Is Manno Bhabhi'sBehaviour really OK & acceptable

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Friends....... Tell me one thing.... don't you think that Manno bhabhi is a bit TOO MUCH with Kaveri(Or better to say After Kaveri)??????????????????????😲 I know Kaveri's NO ANGEL😈 but..... she's after all a daughter-in-law of that house,Samar's wife n she deserves some respect..... in the dance Manno Bhabhi And Bhabho made fun of Kaveri as a 'trouble' in Samar's life....and Samar was laughting to that!!!!!😭Could Nahar or Brijesh or Saloni's dad have done that if people made fun of their wives??????????? Manno Bhabhi even said that even if you dip bitter gourd{Karela} in Sugar it doesn't turn Sweet etc.... again in the precap they show Manno Bhabhi is ordering kaveri to bring Tea.... KAVERI IS PREGNANT!!😲She NEEDS A BREAK..... Is manno bhabhi's attitude positive? Is that how should one behave with a person who is trying to change? I donot like Manno bhabhi's behaviouršŸ¤”šŸ‘ŽšŸ¼ Guys.... NO PERSON CAN BE 100% BAD..... I think they are making too much fun of Kaveri....😔

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parm11 thumbnail
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Kav misbehaves all the time, MB is famous for putting Kaveri in her place
ramas thumbnail
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I agree with you somewhat. But In India older realtives behave like that with bahus. Also kaveri had insulted time and time again and made her feel like an outsider. MB is tai(chachi) of samar and helped raise those kids. mB is the same who took ambi narpat to her house when samar kaveri threw them out.
Also kaveri is not sick or anything and all the work is done in the house by ambi.
Just tell me is kaveri right in treating ambika and narpat liek slaves.
MB is the one who brings back respect to elders in that house.
Kaveri is pregnent and not sick. No one says preg lady should rest all the time. I have seen ladies handling household and keeping full time jobs till nine months. Unless preg lady is prescribed bed rest it is good for them if the stay active.
In my opnion kaveri needs reminder that she is not the boss of the house and she pretends to be a changed person but hates saloni's lower caste daughter sweta while she has no objection in raising ginni's daughter despite not knowing who is nikita's father.
I can go on and on about kaveri.
In short kaveri has ill treated all young and old and she deserves to be treated that way or worst.
Edited by ramas - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
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making tea when u r pregnant isn't that much of a work.....i know about pregnant woman with two other small kids running around the house taking care of absolutely everything. They dont have anyone else to help them at all. I would have understood if MB was making her do heavier work...but they are just making fun of Kaveri...it is just harmless. Even Kaveri needs to be put on place.......she never changes
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: simplytoxic

making tea when u r pregnant isn't that much of a work.....i know about pregnant woman with two other small kids running around the house taking care of absolutely everything. They dont have anyone else to help them at all. I would have understood if MB was making her do heavier work...but they are just making fun of Kaveri...it is just harmless. Even Kaveri needs to be put on place.......she never changes

exactly that is my point. MB cares for samar and her unborn child and won't do anything to harm him/her.
I too have a freind who had one child after another and she took care of 2 children her household and her job by herself when huby was away for long assignment. i was amazed with her stamina bcos she was 6 month preg and was so big and yet doing everything by herself.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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when I was pregnant the buses had stopped running on my route to work so I had to walk a good 10 minutes to work also come home and look after the rest of the family this was until I was 8 months pregnant.
I would have loved to stay at home and only make tea occassionaly but my mother in law came in the last month and was cleaning the house which was nice but more work for me as then I had more cooking to do, right upto the last minute
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Comments just based on precap, dont know full story:):
I agree with you especially the precap. Kaveri was making tea and if Manno Bhabhi needed tea in a different way, she could have asked her properly. Or even said I cannot have this tea so I WILL MAKE IT MYSELF AS I AM ALSO A MEMBER LIVING IN THIS HOUSE. Kaveri may not be a good person, but she does deserve respect IN HER OWN HOUSE!! Isn't the house she is living in her own. I agree that Manno Bhabhi is right at times, but if Kaveri is treating Ambica wrong, Ambica needs to stand up on her own. Manno Bhabhi is a relative and needs to be respected, but putting myself in place of a daughter-in-law, I would not accept relatives to come to my home and speak to me the way Manno Bhabhi does.. calling me a karela on my face or terming me as a museebat (especially when there was no provocation, argument or difference of opinion and it was not said in a fit of anger) would definitely not be acceptable.
It is good that MannoBhabhi is back and I like her character most of the times, but even if you know that a person is bad, there is a way of putting forth. If without provocation or at every possible instance someone tries to put you down, then KAveri's resentment would be justified as no human being will like being called a Karela by a relative while ones family smiles.
All said and done, when Kaveri does something wrong, dont forgive her and let her in the house. Letting a person get away with being bad, taking her back in the house as ghar ki izzat, ghar ki bahu, etc or maybe just because she is pregnant with your grandchild and then insulting her should not be accepted. Just becoz its Kaveri, doesnt mean that putting her down in this fashion is acceptable. In fact after being called a Karela, Kaveri did not retort or start a fight and that shows restrain.
They should show Manno Bhabhi getting back to her , as she definitely needs it most times, at appropriate times and not always.
Also, Tara too gets away easy. Then why doesnt Manno Bhabhi taunt her, only becoz she is Saloni's Bhabhi??? Then by the same token, Kaveri is Samar's WIFE. However she is, Samar accepts her. Every relation should be respected. If Kaveri has made Manno Bhabhi feel like an outsider, Manno Bhabhi has also retorted and is still staying with them. But every retort should have a time and place.
Sorry for the extra long post, but Manno Bhabhi's comments have crossed respect for a human being (whoever it is) according to me. No offense to anyone.. just penning my two bits.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Normally , monica , i wud have agreed with u .
However what u say applies to normal people , not Kaveri . Kaveri is an abnormal human being who takes immense pleasure in other people's pain . Always .
If she kept quiet inspite of Mannobhahi's taunt , it is not out of ' restrain' but coz Mannobhabhi is the only person who scares her a little . Had she opened her mouth to ' Give back ' to Mannobhabhi , Mannobhabhi wud have not kept quiet like Ambi but unmasked many of Kaveri's wrong doings in front of the guests...........somethings that Kaveri doesnt want the guests to know .
If Mannobhabhi doesn't accord Kaveri the respect due to a bahu ........it is coz she knows very well how cruel , stonehearted and bad really Kaveri is . It is to Mannobhabhi's credit that she loves Samar so much that she has not ' gone after ' Kaveri in the real sense ...........had she done so , perhaps many of Kaveri's deeds wud have been unmasked and it wud have been a relief to society . Since she is Samar's wife.....Samar , whom Mannobhabhi dearly loves , Mannobhabhi who is capable of really going after Kaveri , often looks the other way and leaves it only at that ......by giving her an occasional taunt . Which by the way , Kaveri deserves one hundred percent .
Before anyone else feels so bad for Kaveri's so called ' respect '..........I wish to ask them ............has Kaveri respected any individual , even her husband , in her life ? She has only taken utmost pleasure in humiliating others and stripping them of their respect that too in public....humilating Ambika in front of her socialite friends like a servant , counting Narpat's coffees and telling Ambi to cut them down as it increases household expenses , always making a public tamasha of her good sister in law Saloni at parties when Saloni never insulted her ........btw , since we r on the topic of ' respect ' ...........Kaveri showed the biggest disrespect to Saloni by telling her that she was of a cheap character . She showed disrespect to her own husband by telling ginnis neighbours and roadsiders that look my husband is having affair when she cud have discussed this in private with her hubby .
So u see , for a person like Kaveri who thrives on ' disrespecting ' people , one such taunt is no big deal at all . And it is not maganimity or restrain on Kaveri's part that keeps her silent in front of MB but love for her own precious butt .........as she knows that MB will strip her in a second .It is simply being wary of a strong foe or enemy .
Btw , before feeling so much for Kaveri's ' respect ' , remember she is a lady who put her innocent mother in law in jail by poisoning dabbas of schoolchildren . Not only wud the innocents have died , her mother in law wud have been convicyed of a crime she never committed . Also , the maharani Kaveri sits with full make up and makes her aged Sasumaa slog in the kitchen .........she is ' respected and pampered ' a bit too much by that family if u ask me . Kaveri has not been found out for her crime but lady prisoners who r pregnant get treatment out of humanity , definetely no ' respect '. Compared to this , Kaveri is treated like a queen .
What she really desrves is not just making tea , but circumstances where she really slogs till the last day of her delivery like many ladies all over the world .
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Well said ramas, u are 100% correct, I totally agree with all what u have said about Kaveri.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Kaveri called for it... there were so many times she was given a chance to become a better person, but she always chose to be insulting and manipulative who took advantage of others goodness and also in bad times.............

Tit for tat........

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