Mannat Har Khushi Paane Ki: Episode Discussion Thread - 41 - Page 91

Originally posted by: Mona_HappyLife

Let her get controlled....

She will automatically exit out of DK's life.

She is yet to see DK's real face/insecurity/anger or whatever you would like to call.

She doesn't take shit for a long time, we already seen that..

Pre-leap Vikrant made the mistake of believing Vish's manipulation. Post leap its Mannat now..

Perhaps, Vikrant is the only pasandida mard whose tantrums she keeps on bearing every time...

Basically, she has a high tolerance level. Does put up with tantrums of people she IS close to. Whether it's Malla, Vikrant or DK.

Meanwhile let Vikrant do the effort of having Dua back naturally & not by force...

I fervently really want this to happen.

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Let her get controlled....

She will automatically exit out of DK's life.

She is yet to see DK's real face/insecurity/anger or whatever you would like to call.

She doesn't take shit for a long time, we already seen that..

Pre-leap Vikrant made the mistake of believing Vish's manipulation. Post leap its Mannat now..

Perhaps, Vikrant is the only pasandida mard whose tantrums she keeps on bearing every time...

Basically, she has a high tolerance level. Does put up with tantrums of people she IS close to. Whether it's Malla, Vikrant or DK.

Meanwhile let Vikrant do the effort of having Dua back naturally & not by force...

I fervently really want this to happen.

With DK, I can already seen her frustration building up. Since Indore episodes started, had never seen Mannat snap at DK.

But post coming to OH, she snapped twice at him in span of 1-2 days so yeah..won't take much time for her patience to go off..

Malla is like a non-existent entity for Mannat, has been quite indifferent towards her. She tried to be close to her when for the 1st time Malla go to know of Mannat being her half sister but Malla's repeated attempts to harm her made her cold towards Malla...

Originally posted by: Bettyscar

Aren't we mixing two things here? There is Vikrant & Dua and there is Vikrant and Mannat. Vikrant and Mannat have both accepted that their relationship has ended. Vikrant needs to just be thinking about his kid. Trying to combine the two is where it all gets muddied I feel.

Dua has already come to Vikrant multiple times. That relationship was built from Dua initiating contact. It's his turn to think about his kid.

I'm not advocating for him to get custody. I just need his parental rights restored and he be given access to his kid. Over time they can see about the rest as Dua gets older.

Are Dua and Mannat 2 separate individuals at this point... I do not mean physically... but emotionally and even legally.

Till the matter is resolved Mannat is the only legal guardian/parent and key decision maker (her statement in today's episode). Just like biology doesnt give full rights to Vik, a birth certificate which can be contested doesnt give that right to DK too (since he is not married to Mannat , he cant claim that either, partly why he is highly insecure).

When you say Vik should be thinking only about his kid... it eliminates presence of Mannat in her life... which in all fairness uncalled and unnecessary, why should Mannat let go of her rights simply because Vik realized his mistake ..

Dua has bonded with him but does she see him as a parent??? Does he know how to be her parent??? A sudden truth doesnt make his claim stronger over Mannat (not counting DK here 😝).

Is Vik going to build a family with Y Dua and himself??? Is that what the audience wants???? Because if it is... then DK Dua Mannat main kya problem hai???? Its the same isnt it? If DK is not okay, neither is Y.

The family that should be rebuilt is ManVik + Dua... irrespective of what anyone says.... and I feel its actually showing Viks growth and magnanimity that he is giving importance to his child's emotional stability over his own right to be around his kid!!!!

When it comes to Duas wellbeing Vik and Mannat have to be on same page... always!!!!! However difficult it might be for them!!!!

And like you agreed here... Mannat and Vik fighting for custody is going to create another MU which can be used by vamps 🤦‍♀️.. havent we have had enough?

Originally posted by: Bettyscar

Bold: Moor, DK is absconding with the family back to Indore while we are advocating for Vikku boy to stand by Mannat has already accepted that her fate is to be alone with her baby. We will be waiting a long time if its left up to Mannat

Question is if not court then what?

But i do get that going back on his word is him breaking his promise again just waiting is not sounding very promising to me.

Yaar ye to acchha hai na if DK is absconding.... that means he is not even thinking of Mannat or informing her before taking a decision like this.

I dont understand why are people upset if DK becomes unhinged.... isnt that a good sign???

Mannat is not going to tolerate this nonsense for long... and she is absolutely against anyone doing any harm to Dua... if its happening she will burst on DK too...

In case its not clear... the difference that I am seeing in Vik and DK is... that DK is thinking about himself and how his life would be without Dua (and Mannat)... whereas Vik is only worried about how Dua will be affected ..

Isme Vik hi to morally correct dikh raha hai... to kya problem hai??? 🤔

Originally posted by: Mona_HappyLife

Agree to what you said but Vikrant needs to be patient.

The truth has just come out. Just because he realized his mistake now he can't expect Mannat to quickly give in to whatever he wants.

Yes he is the father and he will yearn but that itself his redemption process & I don't see anything wrong here. Not even once Mannat said No to him. Infact when Dua hugged him she had tears out of happiness & deep down she does want the relation to mend but not at the cost of Dua's sanity...

What DK thinks or says is secondary. As Moor said he is not the ML so ultimately things will not happen the way he wants.

Yes, Mannat at times gives in to DK but she is not going to take his whims everytime, she already once snapped back at DK in OH and once at SM as well.

If DK continues to cross the line & pisses of Mannat then she will deal with him in her own way...

Also DK has been looking after Dua for 7 years, its not easy for Mannat to replace him completely with Vikrant in just few days or even bring in Vikrant all of a sudden & change the entire equation. This will backfire at Dua, it doesn't matter even if she at present has friendly relation with him.

She cannot just take decision based on what Vikrant thinks, she needs to think about Dua too, Dk as well how much ever some of us dislike him...

Patience vs a controlling ‘partner’ who has set his sights on no contact with daughter and ex and absconding immediately is a tough one. Agree what pl thinks is immaterial until his decisions affect the fl/ml and their child 😂 but hoping Mannat puts her foot down soon enough.

And we all wanted a Vikrant who was thinking independently and not waiting for Mannat to bail him out right? And he’s still the divinely appointed BDB so will always look out for Mannat, even if they both choose not to be together. ❤️

Originally posted by: Moor278

Are Dua and Mannat 2 separate individuals at this point... I do not mean physically... but emotionally and even legally.

Till the matter is resolved Mannat is the only legal guardian/parent and key decision maker (her statement in today's episode). Just like biology doesnt give full rights to Vik, a birth certificate which can be contested doesnt give that right to DK too (since he is not married to Mannat , he cant claim that either, partly why he is highly insecure).

When you say Vik should be thinking only about his kid... it eliminates presence of Mannat in her life... which in all fairness uncalled and unnecessary, why should Mannat let go of her rights simply because Vik realized his mistake ..

Dua has bonded with him but does she see him as a parent??? Does he know how to be her parent??? A sudden truth doesnt make his claim stronger over Mannat (not counting DK here 😝).

Is Vik going to build a family with Y Dua and himself??? Is that what the audience wants???? Because if it is... then DK Dua Mannat main kya problem hai???? Its the same isnt it? If DK is not okay, neither is Y.

The family that should be rebuilt is ManVik + Dua... irrespective of what anyone says.... and I feel its actually showing Viks growth and magnanimity that he is giving importance to his child's emotional stability over his own right to be around his kid!!!!

When it comes to Duas wellbeing Vik and Mannat have to be on same page... always!!!!! However difficult it might be for them!!!!

And like you agreed here... Mannat and Vik fighting for custody is going to create another MU which can be used by vamps 🤦‍♀️.. havent we have had enough?

I think we have combined two things here. I did say i'm not advocating for Vikrant to get custody. From my understanding when partners decide to call it quits when a kid is a minor then the kid resides with the mother but it does not take away the father's rights. Mannat and Vikrant have both accepted they are no longer together. What i'm saying is Vikrant still has rights with regards to contact with his kid but Mannat is not willing to acknowledge that aspect. No one would advocate for Vikrant to get custody but he needs some form of relationship with his kid.

If Mannat and Vikrant decide to reunite then they work on their issues and work on their relationship. Trying to repair a relationship using a kid is never the right move anyway.

I would love for him to go to Mezbaani with his kid. I would like him to introduce Dua to the things that made her call him her star chef and made her ride a bus to go to Mumbai and meet him.

Waiting for Manvik relationship to be fine first for Vikrant to then have access to Dua will be a long wait for Vikrant

Originally posted by: Shazia_h

Patience vs a controlling ‘partner’ who has set his sights on no contact with daughter and ex and absconding immediately is a tough one. Agree what pl thinks is immaterial until his decisions affect the fl/ml and their child 😂 but hoping Mannat puts her foot down soon enough.

And we all wanted a Vikrant who was thinking independently and not waiting for Mannat to bail him out right? And he’s still the divinely appointed BDB so will always look out for Mannat, even if they both choose not to be together. ❤️

Whether PL takes decision or ML or FL takes ultimately everything is going to affect Dua only...

Who takes what decision & how it affects Dua but in a positive way that should matter the most...

Taking decisions in a hurried manner and forcibily thopofy on Dua is not at all okay.

DK is yet to be established fully controlled as a partner/friend. Let him make the mistakes for the situation to go out of hand...Mannat will end up backing out herself...

If court suppose orders Mannat to stay in SM then DK himself will start his own things...he will become more territorial over Mannat. That itself will piss off Vikrant (considering he would know about fake marriage of DK Mannat).

Originally posted by: Bettyscar

I think we have combined two things here. I did say i'm not advocating for Vikrant to get custody. From my understanding when partners decide to call it quits when a kid is a minor then the kid resides with the mother but it does not take away the father's rights. Mannat and Vikrant have both accepted they are no longer together. What i'm saying is Vikrant still has rights with regards to contact with his kid but Mannat is not willing to acknowledge that aspect. No one would advocate for Vikrant to get custody but he needs some form of relationship with his kid.

If Mannat and Vikrant decide to reunite then they work on their issues and work on their relationship. Trying to repair a relationship using a kid is never the right move anyway.

I would love for him to go to Mezbaani with his kid. I would like him to introduce Dua to the things that made her call him her star chef and made her ride a bus to go to Mumbai and meet him.

Waiting for Manvik relationship to be fine first for Vikrant to then have access to Dua will be a long wait for Vikrant

Got it and completely agree 👍

Hey Scar

Meanwhile let Vikrant do the effort of having Dua back naturally & not by force...

I fervently really want this to happen.

You aren’t proposing Dua makes another bus journey to Mumbai , though that would be fun with Bunty this time.

Or Vikrant lurks around her school in Indore trying to meet her?

Because trying to agree visitation rights with Mannat and her baba aren’t going well ….

Originally posted by: Resham

I do not want to see submissive Vikrant

.I want him.to.fight for his kid

I also think vikranth giving up like this... mannath can't handle..