Originally posted by: EkPaheli
Kalyug hai, aur kya hi bole?
Now it will seem like Mihir went back to Tulsi again to the world not because he found out he was innocent and he had never shared anything with Noina but because his new GF is dying. Better a healthy old wife than a dying new girlfriend 
This crap is hard to digest, Mihir's character is butchered. Makers failed to justify it. If this is the case, honestly Tulsi should back off. It's not about ego, but self respect as a woman, as a wife she was betrayed😡 for being committed, selflessly loving her husband. Honestly, yesterday's scene of Mihir Tulsi, he didn't express why he is not wanting divorce, but instead he talks grih nakshtra🙄🙄. Even if he believes Tulsi has lost faith in him, he should have told the truth why he is tied to Noina till these days and allowed her stay with him. Then his efforts were justified. But Alas, crap. 38 years ki shadi me itni sachhayi to honi chahiye 🙄. Rishta toote bhi to sacchayi se toote na. Urgghhh CVs. Idiots.
Honestly might have been more sympathetic to Noina if she’d stayed a positive character who secretly loves Mihir but doesn’t do anything to rock the boat of his married life. She genuinely tries to move on but ends up in an abusive marriage which she manages to end and escape from but is psychologically so scarred by it for the rest of her life that she decides she will never remarry again. Fate brings her back into Mihir’s orbit, her old buried feelings resurface and she silently pines for Mihir, wonders what if she’d taken the chance when she had the time to tell Mihir how she felt, would she have been in Tulsi’s place today? Makes no move to hurt Mihir and his family until his son hurts her niece. But even then she’s not trying to break his marriage but rather ruin his company financially because she loves Mittali like her own child and the love is far stronger than anything she felt for Mihir.
Fails to bankrupt the Viranis, cools down eventually to realise her niece was the culprit to be blamed all along. Wants to mend her old friendship but can’t. Finds out she’s dying of cancer and ends up being looked after the very family she tried to ruin out of humanity.
Here they are gonna make leads feel guilty, sympathetic towards a sick woman out of humanity for cheating a friend, taunting and hurting a lady who had done no wrong to her, ruining business, spoiling and using Virani boy's life, separating, father and son, husband and wife.😡😡😡. She is selfish and dangerous woman who can sacrifice anybody any time for her own interest and benefits, nothing else.
On her deathbed she has a confession to make - she was in love with Mihir all along, Mihir is shocked, Tulsi isn’t. Noina weeps as she says she constantly wondered ever since she met Mihir again what if she’d been able to tell him that she loved him all those years ago and if she’d have been in Tulsi’s place today… today she’s in the home she wished was hers in front of the man she always loved only because she’s on her deathbed and after she nearly destroyed him and ruined his family.
Tulsi maturely says she knew all along that Noina was in love with Mihir but she respected her and accepted her as a friend as she saw Noina knew her boundaries. She couldn’t begrudge a woman just seeking the friendship of the man she’s in love with when she clearly respects his relationship with his wife, so she has no ill will towards her. She can even forgive Noina for her actions meant to bankrupt the family as they stemmed from a much stronger and purer form of love - maternal love - she felt for Mittali. The fact that Noina could apologise and stop when she found out the truth about Mittali just ensures that anger and hurt were the seeds of her actions not evil and malice.
Noina dies as a tragic character who watches the man she’s in love with happily married to another woman and in love with her. She can even tell Tulsi in her last moments that she wishes and hopes to be as lucky as her in her next birth, hopes that the family will forgive her for her past actions.
Exactly, if you love someone so deeply, you will never spoil his/her life, knowing that the one whom you love, loves someone else and his happiness being with that person, not you.
Here nothing of that sort happened, but makers are hopelessly bringing in victim card, humanity, purity of love.
Mihir Tulsi perform her last rites and the show has a mature take on a couple sticking together in the face of adversity, a woman who can be shown as dealing with another woman in love with her husband but this time as a far more secured wife than she was in her youth. How in the end their relationship is so strong that they can even forgive the woman for trying to hurt them an then ultimately even be the ones who perform her last rites hoping she attains peace and rebirth in death that evaded her in life.
Tulsi can feel sorry for a woman who loved Mihir for once and it wouldn’t come across as some forced Mahanta that’s too woke or weird to digest, just a mature take on a similar situation in their lives again but the age and maturity of the people involved changes the outcome and execution.
The one you said above would have been done justice to the show of Tulsi Mihir, keeping their faith n long married life intact and has set an example of great couple. And finally good human beings to accept Noina forgiving her in the end.
The topic is diverted from Tulsi Mihir legacy to Noina crap, and end me usski mahanta ki, pure love, nadani, jealousy ko sab haath jodke, annkh me assoan leke haar chadhaye. Tulsi ko guilt bhi karwavo, kyunki Tulsi still feels Noina loves Mihir, kyunki Mihir ne yha Noina ki koi bhi chaal ke baare me ab tak Tulsi ko nhi bataya hai. Tulsi is not valued but used by Mihir for his own interests, 38years ki shadi me jab aapka life partner itna accha ho to, honestly the other partner appreciates it when they get older, they love them more than they ever loved, they express it in their gestures, care and actions, not necessarily by ILU. But yha pe Mihir 😡😡😡😡 the creatives have faild here big time, Mihir is not a man of words, he do not remember any of his vachan's he took during his marriage with Tulsi, neither he expresses Tulsi that he never cheated her, nor loved Noina. To expresd 6yrs of separation and guilt he doesn't need big dialogues but some feelings in one or two sentences will do. 🙄
Mandira forced her way in Mihir’s life making Tulsi hate her, Noina never doing that despite her love for Mihir would have made Tulsi be kind and nice towards her from a place of understanding that this is just an unlucky woman who has had a miserable life. Her only happiness lies in her niece and the comfort of the friendship between her and Mihir. Tulsi didn’t have the heart to take that away from her and be so little as a person.
Noina is lucky, Tulsi never takes interest in her life, neither jealous or insecure and affected by her taunts, but considers Noina loves Mihir, that's why she is acting insane, nadan
But alas… we must endure this crap.
😡😡😡😡😡😡😡
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