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tamanna

@ammy_tamanna

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Posted: 17 years ago

Hello friends…..

Here I am; wid another topic…where opinions will really vary…..

But it's a humble request to all

Do reply

So …guys…we know very well….dat in sanjeevani…its all the time like dat "LOVE IS IN THE AIR"…rite..whether…its armaan-riddhima, rahul-muskaan, atul-angie or shubhankar-kirti….seniors, juniors…all in love…

Bt wats more important is how dis ends up all…..in MARRIAGE na….

I jus wanna knw hw many of u in real life…feel dat

LOVE MARRIAGES ARE MORE SUCCESFUL DAN ARRANGED ONES!!!!!

Well I knw the vice-verca case finds an equall probability

ARRANGED MARRIAGES ARE MORE SUCCESSFUL DAN LOVE ONES!!!

Wat u guys think…which ones are more successful and why????

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123abc123

@123abc123

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Posted: 17 years ago

i agree from a personal view yh arranged marriages work better i think its coz you dn't know them that much but u get to know them its not boring obviously if u feel confortable in dis marriage i guess it gives u a chance to get to know sum1 find out new things dats wot i fink bt its your own choice whether or not u choose to have an aranged/love

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Smita

@GK001

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Posted: 17 years ago

i think so that arranged marriage are more successful than love

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Khushbu

@Khushi34

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Posted: 17 years ago

i fink it all depends on the people..its not realli hw u get married it how u understand each otha....n deal with ur problems.....a couple who had a love marriage is as equally likely 2 fight as sum1 who had an arranged marriage..bt marriage, realtionship and ts success depends on how u deal with fings...lol

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armaanilicious

@armaanilicious

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Posted: 17 years ago

depends if u no ur husband from first only chances are there will be less fights cos ur used 2 each other since day one and kno how the persons gonna react...whereas in arranged u have 2 really get 2 no the person well otherwise u may face certain probs adjusting...

in love marriage u cud get bored of the person cos u no him since sooo long whereas in arranged its all new and exciting....

both have their pros and cons...but according 2 me both can u successful if u want it to be!

karishma

Edited by angel77 - 17 years ago

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Richa Gupta

@aquarianleo

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Posted: 17 years ago

I believe if two people understand each other very well and respect each others feeling and thoughts and ready to adjust with each other then whether came together thru LOVE marriage or ARRANGED marriage it will be successfull.

though I agree LOVE marriges have more colours as u more of a friedn with ur partner than being just a soulmate so that Adds more flavour and colour to ur life.

I prefer LOVE MARRiAGE.

Richa

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tamanna

@ammy_tamanna

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Posted: 17 years ago

come on guys.....i wanna knw more......

till now arranged marriage is being more preferred!!!!

anybdy else in favour of love marriage?????????

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Naina.M

@Naina.M

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Posted: 17 years ago

It's basically a matter of one's personality and attitude that makes a marriage work!!!

Ours is a love marriage and...its going great for over a decade.

I am not against arranged marriages butI prefer love marriage simply because I don't like to GAMBLE 😉

Plus, they say- Aake duniya mein ...agar pyaar na kiya toh kya kiya!

Seriously we only have one life...and I would rather have a "say" in my life's most important decision ...I would like to know the person before I decide to spend the rest of my life with him.

And some of my friends that preferred arranged marriages...had the logic- if something goes wrong later ...at least they can go back to the parents and hold them responsible. But I personally find that logic ..pretty weak. How does it help - if you have someone else to blame...does it make the situation any better?

I would rather blame myself ...than blame someone else ....esp. my dear parents would be the last people on this earth that I would like to blame.

And trust me - You don't have to be desperate...love finds its way- you'll know when the Right one will come you way!

And if both of you get the correct vibes and are confident about your choice-LOVE marriage can always be Arranged😉...afterall... parents just want their kids to be happy.

You do have to make an extra effort in a love-mariage to work ...as you don't have a back door.

Instead of the trademark "dhamaki" - Mein maayke chali jaaong......you BEHAVE 😆😆

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Glinda Elizabeth Kushero

@Ezria_Fan_4ever

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Posted: 17 years ago

ahhhh, i dont know, im quite small to even think of marriage now

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khadijaaa

@khadijaaa

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Posted: 17 years ago

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i seriousely have noo idea abou t it i just know tht i can never doo love marraige........its not cuz of my parents........its just i can never fall in love.......i just cant

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