flirting boyfriend...

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Posted: 17 years ago
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I don't know if it's ok for my boyfriend to flirt with his costar or if it's every guy's natural habit of flirting with girls as well as looking or staring at other girls. my boyfriend does love me as he blows me kisses and talks about marriage with me on random ever since the beginning of our relationship. We haven't gotten into any fights lately and I'm not having any problems with him. I grew up withOUT a father and a brother so I don't know a guy's nature in love.
GUYS:
do you flirt to get your girlfriend jealous OR do you flirt with girls for other reasons and what are they?
I heard that a guy will love only one girl but he'll flirt with many .. is that true?
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: xsweetbabygyalx

I don't know if it's ok for my boyfriend to flirt with his costar or if it's every guy's natural habit of flirting with girls as well as looking or staring at other girls. my boyfriend does love me as he blows me kisses and talks about marriage with me on random ever since the beginning of our relationship. We haven't gotten into any fights lately and I'm not having any problems with him. I grew up withOUT a father and a brother so I don't know a guy's nature in love.

GUYS:
do you flirt to get your girlfriend jealous OR do you flirt with girls for other reasons and what are they?
I heard that a guy will love only one girl but he'll flirt with many .. is that true?

I think it depends on the guy...
I will not comment from my point of view becuase I wouldnt even think about another girl if I like one, let alone dating...
I have friends who have girlfriends (even married guys), who still "check" girls out, and they might look and talk to them, but they are still loyal to their g/f wife... I dont think its ok to do this, even if its just a thought, but it seems society makes this normal...
But really tho, I have to say.. From seeing my friends, there will always be that one love, even tho you may talk to a girl etc..But it all depends on the guy, how much "attention" he is showing to other girls etc..
Some guys are weak, some are strong when it comes to holding relationships etc.. And then if you tell the guy how you feel, he thinks ur jelous...But i think it depends on how you tell him how you feel...
Also you can see some signs in guys.
1. If he loses all awarness when hes with you and another girl walks by.
2. if he comments on another girl looking good (this is bad) infront of you.
3. If he keeps alot of "friend girls", like i mean allot.
4. If he watches tv and does not change the channel, or doesnt talk when a "attractive" girl comes on etc..
5. If he talks about liking other girls aomongst his guy friends (not just famous celeberties too)..
All in all, i think your ok, your b/f is porbbaly either being nice. But there is a fine line between flirting and being nice....
I wouldnt want someone i luv to "flirt", but if they are friend like, it would be ok.. I guess it depends on the point of view of flirting etc...
😳hope it helps from a guys point of view...
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Posted: 17 years ago
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to tell you the truth...i wouldnt like a flirting bf...i've had one and i didnt like it...cuz he had wayyy more Female friends than Male friends... but besides that if he is serious with you then it doesnt matter cause you gotta trust him =]
lol sorry but i cant give a guys view on this 😆
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: AsliiGuy

I think it depends on the guy...
I will not comment from my point of view becuase I wouldnt even think about another girl if I like one, let alone dating...
I have friends who have girlfriends (even married guys), who still "check" girls out, and they might look and talk to them, but they are still loyal to their g/f wife... I dont think its ok to do this, even if its just a thought, but it seems society makes this normal...
But really tho, I have to say.. From seeing my friends, there will always be that one love, even tho you may talk to a girl etc..But it all depends on the guy, how much "attention" he is showing to other girls etc..
Some guys are weak, some are strong when it comes to holding relationships etc.. And then if you tell the guy how you feel, he thinks ur jelous...But i think it depends on how you tell him how you feel...
Also you can see some signs in guys.
1. If he loses all awarness when hes with you and another girl walks by.
2. if he comments on another girl looking good (this is bad) infront of you.
3. If he keeps alot of "friend girls", like i mean allot.
4. If he watches tv and does not change the channel, or doesnt talk when a "attractive" girl comes on etc..
5. If he talks about liking other girls aomongst his guy friends (not just famous celeberties too)..
All in all, i think your ok, your b/f is porbbaly either being nice. But there is a fine line between flirting and being nice....
I wouldnt want someone i luv to "flirt", but if they are friend like, it would be ok.. I guess it depends on the point of view of flirting etc...
😳hope it helps from a guys point of view...

wow this information is soo helpful and it helps me out a a a lot .. now i know which signs to look out for. I think he was being nice though, he is sweet and has respect for girls. He has mixed combination of friends, males and females mixed. He mentions that he loves certain actresses who are my favorite as well and we both have a list of favorite actors, actresses, and singers in addition to songs.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Angad luver#1

to tell you the truth...i wouldnt like a flirting bf...i've had one and i didnt like it...cuz he had wayyy more Female friends than Male friends... but besides that if he is serious with you then it doesnt matter cause you gotta trust him =]

lol sorry but i cant give a guys view on this 😆

thanks, your advice/suggestion also helped 😊 my boyfriend doesn't flirt with his female friends, it was just at work on air 😆 I think he was being nice because he's a really nice guy and has respect for girls. I think that's what it was. He never flirts though, it's just rare. He quit flirting when he very first settled in his career but I think since i'm romantic in the relationship, he once did mentioned that he's trying to bring his romanticism back so that's what I guess he's trying to do 😆 thanks for your lovely advice though.
it's ok, you didn't had to give a guy's view on this .. lol 😆 I said that just in case guys read this post .. girls are always welcome to share their opinion.

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