Originally posted by: sshekar
Hi Misty!!
Hi Smitha, Great to see you here.
Nice topic you have going here and I could not help but commenting!
Thank You for that.... I was wanting to know what estee, raksha, payal and you among others thought about the whole thing. The discussions have been long over due - dont you think so.
I always regarded Kis desh as being a show which depicted the realities of life. With this angle, they have only reaffirmed this belief.
Firstly, I completely agree with Prem when he questioned Veera about what really happened. It is so like her to completely leave out her hateful words to Nihaal and portray her side of the story. She has always been the spoilt brat, knowing full well that her brothers will side with her no matter what. As a result, she has been using this to her advantage whenever possible...almost arrogant about it at times.
I agree with you there. Prem has always been the most rationale and the mature one of the lot. I think he knows what his sister is like. Plus, with heer having told him everything, I guess he knows the reason for Veera's ire. Probably, in his own way, tried to get to the bottom of the problem. You know all of us, including the creatives are forgetting one thing - that Prem knows nihaal even before he knows nihaal as his wife's brother or his sister husband. Prem knows nihaal as his most trusted lieutant, some one who helped him get to the matter of the entire manmeet episode, which brings to my mind - whatever happenned to the hotels that the Junejas owned? I mean they were still there when Preet was trying to fix things in his own way, before the veera wedding happenned.
If I were in Veera's place, I would have let Nihaal explain what really happened. Then I would call Preet and talk to him about it, tell him that it was a mistake. Nihaal did say he would call and explain to Preet, before Veera started on her rant. It is easier to work things out when a dialogue is open. I agree that it feels bad that your brother lost his job, but at the same time it was completely wrong of her to accuse Nihaal...when he was only doing his job. I know things have been difficult with the Junejas, but what kind of daughter is she really? On the one hand she is always asking her husband to spend money on her, when she could essentially be using the same money to help out her family. So was that really right of her to go off on Nihaal when she has done nothing to help out Preet et al?
Hmn, coming to think of that. It wasnt really right to throw acusses at Nihaal without hearing the complete story. Probably, its her own defence mechanism at play. Probably, its her denial. Veera is the arrogant, immature person who is a manipulator and knows how to use the situationto her advantage. She has always been the conniving one. When there is an heated arguement involved, more often that not, we do not give others a chance to explain as we are angry and upset.
If I were in veera's place, I would have probably called preet and told him what happenned, told him there might have been some mistake and Nihaal would be getting to the bottom of the problem and talk to him about the same. I would have also apologized to Preet on Nihaals behalf.
But then thats me and this is veera we are talking about. Its easier said and done but i agree and that its easy to resolve problems when dialogue is open.
About Nihaal, I think he is doing a son duty of helping veera's family out in his own way. Having said that, I am not going to comment on Nihaal doing his job bit because i think as a financial consultant, he had no right to advise/comment on the number and kinds of ppl to fire.
We all know Veera resents Nihaal and all the things that she told him were horrendous, especially when he so obviously is trying to keep her happy. I do not agree that Nihaal was spineless when he went to apologize to Veera and bing her back. He believes that it was a matter between husband and wife and if it meant that he could bring his wife, then he was willing to do it. In my estimation that makes him a bigger man, despite the fact that his wife just ripped him apart with her insults. It would have been very easy for him to bring his ego into the picture and let things slide. Instead, he put it aside and went to bring her back...willing to work things out with her. I have to applaud that.
Though on one hand, we have to applaud him to putting things aside and going to get veera, on the other, I think, he should have still had the nerve and courage of telling preet. Probably, it was his way of also using this opportunity to apologize to the Juneja's. When I say, Nihaal is spineless, I mean his character is weak. I think the possessive brother in him, will come out, should a tear come in heer and meher's eye. I think he is spineless coz he agreed to not talk to heer should veera and he did the gantbandhan together (again a very unfair proposition). I hope he didnt go to get veera, because he didnt want his sisters bearing the insults of something he did.
Preet is a hot head. He still needs to learn to guage the situation around him and get all his facts straight before he goes off like a loose cannon.
For Preet, it was a matter of his sister coming home late at night in tears. No Brother can see tears in his sister eye. He did then go to Nihaal to get to the bottom of the problem. He did rightly say, that if veera has come home late at night, surely they must be something wrong. Preet did what come to his mind instantly - I think so, could be wrong. Not that preet was wrong. I think he was right in his own view.
I agree with Prem (again) that when something goes wrong in a relationship, there has to be fault on both sides. I think for him it was not about taking sides, but an issue of principle. I like that.
I loved that too. For prem, it has always been a matter of principles, and I guess, he will teach veera in a way that only veera will understand
Heer, I have to say did what a good sister did, and trusted her brother knowing that he would never willingly make Preet loose his job. I think Meher will take sides with Heer and Nihaal and Prem (I hope).
Meher, I think will be quiet one or then knowing how hot headed she is, take preets and veera side. Heer, I think will be the more practical one, like Prem.
I have a strong feeling that Gayatri mom is going to speak up on Monday...she always has whenever someone has accused Prem. Maybe the whole family will take sides again?)...who knows.
I think Gayatri Ma, might speak as well on Monday. I hope she does and I hope they dont edit out the major scenes, like they do always, this leaving us majorly confused. Gayatri Ma, will speak out against veera, (just like when she did, when veera sand harman accused prem of switching the tender) and probably say things in defence of heer and prem and may be nihaal? (after all Nihaal is giving money to his sister so that the Junejas can get back to their feet)
Plenty of stuff happening. But one thing is for sure that Prem sure is working on putting everything right and the first is to make Veera dissappear into a black hole that Estee keeps mentioning!! 😃
You know, for the first time, I am actually looking forward to Monday. Prem is working on putting everything right, in his own way. I wish they show him working again and show heer and prem working together. I fail to realize, how come Prem has not had any flashback of him and preet, him and heer, him and lalu, him and gayatri ma. The only flashback he had of gayatri ma was when he saw her and that too as gaurav.😡 I cant figure out as to how come they havent shown lalit all happy now that his vaada is finally fulfilled...
Wow...just checked out the length of this comment! I hope u don't mind. Again, nice topic and I really liked it!
Thank you. I didnt mind it at all. In fact loved it and hope to see more of you. I know I have to respond to your FF - its brilliant and I have to applaud you for that. Very Contemporary and very much in tune with times - something we can all relate to.
You liked this topic? Okies, I was thinking of having a discussion topic after every episode which highlights such issues - what say. Atleast we will a fair amount of discussion going
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