Originally posted by: akhl
My parents passed away long back.
oh...!
now i get the situation as to why ur taking all this crap in. that guy really deserves a slap. he is massively jealous of u.
don't talk to him when noone else is around, but like him keep up appearances in front of parents. that's the best thing, but don't stay with him for long periods of time. it isnt good for urself. And dw, ur uncle won't get hurt...see, when ur uncle or anyone else is around, u shud also be sweet with ur cousin. that way ur uncle wont know anything.
and when he asks u for help for a question, tell him innocently that u dont know the answer...if the situation was different, i would go with one member who said just be really sweet, like that sarcastic sweetness...but since ur situation is different, u shud just be normal and act like u actually don't know the answer. he can complain and make a fuss out of it, but what can he or anyone do when u "just dont know the answer"?
And don't give him the satisfaction of sinking to his level. if he says something hurtful just know that he has a MASSIVE inferiority complex and feel PITY FOR HIM...instead of replying back OR worse, crying. When u start feelin pity for him, u will start gettin disgusted by him and his antics and no longer feel hurt by all the crap he says.
and ur parents r watchin...i dont think they would want to see the tears in ur eyes. u gotta be strong, and study so hard that u come out tops in everything. that way, u have moved ahead in ur life, and u can be indepedent.
Good Luck😊
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