You have no idea how dissapointed I am at Mr. Kohli right now! 😡
In the US the marrige scene happened yesterday and today and I about had it with him!
He's a great dad and all that overall but since the engagment he's been ticking me off lately!
I understand your daughter's (Trish's) heart is broken, she's in pain, not only is she betrayed but you also suffer these feelings along with her and the rest of the family (excluding Kul). Yes I understand the marrige was a big deal and he was hurt by it (besides trish, it hurt him the most). And I understand his anger towards Yuv, he believes Yuv played not only Trish but now he's playing Tanya.But what I'm not comprehending is his attituted towards Tanya. I know he doesn't know the truth, so I expect him to be mad, feel betrayed, hurt, confused, pain, overwhelmed etc. But right now it's madenning!
He said at the engagment, that he hates Tanya (or somewhere along the lines, I cant remember, it was very hurtful) he blames her, he says Tanya ruined everything! Now last time I checked Tanya was still his daughter, not just Trishna! (Unless he disowned her for a moment also) Why is he picking favorites? Does Tanya's feeling no longer matter to him? I know your ballastic too, but your her father, you shouldn't do that. Trishna didn't want an explanation -- I can accept; her sister don't one either -- I can sorta of accept; but you, I can't accept! You are her father, at least ask her what happenned, how it happened, why it happened. Would you daughter hurt you like that, someone who means everything to you, do you honestly believe she's capable of making you cry or worry? Care about her, if Trishna is hurting in her world fine but you should see that Tanya's not exactly enjoying her "marrige" or loving her hubby.
I get that you can't stand Raj. But at the engagment and weddings you shouldn't have refused to give aashirvaad or do the poojas or bless the couple. He couldnt even look at them right. At the very end when it was time for the bidaii he let Tanya hug him, and he kind of looked at her apologeticly.
At this moment I loved Kul! I love her! I loved what she said about Raj (Yuv) love how she called them her sons and how great raj is. Now I know she's just nice b/c she knows the truth, but I'm not diccusing her I just remembered her and I wanted to mention it. (Thats why its in small print)
So obviously I'm not fully understanding his attitude. Can someone explain to me what's this all about. Regradless of the anger he shouldn't have treated Tanya that way, she is still his daughter.
&& feel free to disagree or whatever, I want to understand this and entertain myself with your views!
Wiht much love: Dhruvi (:
Edited by indianchaklii - 16 years ago