All About Love - Invite Only - CC #11 -Ck Msg Box

*No inappropriate comments keeping to the forum rules..

Congrats everyone...............

Here's my last post from previous CC..........

@Sanu: I would keep away from guys who are only career minded.......I want balance and would prefer to live in small apartment versus not see my husband for months......:(:(..

@Karu: Did you ask about Honeymoon?? Dh came 4 months earlier for wedding and left for US just after a week..........ughhhhhhhhhhh...He forgot it was India and I couldn't go out on a month long trip with him before marriage.......lolllllllllllllll...Plus I had my midterms as I was in last year, so everything was rushed...........and he wanted to get married few days before Uttrayan which is the worst period and my mom would never ever let me marry during those days.......lolllllllllllllllllll..

@Veenzi: awwwwwwwwwwwwww...So, your sil must be pampering you......:)

Thnkuuuuuu soooooo much Veenzyyyyyyyy*hugs*

WOW CONGRATS GUYS ON the 11th CC

LOL we talk really a lot..hahaha..keep rocking JBS!!!

Originally posted by: angel77

Zaf - Be mentally set to get married in ur 20's or aage chalke ul have probs accepting it and im sure all parents are worried abt their daughters wedding

u noe this is what my mum exactly said...but seriously mein shaadi waadi nahi karni hai....

i even told my mum i would adopt a child and take care of it..i prefer that way you shoudl seen my mum face...shaking her head..she said now i dont but later i will be the one asking her to get me married ROOFFFLLLL

Originally posted by: P_Shal

@Karu: Mine was ARRANGED.......lollllllllllllllll...We knew each other but never thought I would marry him and move to US which was a major turn off for me.......I had this one req. that I do not want NRI.....lollllllllllllllllllll....but since our families knew each other and somehow dh won me over in just few meetings after everyone got serious about it and then some emotional speeches by my aunt about why where he lives shouldn't matter did it...........lollllllllllll..I still blame her that she is the reason I am not in India and blame dh that he didn't have to be sooooooooo smooth........lolllllllllllllllllllllll....

mother at 18??.......ughhhhh..That scares me when girls get married too soon......

wow an aranged marriage which turn to love aaaawwwww....wow di u live in india back then....lol at not wanting to live in US...whats so bad about it...

ok KSG rite...hahha

mummies...ur stories sound soooo cuteeeeeee! s kinda makin me believe in arranged marriages!😃

@Karu: read your last post in last CC...Ditto about child marriage......They are not mentally prepared at all and all the sudden they are adults......and it's sooooooooo sad when you see girls becoming mothers at the age of 16 and 15........😭😭

@Zaf: Nothing is wrong but I have this huge extended family whom I love dearly and never ever wanted to move away from them.......and then India is just special..No other country would take that place in my heart and just that attachment that I didn't want to let go......

@Sanu: Yeap..It's easier to convince dads than moms........lollllllllllllllll...

Originally posted by: dmg07

I think 10 years is wayyy to huge a gap.. u will not relate to each other.. like i said before.. the things that interest u will not interest him... as he has passed that stage..So think about it... it is going to be hard.. Ditto!

@Karu.. mine Arranged.. actually the families knew each other very well... my sil lovesssss me and totally wanted me to marry dh... and i was like whatever.. LOL.. and he was here in the US at that time.. so i was like no wayyyyyy.. i am not going to go there... lol.... but she insisted on me meeting him when he was there on hols and rest is history.. Awww!

Honeymoonnnn.. haaaaaiiiiii laaaaaaa.. don't even ask.. i had booked.. Goa.. Fort Aguada.. and dh cancelled it as he wanted to spend time with mum😡... bless her love her.. but WTH!!! i was maha pissed and i stilll give him grief!!! LOLLLLLL
Noo wayy!! But abhi der nahi hui hai 😛

Originally posted by: P_Shal

@Karu: Mine was ARRANGED.......lollllllllllllllll...We knew each other but never thought I would marry him and move to US which was a major turn off for me.......I had this one req. that I do not want NRI.....lollllllllllllllllllll....but since our families knew each other and somehow dh won me over in just few meetings after everyone got serious about it and then some emotional speeches by my aunt about why where he lives shouldn't matter did it...........lollllllllllll..I still blame her that she is the reason I am not in India and blame dh that he didn't have to be sooooooooo smooth........lolllllllllllllllllllllll....
LOLL Urs and Vz story is soo similar
ROFFLL @ ur Aunt's RB

mother at 18??.......ughhhhh..That scares me when girls get married too soon......exactly!! Its child marriage yaa u may become an adult officially but mentally ur still a kid yaa ughh

@Hamzi: ENJOY YOUR LUNCH BABE.......

Originally posted by: P_Shal

@Sanu: I would keep away from guys who are only career minded.......I want balance and would prefer to live in small apartment versus not see my husband for months......:(:(..
Again Ditto

@Karu: Did you ask about Honeymoon?? Dh came 4 months earlier before wedding and left for US just after a week..........ughhhhhhhhhhh...He forgot it was India and I couldn't go out on a month long trip with him before marriage.......lolllllllllllllll...Plus I had my midterms as I was in last year, so everything was rushed...........and he wanted to get married few days before Uttrayan which is the worst period and my mom would never ever let me marry during those days.......lolllllllllllllllllll Poor thing!! *hugs* 😆

@Veenzi: awwwwwwwwwwwwww...So, your sil must be pampering you......:)

Iv done full future planning (this was when there was no guy also lolllll)

• Wedding - it cant be one of those simple ones it has to be grand kisi bhale aadmi ne kaha tha....hum ek baar jeete hai ek baar marte hai shaadi bhi ek hi baar hoti hai so no chindigiri LOLL
• Honeymoon - Nice Montecarlo and Monacco (i went ther and kept think what the hell am i doing with my parents!)
• Kids - Nivaan and Nayesha (cannot take the risk of Armaan cos il be the only mom who blushes sayin her own son's name)