel all this... or even if he was.. it was in a past life... n now he's reborn as a raghuvanshi again.. so seeing the mangalsutr makes him go into these trances (cuz of the aatma).. but when he regains consciousness... he cant recall being married to anyone else.. as it was all from his past life..
n regarding what happened 10 yrs ago on ramnaomi.. i think that is linked to hari's dad's accident... the aatma was a past bahu of the raghuvanshi family... n wore the mehsaani mangalsutr... n now that hari is reborn in the same family.. she's been with hari since... to ensure he doesnt become anyone else's.. n 10 yrs ago.. something must have happened that caused the aatma to cause stuff in the raghuvanshi house (like she is now.. cuz of shree n hari's marriage.. something significant must've happened back then that threatened the aatma's right on hari).. which is why she caused probs in the house.. n on ramnaomi hari's dad had an accident n was paralysed...

i so totally agree, do u know i think that the aatma and hari must have loved each other in the past life and he had promised to marry her and even gave her the mangalsutr or not either way he did not end up marring her because of hari's father (which is why she punished him by causing the accident) and he ended up married to someone else i.e. shree. over time he fell in love with her and forgot the aatma, but she never forgot him and because of the promise he made she still considers herself to have some kind of right over him and his wife.

Originally posted by: chown001

i so totally agree, do u know i think that the aatma and hari must have loved each other in the past life and he had promised to marry her and even gave her the mangalsutr or not either way he did not end up marring her because of hari's father (which is why she punished him by causing the accident) and he ended up married to someone else i.e. shree. over time he fell in love with her and forgot the aatma, but she never forgot him and because of the promise he made she still considers herself to have some kind of right over him and his wife.

yea.. i had something similar in mind too.. and what u say is quite possible too... maybe he promised to marry her... but they were never married... maybe something happened to her.. she died or something (possibly due to hari's father.. maybe he wasn't agreeing to the marriage or something)... which is why he keeps looking for her.. n says he has to go find her (when he was in that trance after seeing the mangalsutr)
n ramnaomi is when the aatma punished the father.. through an accident.. n he got paralysed

I think the Athma's family must have done Vashikaran(hypnotizing) Mantra on Hari and might have got him married to the Athma(when she was alive) coz Hari is from a rich family..and then Hari's family might have killed the Athma or hurt her in some way to get rid of her

I would love to believe that Hari was not actually married to the aatma.He was 15....a very young age to get married(Raghuvanshi's dont look the child-marriage types).And they also mention Vashikaran mantra.A 15 year old girl is very young to do Vashikaran mantra..Then who did that mantra.Someone else is definitely involved in this.

Can't Shree tie a thread on Hari to protect him like she did with ChotiBa?

now that the vashikaran thing has come out.. i'm more sure that this is linked to hari's past life... the aatma was either hari's wife.. or she was supposed to get married to him... but that didnt happen.. she died.. n hari was reborn as a raghuvanshi again.. but the aatma is still wandering.. n so she doesnt want anyone to go near hari...
i think this vashikaran is done by the aatma.. after she died..... n the mangalsutr came out in front of hari when he was 15... which is why he started behaving like he is now... n choti baa must've gotten someone to free hari from the vashikaran (probably the doctor from mehsan that they talked about... he probably wasnt a doctor... but more of a baba or something).... n after hari was freed from the vashikaran... choti n bari baa decided to hide the mangalsutr...
n the aatma didnt bring it in front of hari again either.. cuz she made sure no girl came into hari's life.. but now that hari is married to shree.. the aatma wants to get hari back to her.. which is why she brought out the mangalsutr again..

after watching today's episode.. another idea came into my mind..
at the end.. the aatma told shree that if she tries to remove the vashikaran from the mangalsutr.. then she'll have to pay for it...
i think 10 yrs ago when the mangalsutr came out... hari behaved similarly... n choti baa did something to free him from it.... n the price she had to pay for it was hari's dad's accident.. n paralysis...
choti baa didnt get rid of the vashikaran completely.. but managed to free hari from its effect... n hid it in the tehkhana... probably through some way that restricted the aatma from accessing the mangalsutr..... n so the aatma punished choti baa for that through hari's dad's accident...

the fact that choti baa had hid the mangalsutr in such a way that the aatma couldn't access it.. is probably y the aatma had to use shree to get the mangalsutr out again... n once shree pulled it out.. then the aatma has access to it.. n can get it in front of hari whenever she wants (like she did through the jewellery box falling from the servant's hand)...

n now that shree is trying to get rid of the vashikaran.. the aatma is threatning shree again.. that she'll have to pay for it... just like choti baa had to..