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Originally posted by: Thequirkyquill

But still it feels like she is getting Anu’s leftovers. Is just feels weird. Like they mentioned that Neel was mansi’s distant cousin so couldn’t he have asked money from Arya right in the beginning before getting into the whole Jalandhar mess.

Also he did delete her presentation and pretended to help her so that she trusts him .

I just don’t feel very comfortable with Neel. Also didn’t he leave for America right after the confrontation with Jalandhar so doesn’t that mean that he and Simran have been doing a long distance relationship all this time so how come she is so comfortable with him. Hugging him, roaming around with him. None of it makes sense.

He feels like a shifty character.

Aur Rajni ka kya kahena uska too kisike sath nahi bana apne life main . Her husband left her because she kept fighting with him. She keeps quite fighting with the Mohalle wale people. she keeps fighting with Pushpa. She keeps fighting with her brother. She is keep screaming at her kids.

I wouldn’t critic Anu much because at least she is investigating and frankly for me utna hi kafi hai. It’s much better than Andha Vishwas. Atleast usse shak hua to pata to laga rahi hai ki uska Banda red flag hai ya nahi. Unlike hamari simmu who behaved like a bull in front of a red flag.😂😂😂

That part you said is true. Neel could indeed have made better decisions rather than working for Jalandhar. Had forgotten he was Mansi's cousin. In this case Arya would have gone out of his way to help him. Yeh saara bakheda hi khada nahin hota.

Also if you notice Mansi didn't actually do anything to help him. She just used him. He's her cousin and she knows he needs help and support so she could have done something for him.

The whole Simran Neel story itself doesn't make any sense. Chat mangni path byah bhi itni jaldi nahin hota jitni jaldi inki love story aage badh gayi hain.

Rajini is indeed too much. The way she slapped Simran today

I don't understand this obsession with hating love marriages. Which century are we living in? In general also I feel people have such pichda hua thinking. I agree not all love marriages might work out but then again what guarantee can you give that arrange marriages are made in heaven? Why generalize saying all love marriages are bad?

I guess Rajini ka love marriage tha and her husband left her. Maybe that's why she had such an over the top reaction.

Anu and Arya talk about trust but I don't see that these days. Arya is right in saying he needs to tell her the truth. Why is Jhende interfering? Let the future pati patni handle their own problems and trust issues.

Originally posted by: Thequirkyquill

What kind of weirdass entitlement does Neil have to have the audacity to go and confront Anu.How was anu to be blamed because Simran broke up with him? Also it’s the hiding fact that really bothered her the most. Unlike me anu did not get the weird feeling about her friend dating a very shady guy.

His entire chat with Anu was so entitled, I would have been pissed if I was anu .he tried to hurt her and her family and has the audacity to come and say Mujhe pata tha you wouldn’t be happy with our relationship. of course anu wouldn’t be happy with your relationship. Her family was planning to marry her to you, and you hid that very fact from her. Not to mention he conspired with the guy that was trying to hurt her boyfriend.

he seems like a walking, red flag, not gonna lie. I do not agree to most of Rajni’s behaviour because she behaves like a dictator and is very erratic with her moods but the one thing I kind of do agree is her not wanting to marry Simran to Neil.

Also, Rajni has some serious issues. You cannot control your daughter’s life like that Neil is exactly her age. There is no problem that you should behave like that.

Rajni is the kind of parent that would sit in wonder after 10 years why my daughter is not calling me anymore? Or why has she broken all contact with me?

What I don't understand is Simran breaking up with him because Anu didn't like it. Anu didn't even feel bad it was Neel. Her only grudge was that Simran kept her in the dark.

Arrey that Neel was probably pissed off and upset with Simran that's why jaake saari bhadaas Anu par nikaal di. Simran was always shown as so mature. What have they done to her character!

@Bold Many kids would do that but I don't think Simran would. A girl who breaks up with her guy because her best friend is upset would never leave her mother no matter how toxic she is. Upar se her father's support is not there so she probably feels she owes it to Rajini. Guilt tripping and emotional blackmailing toh life long hote hi rahega and Simran khud ghut ghut ke rahegi but maa ka dil nahin todegi.

One more thing I feel is that Neel is still studying. Didn't he say he completed one semester? So what was the need for this story line so soon? At least they should have let him complete his studies and land a good job. Maybe even in Arya's office, slowly proving himself as a good reliable person. Then shown Simran meeting him and slowly falling for this new improved guy.

Simran also has completed her studies so why is she not working or even trying for a job? Her mother is still dependent on that kaleshi brother of hers. They could have shown Simran supporting her family financially instead of this hastily strung love story.

By the time Anu and Arya get married every single character in this serial would have been vilified beyond repair. Please spare my cute Bholi (though they did try). She is the only one who didn't actually do any jasoosi for Meera and also supported Pushpa when even Rajini, the so called best friend didn't.

Originally posted by: ro_sh

Just to spite Rajini I wish they had shown Simran with Jhende. At least Neel is a young guy. With Jhende, Rajini ko heart attack toh guarantee tha 😐

Keeping my fingers crossed for #SimDe

In my opinion Neel is immature in comparison to Simran.

Originally posted by: ro_sh

What I don't understand is Simran breaking up with him because Anu didn't like it. Anu didn't even feel bad it was Neel. Her only grudge was that Simran kept her in the dark.

Arrey that Neel was probably pissed off and upset with Simran that's why jaake saari bhadaas Anu par nikaal di. Simran was always shown as so mature. What have they done to her character!

@Bold Many kids would do that but I don't think Simran would. A girl who breaks up with her guy because her best friend is upset would never leave her mother no matter how toxic she is. Upar se her father's support is not there so she probably feels she owes it to Rajini. Guilt tripping and emotional blackmailing toh life long hote hi rahega and Simran khud ghut ghut ke rahegi but maa ka dil nahin todegi.

One more thing I feel is that Neel is still studying. Didn't he say he completed one semester? So what was the need for this story line so soon? At least they should have let him complete his studies and land a good job. Maybe even in Arya's office, slowly proving himself as a good reliable person. Then shown Simran meeting him and slowly falling for this new improved guy.

Simran also has completed her studies so why is she not working or even trying for a job? Her mother is still dependent on that kaleshi brother of hers. They could have shown Simran supporting her family financially instead of this hastily strung love story.

By the time Anu and Arya get married every single character in this serial would have been vilified beyond repair. Please spare my cute Bholi (though they did try). She is the only one who didn't actually do any jasoosi for Meera and also supported Pushpa when even Rajini, the so called best friend didn't.

@red: ikr agar best friend ka approval itna hi important tha to usse yeh Sab chupaya hi kyun. That just felt like An unnecessary thing to do yk. It felt like trying to deflect responsibility because deep in her heart Simran knew her mother is never going to agree to this marriage. So she kind of blamed it on Anu not agreeing to it and broke up.

@blue: yeah, but that still doesn’t explain him unloading his frustration on Anu. Of all people, she is the one that does not owe him anything at all. He strategically worked against her whether or not he did it for money or due to some pressure is inconsequential, but she was the one person that he did try to harm.

Also, what is it with him saying ki Mujhe pehele bar pyaar hua tha. How many times has he even met Simran? Bina mile Pyaar Ho Gaya.

You know this is really not explainable at all. At least Simran and Jhende would be explainable. They have met each other many times. their best friends are getting married and they have worked together to help their best friends. So relationship between them would even make sense, Neil Simran make no sense. Why would Simran who is Anu’s best friend who is extremely protective over her, even talk to someone that was a cause for hurt to her. Not to mention, why would she listen to him and not reveal the reality of their relationship to the one person she is closest to.

What was great about Simran‘s character? - Her extreme loyalty to Anu and her maturity . This track has destroyed both of those things. Because by hiding the reality of the relation she has betrayed the loyalty. and by choosing someone like Neil who was a really shady character with questionable life decisions,the maturity part goes out the window.

@green: This 💯💯💯.

This is so true. The one thing I like about Anu’s character is her financial independence that she refuses to forgo despite getting a ring from Arya(by the way, what happened to the ring?). The one thing that I absolutely love about Anu was before anything before any love. She wanted to start earning money to support her parents. Simran’s household is a financial mess, her father is not around . Her uncle is supporting their house, and this girl is not even looking for a job. technically she doesn’t even have to look for a job anymore. She can just ask Arya to give her one, and she would get one. God knows she is qualified.

The thing that always helped me, accept Anu and Arya’s relation was the fact that Anu had already started a job. She had started seeing the world. And then she fell in love with Arya. The girl was not confined to her house or her Mohalla anymore. So I am more willing to believe that she made a genuine decision about her life. Simran has hardly seen the world beyond that Mohalla and she has no real world experience, not even as much as Anu has. it just feels like this was the first guy she ever talk to that didn’t belong to her restricted and confined world, and fell in love with him.