the couples:: I am not seeing it!

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Posted: 16 years ago
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what am I missing here?? If everyone else see something that I don't see I always think I am missing something.I tend analyze every situation, it's a habit I enjoy very much and it doesn't bother me. To be honest it's quite natural.

Why are some people mentioning the couples are not working out, or "moving on". What is the definition of moving on? Trishna does not LOVE Yuvraj. You might hate it or you might like it but she doesn't love Raj. She has moved on. Now go ahead say to yourself she loved him 2 days ago, she can't get over it that soon. Well maybe we see love in a different way then. It's an emotion! It's natural. You don't choose to love, it happens. Trishna gave more of herself to Rajdeep then she gave to Yuv. She was attracted to Yuv! Mausam accha tha...everything was going the sweet romantic way and it happened. Rajdeep and Trishna are on a different boat! They are married, Rajdeep almost gave his life for her, She is committed to him, she shared her body with him <--which by the way I think is huge. She still likes Raj. I am not saying she never loved Raj but now she loves Rajdeep. She has no intentions of going to Yuvraj. The only reason she is going to him now is because she needs HIS help. If she thought Mausa could help him she would go to him. But Raj is her only option.

Now let's talk about the eyelocks. I still feel awkward around my ex who I left 2 years ago. I don't love him and I have no intentions of being with him. But we still end up sharing that look sometimes.It happens. It takes time. Once they are done revisiting their memorylane they will stop.

Bottomline:: Trish loves Raj! If Rajdeep didn't have a abnormal past she wouldn;t think about Raj! For now she needs his help as her FRIEND and her husband's FRIEND!

Now for Yuvraj

He has moved on! He cares about her! Just like I cared yesterday when I thought something happened to my ex. I don't believe love ever goes away. If it goes away then you have never loved. But...the relationship can evolve into something else, or you can love someone else in a more powerful way. He doesn;t cry over her. I doubt he dreams about her every night. He has moved on too. Now what are we looking for here? you want him to get on his knees and start confessing to Tanya. He married her to save her. I doubt he expects to fall in love with her. He does care for her and love her but not in a romantic way. I want him to take his time.

So I must be missing something. Because from where I see it both couples have moved on just fine! The problems they are having has NOTHING to do with their secret incomplete feelings!

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Posted: 16 years ago
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In todays episode.... It was clear...... what the heck rajdeep is doing.... I think he loves trish very much........... but he is so wild.............. and raj wtz going on with him..... Im hating this drama now... they didnt have any better way to develop a romantic situation between tanya and raj.......just tanya dying for raj..... and also they already made mess with all that kanhiya's baby........ I feel so sad for tanya.. I wish there would be someone else who loves her.. but I wouldnt want to see taaj breaking
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Posted: 16 years ago
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That was amazing Fatima 👏
I agree with you 100%, couldn't agree with you any more 😛
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Posted: 16 years ago
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i agree with you too....i just hope rajdeep-trishna and raj-tanya relationship doesn't breaks off
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Posted: 16 years ago
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30,000 foot level---I do not think the relationships have moved on MEANINGFULLY. They have moved on, trying to focus on their respective relationships. But here is where I think we need to separate the two relationships:
Trishna-Rajdeep: T. felt like she had nothing else, with Yuv having married Tanya. And with Kul's pressure, she did.
Yuv-Tanya: Yuv voluntarily married her to protect her...not to love her....not to have a traditional marriage. Yuv cares for Tanya but is generally unmoved by her in a romantic sense. It should have been easier for Trish to have a mutual marital relationship.

I have to disagree with your conclusions on a couple of things:
1. Trishna does not love Yuv--possibly, she is committed to making her marriage work. Her love for Yuv has become less, but is swept under the proverbial rug.

2. Trishna gave more of herself to Rajdeep than to Yuv--true, only in one way. She gave him her body, as he was her husband. I believe that Trishna had loved and gave more love to Yuv unconditionally and without doubts.

3. He doesn't cry over her anymore, but I think in a way he does mourn her and is protective of her happiness, which he shot to hell. I don't think the separation is that brutal now. They do live in the same house though (yuck).

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