help me wit my bf issue! plz:(

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deepa

@dipz22

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Posted: 17 years ago

hey u guys!! im really in need of advice! well the thing is i broke my promises many times..but they were small promises...n my bf takes them really seriously! i really dont think he shud make such a big deal out of it..but still i knw i made a mistake..n i was wrong! n i really do regret it! can u plz tell me how can i pacify him or how can i get his trust bak! i really dont wanna lose him at all! im really scared to lose him! he's really my life..n i cant imagine him not bein in my life!! plz help!!:(

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Nihita

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Posted: 17 years ago

trust is something which u hv to earn....if ur feelings are genuine then i dont think there'll be any problem....ask him for a chance to prove how much u love that person....give him small n sweet gestures of love....share wid him even the tiniest of things!!!u know him....bt show him u understand him like no one could ever!!!

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deepa

@dipz22

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Posted: 17 years ago

hey i really liked wat u wrote! it was really sweet! n yesss im working on it...n we're getting better! thnk u soo much! but one thing is for sure...it's reallyyyyyyy hard to manaav ur bfs!! seriously eh?

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Nihita

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Posted: 17 years ago

Originally posted by: dipz22
hey i really liked wat u wrote! it was really sweet! n yesss im working on it...n we're getting better! thnk u soo much! but one thing is for sure...it's reallyyyyyyy hard to manaav ur bfs!! seriously eh?

hi...hehehe!!!i dont hv any bf so no idea hope everything gets sorted out!!!

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deepa

@dipz22

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Posted: 17 years ago

lol..trust me...u'll knw when u have a bf! and yes things are getting sorted out.

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Mmm

@xsweetbabygyalx

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Posted: 17 years ago

i understand .. yeah tell him to give you a chance to prove it to him. He should understand.

i once lost my boyfriend's trust over a little joke which didn't made any sense and that was chaotic. He had a young good looking coworker where every girl falled for his coworker so he thought that i falled for his coworker also when I actually didn't. Boyfriends feel soo insecured over everything which is so stressful for us girls. I have a few male friends who i wanna introduce my boyfriend to but i'm so scared telling my boyfriend that. I'm also stuck in a little love triangle where this other guy and my boyfriend love me but I only love my boyfriend, the other guy who I don't even like at all is so annoying. I don't even talk to that guy but he kept sending me emails nonstop. Now he finally stopped. Boyfriends can be a bit possessive though, mines is for sure.

TRY NOT TO LOOSE YOUR BOYFRIEND'S TRUST AGAIN .. believe me It's gonna be a nightmare .. guys have this nature where they imagine us girls doing something we're not even doing really quickly.

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deepa

@dipz22

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Posted: 17 years ago

OMG!!! i knwwww!!! they wud actually think we'd do sumthing sooo stupid...sumthing we never even imagined of doing! dats how suspicious they get! it disgusts me sumtimes! Especially when he's ur FIRST bf!!! UGHHH!! it annoys me n frustrates me alot!!! my bf says he trusts me alot but he doesnt show it! he'll bring up dat topic once in awhile abt wat i did, which really pisses me off cuz its not sumthing to make a huge deal out of it! although i keep myself calm n patient. i just try to be understanding and try to make him feel like he can trust me n show me dat he really does trust me. so yea...cuz one of our friend...she told him that its not good how he gets suspicious on me...n she knws me really well...im known as the "good innocent gurl" i've had any other relationships n stuff. n e ways..he told her dat he trusts like crzy even though i broke it a couple of times..so den she said he has to show it that he trusts me or else he'll end up losing me one day...cuz maybe one day i wont be able to stand the fact that my bf doesnt trust me so wats da point of being in da relationship. n e ways..since then he's improved alottttt!!!! i guess he got scared when she told him dat he cud lose me one day..so yeaa...

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irum

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Posted: 17 years ago

try to do extra nice things for him and make him realize that u actually mean it....... and try not to break promises..😆

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Mmm

@xsweetbabygyalx

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Posted: 17 years ago

Originally posted by: dipz22
OMG!!! i knwwww!!! they wud actually think we'd do sumthing sooo stupid...sumthing we never even imagined of doing! dats how suspicious they get! it disgusts me sumtimes! Especially when he's ur FIRST bf!!! UGHHH!! it annoys me n frustrates me alot!!! my bf says he trusts me alot but he doesnt show it! he'll bring up dat topic once in awhile abt wat i did, which really pisses me off cuz its not sumthing to make a huge deal out of it! although i keep myself calm n patient. i just try to be understanding and try to make him feel like he can trust me n show me dat he really does trust me. so yea...cuz one of our friend...she told him that its not good how he gets suspicious on me...n she knws me really well...im known as the "good innocent gurl" i've had any other relationships n stuff. n e ways..he told her dat he trusts like crzy even though i broke it a couple of times..so den she said he has to show it that he trusts me or else he'll end up losing me one day...cuz maybe one day i wont be able to stand the fact that my bf doesnt trust me so wats da point of being in da relationship. n e ways..since then he's improved alottttt!!!! i guess he got scared when she told him dat he cud lose me one day..so yeaa...

my bf is my FIRST bf and first love, I don't know how I got his trust back 😆 but the thing I did was continued talking to him as I usually do and started showing a bit of romance and I guess that might had done the trick. I'm a good innocent girl too but I'm usually known as the good girl or the sweet sweet sweet girl 😳 yup he might've had been scared because boyfriends are always scared of loosing the girl. It's good that your friend had helped you out on making him understand that. None of my friends ever helped me out I always had to sort my relationship problems myself 😭 Try not to break his trust again though and keep up with your promises. I always kept my promises with my bf. There's this very hard promise which I still have to do though which is to visit him in India, it's kind of hard due to my house circumstances but I'm keep trying though.

believe me, gaining a guy's trust is really hard. Write down the promises you make the day you make them so you won't forget. I wish you all the best in your relationship 😊

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deepa

@dipz22

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Posted: 17 years ago

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Hey sweets! ahahaha Thnx for ur advice. its true though...its really hard to gain a guys trust. and ur promise is reallyyyy hard!!! woww!! i really wish u luck on visiting him in india. soo i see ur in a long distance relationship?

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