actually its better cz 10 years makes a great difference in running behind your children and grandchildren...
My grandpa was hands on and in his mid and late 50s n my grandma was in her late 40s and early 50s when me and my bro were born rn now in their 60s my parents dont have that much energy to run around with my toddler or my brothers baby.
Even my MIL is complaining as sis in law's baby keeps her up all night and she is tired.
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