Bigg Boss 19: Daily Discussion Thread - 4th Dec, 2025 - Page 82

Btw, it was a emotional moment.

But Dhoni ki biopic 2016 mein aayi thi, September mein and Amaal wrote 2017

I clearly remember it, the time period

Originally posted by: asmitamohanty

But unke expenditure bhi bahut zyada hote hain.

Jo lifestyle woh log maintain karte hain - public image, grooming, PR, travel, outfits, social commitments - yeh sab hum jaise 9-to-5 walon ke comparison mein bahut alag level ka pressure hota hai.

In fact, isi lifestyle ki wajah se woh log jealousy, crab-mentality aur depression ke liye aur bhi zyada susceptible hote hain.

Hum normal logon ki life mein at least emotional space hota hai, privacy hoti hai, apne logon ka genuine support hota hai.

Unhe har waqt judge kiya jata hai, compare kiya jata hai, pick apart kiya jata hai.

Overpaid lagte hain,and honestly overpaid hai bhi bohot zyada..🤣 but the struggle of 9-5 they would never get… but the emotional cost, the instability, the insecurity of their profession is something hum log shayad kabhi experience bhi na karna chaahein.

I think these days many professions are not secure though. The economy is not stable, mass layoffs, rising mortgage rates. Atleast in the West where I live people barely save even in a 9 to 5.

For celebs yes the upkeep and instability is real but the amount they earn enables many (not junior artists) to keep them comfortable for a period when they aren’t working. This isn’t true for the average 9 to 5’er.

Aur abb kaunsi job 9 to 5 hai people are working longg af hours for peanuts. I have seen people lose loved ones and not been able to take proper leave for beareavement even, atleast these people get fairly compensated while many people in regular jobs don’t.

Tho I think tv celebs and composers are different from Bollywood celebs - however their influencer fees alone keeps them pretty comfortable tbh.

Originally posted by: asmitamohanty

Let me tell you I love every one with their struggles and journey last night..GK, Pranit, Farhana,Amal and even Tanya...I felt so much love and empathy towards them...my heart to them❤️

But then how can I not hype my man....

Ohhh Gaurav… Gaurav… Gaurav…

Today I witnessed a man who carries his scars with dignity .. a man had who never once begged for sympathy, never weaponised his pain, never narrated his struggles to win anyone’s pity… yet he still had to stand there and face accusations, harsh words, and ridicule from people who neither know his journey nor understand his silence.

He has endured far more than what meets the eye, far more than what he ever speaks about. And still, he shows up every single day with the same grit, the same effort, the same hunger to do better. He stumbles, he gets judged, he gets misunderstood - but he keeps trying. He keeps pushing forward because that is all he has ever known.

And then, with so much love in his eyes and pride in his voice, he spoke of his wife ... called her his lady luck, the anchor who steadies him, the partner who stands with him through every high and low. He said he wants to rise higher with her by his side, not in front of her, not above her… with her.

How ironic, how tragic, that sincerity is questioned while pretense is celebrated.

He knows there are people who laugh at him, who twist his intentions, who judge him without listening.

But what I admire is that he doesn’t crumble under that noise. He doesn’t change himself to please them.

He doesn’t perform for the cameras or mold himself into what others expect.

Instead-He works. He grows. He reflects. He rises.

He continues choosing authenticity over image.

He continues choosing respect over ego.

He continues choosing his wife over every other distraction.

He continues choosing his profession with loyalty and discipline.

Today, I didn’t just see a contestant.I saw a man with resilience carved into his bones.A man who wears honesty like armor.A man who refuses to let the world harden him.

And that - that unwavering strength, that emotional transparency, that refusal to fake anything is what makes him stand out so powerfully.

The life graph of Gaurav Khanna is not a straight rise ... it’s a story of dips, climbs, heartbreaks, resilience, and resurgence.

A man who struggled for years in silence,who saw doors close,who faced rejections no one clapped for,

and yet…he never let hope slip from his hands.

What kept him alive wasn’t just talent ,it was the fierce combination of hope, hard work, family, and an unshakeable self-belief that refused to break even when everything else around him did.

He held on to his craft when no one praised it.

He leaned on his family when the world felt heavy.

And he trusted himself even on the days when confidence was the hardest thing to feel.

And yes… let’s not forget this part.

Him trusting his friends ...giving his heart, money, his faith, his loyalty and then ending up getting scammed… losing money… losing peace… losing trust., even losing house..

He stood there and spoke his truth without sugarcoating, without playing victim, without blaming the world. He owned his pain, he owned his decisions, and he owned the consequences - even when the consequences broke him.

That’s not weakness.That’s courage.

People don’t realize what it means to be betrayed by the very people you called friends.It changes you.It hardens you.It creates a wound that takes years to trust again.

And still STILL he never let bitterness define him. He didn’t become cynical, he didn’t lash out at the world. He simply learned, rebuilt himself, and continued believing in goodness.

A man who has been betrayed that deeply, yet still chooses honesty and openness, he is a rarity.

Gaurav isn’t perfect.He’s real.

And in a world full of masks, realness looks messy… but it also looks brave.

Gaurav Khanna’s journey is living proof that real success isn’t built on shortcuts or privilege.It’s built on persistence, humility, and the courage to rise every time life tries to push you down.

A man who struggled - yes.

But a man who never stopped believing - absolutely.

And His biggest strength apart from being insanely talented and relentlessly hardworking - is the fact that he never shies away from being vulnerable.

In a world where men are constantly told to “toughen up,” GK stands there, unafraid to show his cracks, his doubts, his longing, his softness.

It takes far more courage to be emotionally transparent than to pretend you’re made of steel.

And he does it with such honesty...

And That vulnerability is exactly what makes him powerful, relatable, and unforgettable...

And I really really admire him❤️

Tagging you

Originally posted by: ScienceBitchYo

Yeah but there is no certainty in showbiz. You may do one project today and then another after two years so it makes sense to earn more per project.

There is no certainty in any job or industry in this economy except medicine and education . Plus they become influencers now, they can open YouTube channels, and get compensated handsomely, so much that they can buy a car within a year or a flat within 2.

Originally posted by: RockingSunny

Overpaid se bhi zyada din nahi chalta if you have a downphase. Sabki alag alag struggle hoti hai. And I don't think all are overpaid. These people struggle a lot. Itni mehnat ke baad bhi jab show achcha na ho, gane hit na ho, controversy ho jaye, closed ones go away, closed ones betray, depression, etc then it hits that person on a different level. But yes most of us have someone who stands beside us in all these struggles and I am glad these contestants had those people and acknowledged them

I sympathize with them but the average person also goes through this and not everyone has a support system, and they don’t even get paid enough. I feel 9 to 5 is seen as some very secure and safe option, which it isn’t, it’s as backbreaking and less rewarding IMO for a significant majority.

I mean in North America, record high number of salaried employees are going to food banks and one pay check away from landing on the street. Abb celebs have a habit also of living beyond their means so while it’s expensive that’s also a reality.

Anyway ye kaafi interesting topic hai more than the finale week of BB

Originally posted by: Deviant_Pixel

I think these days many professions are not secure though. The economy is not stable, mass layoffs, rising mortgage rates. Atleast in the West where I live people barely save even in a 9 to 5.

For celebs yes the upkeep and instability is real but the amount they earn enables many (not junior artists) to keep them comfortable for a period when they aren’t working. This isn’t true for the average 9 to 5’er.

Aur abb kaunsi job 9 to 5 hai people are working longg af hours for peanuts. I have seen people lose loved ones and not been able to take proper leave for beareavement even, atleast these people get fairly compensated while many people in regular jobs don’t.

Tho I think tv celebs and composers are different from Bollywood celebs - however their influencer fees alone keeps them pretty comfortable tbh.

Yeah the gripe of 9-5 ,I really agree

Yeah one aspect I agree that showbiz really looks down upon 9-5 jobs .., often talks about 9–5 jobs like they’re some hobby people do because they’re not “creative enough.”

Recently actress Kajol’s tone deaf comment hit harder because it comes from a privileged bubble where real-world effort is invisible.

Big celebs make in one project what a normal person saves in 10 years of slogging.

And on top of that, the economy keeps getting worse for the middle class.Food, rent, EMIs, medical costs - everything climbs except salaries.Respect isn’t distributed equally, effort isn’t rewarded equally, and privilege often blinds people to how the majority actually lives.

And you said something important Even calling it “9–5” is a joke…

Most are working 9–9, sleeping with their laptop at their bedside, sacrificing weekends, and being told “we’re a family here” while being refused promotions., works 10–12 hours every single day, burns out repeatedly, sacrifices personal time, health, mental peace and still barely saves enough to feel “secure.”

If people understood what the corporate grind really feels like, they’d never romanticize the film industry while dismissing the real backbone of society - the people who actually keep the world functioning.

Waise many people says gaurav has become too aggressive in finale week. But I think I have seen such kind of reactions throughout the season with everybody so this is nothing new or extreme for me. Ab itna bhi na kare to parmatma kehlayega. Akhir kaar insaan hi to hai na?? Yes he is real, nice, good hearted and genuine but a human as well so how can he be perfect?? I don't remember him calling himself perfect he always had his minor imperfections throughout and that's absolutely no big deal. Just imagine someone trying to blame you for taking sympathy for asking a question about your future won't that hurt you?? We don't know in what phase he was but just see yesterday what he said. How his wife sacrificed for him so that itself validates why he respects his wife's choice so much and inspite of not having a baby loves her so much. Regarding his answers well I don't think anyone was dignified enough to answer the question. When you answer false narratives there must be some amount of energy, wit and confidence instead of calmness. And I don't think this is the first time gaurav did it. He did it throughout the season with contestants, host, everyone. He even got angry on salman once for unnecessarily targeting him. He didn't say anything but he showed an irritated expression. So he was always like this. Now regarding his fight with farhana. Imagine you are the captain, still you have to work and didn't even eat your breakfast, you know people didn't finish yesterday's food and suddenly the girl who doesn't do any duties asks about extra sabji so won't that frustrate you?? I don't know but farhana's question didn't sound nice to me. Not because of personal bias but it didn't sound nice to me. Yes gaurav could have avoided this by simply saying make your own food and walking out. But he is a human afterall plus the way farhana retaliated I think I wouldn't have accepted gaurav not giving her back at all. And honestly I had sadistic pleasure seeing gaurav giving her back. Now regarding the bitching session yesterday. Gosh I don't know what that's even questioned. Don't we bitch about someone we don't like with our friends and make fun of their antics?? That's quite natural and normal. And I loved how they made fun of the fight between the ladies. Bottom line he is a human but a nice human being and gentleman and I am proud to be his fan

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Originally posted by: asmitamohanty

Let me tell you I love every one with their struggles and journey last night..GK, Pranit, Farhana,Amal and even Tanya...I felt so much love and empathy towards them...my heart to them❤️

But then how can I not hype my man....

Ohhh Gaurav… Gaurav… Gaurav…

Today I witnessed a man who carries his scars with dignity .. a man had who never once begged for sympathy, never weaponised his pain, never narrated his struggles to win anyone’s pity… yet he still had to stand there and face accusations, harsh words, and ridicule from people who neither know his journey nor understand his silence.

He has endured far more than what meets the eye, far more than what he ever speaks about. And still, he shows up every single day with the same grit, the same effort, the same hunger to do better. He stumbles, he gets judged, he gets misunderstood - but he keeps trying. He keeps pushing forward because that is all he has ever known.

And then, with so much love in his eyes and pride in his voice, he spoke of his wife ... called her his lady luck, the anchor who steadies him, the partner who stands with him through every high and low. He said he wants to rise higher with her by his side, not in front of her, not above her… with her.

How ironic, how tragic, that sincerity is questioned while pretense is celebrated.

He knows there are people who laugh at him, who twist his intentions, who judge him without listening.

But what I admire is that he doesn’t crumble under that noise. He doesn’t change himself to please them.

He doesn’t perform for the cameras or mold himself into what others expect.

Instead-He works. He grows. He reflects. He rises.

He continues choosing authenticity over image.

He continues choosing respect over ego.

He continues choosing his wife over every other distraction.

He continues choosing his profession with loyalty and discipline.

Today, I didn’t just see a contestant.I saw a man with resilience carved into his bones.A man who wears honesty like armor.A man who refuses to let the world harden him.

And that - that unwavering strength, that emotional transparency, that refusal to fake anything is what makes him stand out so powerfully.

The life graph of Gaurav Khanna is not a straight rise ... it’s a story of dips, climbs, heartbreaks, resilience, and resurgence.

A man who struggled for years in silence,who saw doors close,who faced rejections no one clapped for,

and yet…he never let hope slip from his hands.

What kept him alive wasn’t just talent ,it was the fierce combination of hope, hard work, family, and an unshakeable self-belief that refused to break even when everything else around him did.

He held on to his craft when no one praised it.

He leaned on his family when the world felt heavy.

And he trusted himself even on the days when confidence was the hardest thing to feel.

And yes… let’s not forget this part.

Him trusting his friends ...giving his heart, money, his faith, his loyalty and then ending up getting scammed… losing money… losing peace… losing trust., even losing house..

He stood there and spoke his truth without sugarcoating, without playing victim, without blaming the world. He owned his pain, he owned his decisions, and he owned the consequences - even when the consequences broke him.

That’s not weakness.That’s courage.

People don’t realize what it means to be betrayed by the very people you called friends.It changes you.It hardens you.It creates a wound that takes years to trust again.

And still STILL he never let bitterness define him. He didn’t become cynical, he didn’t lash out at the world. He simply learned, rebuilt himself, and continued believing in goodness.

A man who has been betrayed that deeply, yet still chooses honesty and openness, he is a rarity.

Gaurav isn’t perfect.He’s real.

And in a world full of masks, realness looks messy… but it also looks brave.

Gaurav Khanna’s journey is living proof that real success isn’t built on shortcuts or privilege.It’s built on persistence, humility, and the courage to rise every time life tries to push you down.

A man who struggled - yes.

But a man who never stopped believing - absolutely.

And His biggest strength apart from being insanely talented and relentlessly hardworking - is the fact that he never shies away from being vulnerable.

In a world where men are constantly told to “toughen up,” GK stands there, unafraid to show his cracks, his doubts, his longing, his softness.

It takes far more courage to be emotionally transparent than to pretend you’re made of steel.

And he does it with such honesty...

And That vulnerability is exactly what makes him powerful, relatable, and unforgettable...

And I really really admire him❤️

You always write heartfelt post

Beautifully written and deeply felt. ❤️ You captured GK’s journey, his strength, vulnerability, and dignity so perfectly. This is exactly why so many of us connect with him — not because he’s flawless, but because he’s real. His resilience, his honesty, and the way he keeps choosing grace over bitterness is truly inspiring. So proud to support a man like Gaurav Khanna. 🧿✨

May ypu win the show like you won so many hearts

Originally posted by: asmitamohanty

Let me tell you I love every one with their struggles and journey last night..GK, Pranit, Farhana,Amal and even Tanya...I felt so much love and empathy towards them...my heart to them❤️

But then how can I not hype my man....

Ohhh Gaurav… Gaurav… Gaurav…

Today I witnessed a man who carries his scars with dignity .. a man had who never once begged for sympathy, never weaponised his pain, never narrated his struggles to win anyone’s pity… yet he still had to stand there and face accusations, harsh words, and ridicule from people who neither know his journey nor understand his silence.

He has endured far more than what meets the eye, far more than what he ever speaks about. And still, he shows up every single day with the same grit, the same effort, the same hunger to do better. He stumbles, he gets judged, he gets misunderstood - but he keeps trying. He keeps pushing forward because that is all he has ever known.

And then, with so much love in his eyes and pride in his voice, he spoke of his wife ... called her his lady luck, the anchor who steadies him, the partner who stands with him through every high and low. He said he wants to rise higher with her by his side, not in front of her, not above her… with her.

How ironic, how tragic, that sincerity is questioned while pretense is celebrated.

He knows there are people who laugh at him, who twist his intentions, who judge him without listening.

But what I admire is that he doesn’t crumble under that noise. He doesn’t change himself to please them.

He doesn’t perform for the cameras or mold himself into what others expect.

Instead-He works. He grows. He reflects. He rises.

He continues choosing authenticity over image.

He continues choosing respect over ego.

He continues choosing his wife over every other distraction.

He continues choosing his profession with loyalty and discipline.

Today, I didn’t just see a contestant.I saw a man with resilience carved into his bones.A man who wears honesty like armor.A man who refuses to let the world harden him.

And that - that unwavering strength, that emotional transparency, that refusal to fake anything is what makes him stand out so powerfully.

The life graph of Gaurav Khanna is not a straight rise ... it’s a story of dips, climbs, heartbreaks, resilience, and resurgence.

A man who struggled for years in silence,who saw doors close,who faced rejections no one clapped for,

and yet…he never let hope slip from his hands.

What kept him alive wasn’t just talent ,it was the fierce combination of hope, hard work, family, and an unshakeable self-belief that refused to break even when everything else around him did.

He held on to his craft when no one praised it.

He leaned on his family when the world felt heavy.

And he trusted himself even on the days when confidence was the hardest thing to feel.

And yes… let’s not forget this part.

Him trusting his friends ...giving his heart, money, his faith, his loyalty and then ending up getting scammed… losing money… losing peace… losing trust., even losing house..

He stood there and spoke his truth without sugarcoating, without playing victim, without blaming the world. He owned his pain, he owned his decisions, and he owned the consequences - even when the consequences broke him.

That’s not weakness.That’s courage.

People don’t realize what it means to be betrayed by the very people you called friends.It changes you.It hardens you.It creates a wound that takes years to trust again.

And still STILL he never let bitterness define him. He didn’t become cynical, he didn’t lash out at the world. He simply learned, rebuilt himself, and continued believing in goodness.

A man who has been betrayed that deeply, yet still chooses honesty and openness, he is a rarity.

Gaurav isn’t perfect.He’s real.

And in a world full of masks, realness looks messy… but it also looks brave.

Gaurav Khanna’s journey is living proof that real success isn’t built on shortcuts or privilege.It’s built on persistence, humility, and the courage to rise every time life tries to push you down.

A man who struggled - yes.

But a man who never stopped believing - absolutely.

And His biggest strength apart from being insanely talented and relentlessly hardworking - is the fact that he never shies away from being vulnerable.

In a world where men are constantly told to “toughen up,” GK stands there, unafraid to show his cracks, his doubts, his longing, his softness.

It takes far more courage to be emotionally transparent than to pretend you’re made of steel.

And he does it with such honesty...

And That vulnerability is exactly what makes him powerful, relatable, and unforgettable...

And I really really admire him❤️