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Jhanvi

@desigrl05

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 17 years ago

There are many ways that we can all relate to this story and many ways we're eons from even being related

but here's the ways i think we can

-we're girls in this forum, we all know the will to have fun with friends without being watched down

-we havelimitations and cerfews

-all of our mothers worry endlessly about pointless things lol

heres a way i found it really 'culture shock' per se

coming home at 8pm is late 😕

hey, now i am not sure how this applies in some homes but as for myself , i am 21 , and if i am home by midnight my parents are pretty okay if i am out shopping or hanging out with friends [yes even guys!]

i feel that akshi's parent's either don't trust akshara enuff to let her out or they're super strict and anal about some things...

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Imran

@-Imu.M-

Rocker

+ 5

Posted: 17 years ago

Hey There is one Boy here lol, Me ..

Anywaii Well you see, Some Parents tends to Live the Life in good manners so no Outsider Points at you, Plus the generation is Now Very much Bad, as we all know

Plus us asians are pretty much scareds of future and what might people say, Well where i live is a Bengali Society, if a girl is seen after Nine, Do not wanna know what happends next morning ..
You know ..
They are strict
asian's are most Strict, Specially India

Imran

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Sanaya

@Sanayaa

Inactive

Posted: 17 years ago

I don't know about midnight but
staying outside till 8-9 pm shuld be allowed Its pretty fine
But one of my frnds parents are so strict
They don't allow her to move outside from the house They are very strice nd
totally agree wid Imran
We r most strict

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-SalShah4eva-

@-SalShah4eva-

Elite

+ 3

Posted: 17 years ago

Hey this stil happened in today

i sawwwwwwwwww

my mom is like that

jeezzzzzz

indian parents

dudeee

goshhhhhhhhhh

lolz

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Riya

@Riya.pk

Navigator

Posted: 17 years ago

But the thing is it depends on where you live too, I live in Canada and these things arn't such a big deal because here, when you walk down the street it's not like you know every person whereas in a place like where Akshara lives everybody knows who she is and who's daughter she is and they're also all the same ethinicity. And we all know that ofcourse indian's parents like to gossip. And once someone says something about Akshara they'll begin to put her down and what not which will make it difficult for her to get married. Judging by the way her parents are it's obvious that her marriage will be arranged.

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AreYaar

@AreYaar

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+ 19

Posted: 17 years ago

I guess it all depends on where you live and where you've been brought up.

8 pm would be considrered late if it's dark outside and your child....especially a girl, hasn't returned home yet. In small towns atleast, I can vouch for this....parents wouln't be comfortable with their children staying out after dark....girls especially for the most part....the boys are allowed free reign.....classic double standards....LOL

Plus in this show, Akshara's family has been shown to be a very conservative family....so it is understandable why this is all a big no-no to them.

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PrInCeZz07

@PrInCeZz07

Rocker

Posted: 17 years ago

lol hehe
well am 14
but yh i can stay out late i guess with my friends
and yh where you live too does have an impact and i guess the people you hang around with does too
but i guess asian parents are like that
they do worry and do like to see girls in particular at home in the night lol

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roneeta

@ronitfan

Trailblazer

+ 3

Posted: 17 years ago

Well it's late around 9-10 pm .,. and DEFINITELY late if you are out alone!

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sweetladki87

@sweetladki87

Beginner

Posted: 17 years ago

I think it depends on families and where you grew up like everyone else said above.

When I used to live in India, my parents were strict. I have told them couple of times now and their response was that we didn't want you to take a wrong step in the life that you regret it later on.

I am about turn 22 now and my parents wouldn't like the fact that i stay out late but they are ok with it because i don't stay out everyday. i go out once in awhile.

Asian parents are like that...they don't let girls stay out late in fear of society and they believe that if girls stay out late, no guy will marry her.

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Sati

@Sati

Explorer

Posted: 17 years ago

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It basicially depends on your parents........... My folks are ok with any time i come home as long as they know where i am .........

You know in canada its pretty safe.....i mean relatively safe.......... you most of the time dont have to worry about being stalked......or being commented on........... or being touched unnecessarily 🤢

born and raised most of my life in india......jeez life of a woman is not so free as in canada...............It is always your fault........even if useless fellows with nothing to do are stalking you 😡...........purity is related to woman............😡

Another thing........... family background and expectation .............like my folks have same curfew for my bro too.....[lol]( i cannot believe my mom's silly worries about my brother [lol]) poor him........... as long as they know where he is they are ok..............If their ambition is only to get u married then u know its expected....but they want you to become something in the world and have your own name and place then its another thing..........its all thinking..............and ofcourse society

Edited by Sati - 17 years ago