Thanks for understanding!
And coming to your problem, my Punjabi is not really great, so what I gather from your post is that there's a guy who's after you and he even held your hand... You want help to make him stop?
Don't you like him? Because in that case you should be serious and up front and let him know that you can't tolerate such behavior. If he's a friend, let him know that you value your friends but his such behavior causes you problems and if he's a true friend, he'll understand.
Let me know how I can help you in any other way.
-Mahi