family or bf? - Page 2

hi guys
yours comments are very goods. In my view every person have their own thinking. so would like to says about that the both thing are right their places in both place are a parts of over human life. so family or bf are both is important thing to manner their life.

manoj

blahh!! y is life sooo complicated?!?! y cant everyone have a mutual understanding among themselves?!

well the situation isn't about family or bf. ur family will accept him as soon as he is qualified...well, as he should be! he's 22, he needs to start uni and graduate!
So yes and ur parents like him otherwise..

so the problem is just that your cousin won't talk to you and ur bf is angry at him for saying crap to you. Well...look at it this way, both the men in ur life are only worried about you. ur cousin said mean things coz he was hurt but also coz he was worried for you too (u know how it is...bhais and their protectiveness)...and ur bf loves u and respects you, so he cant handle the bad stuff ur cousin said about u.

but yes, like a previous member said, try convincing your bf, that ur cousin was just really angry...and yes, he shouldnt have said all those bad things, but everyone makes mistakes, and ur cousin also made a mistake. but he's family after all.

and to ur cousin, approach him first, if he believes that since ur younger u shud...besides he also probably feels that maybe you should've gone to him first, rather than keep it all secret. and just apologise to him for not letting him know and for hurting his feelings. i dont think u need to even bring ur bf into the convo...like dont really mention him, but just apologise for hurting his (ur cousin's) feelings.

and then let time fix things.

and let us know what happens 😊

hey ur advice reallyyyy made sense! n wow!! thnk u so much! honestly...really nice advice.

i think ur cousin cares about u alot and wants the best of everythin 4 ya.. true, that he swore at u, most likely cause ur very close to him and he felt bad when u didn't tell him about ur bf.

hey..but im tooo scared to talk to him...n he doesnt even try talkin to me..so it makes it really hard!

awww you poor thing. I think your cousin might had said that because he was upset or probably he got jealous that you chose his friend as ur bf and didn't told him all this before. This situation is kind of worse and I would say don't worry about it, it'll be over before you even know it.

Hey Raksha Bandhan is coming up next saturday...n im obviously gonna tie Rakhi on my cuzin...so i donno i hope there will be a miracle dat day n we can solve our problem. i really hope me n my cuzin start talking again cuz its been 6 months we havent talked. i really miss him. he used to care sooooooo much abt it..i was a spoiled sister i must say!! he loved me more than my real brother! seriously! i still care abt him da same way...i still consider him my older bro!