Mannat Har Khushi Paane Ki: Episode Discussion Thread - 29 - Page 136

This is sweet

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Originally posted by: Uma85

@Bold Hmm..this is exactly what is bit bothering me too!

How do we really interpret this kind of love..I don't know..may be some of you folks can help me understand it more clearly ..we know Vik truly loves Mannat , he can't live without her ..but in a spousal relationship how does it work if a person though acknowledges his/her flaws but still doesn't make efforts to change and it causes pain to the other , will that be still considered true love or does it start bordering on obsession? I honestly don't know , would love to hear what you all think !

Note : I am not doubting Vik's love here at all (just trying to understand the emotions bit more) As most of you guys know I am pro #Manvik #Amanat #Addy #Ayesha fan :)

Great topic Uma 🤩

Marriage does come with some compromises on both the partners.

No chappals but Vikrant agreeing he is impulsive and does mistakes is a huge step for him. However, like you all pointed out the elephant in the room is not yet addressed and this is going to come back full fledged soon which will shake their relationship.

Coming to your question, just my personal opinion, yes it is still considered true love since we don't love someone hoping to change something in them, we love someone in spite of these qualities. Think of it more like a seesaw , where each have their own flaws and when one partner goes down , the other partner pull them up and vice versa. Per my opinion, I don't believe in pre-existing perfect partnership or perfect couples, every couple have to work on their relationship to make it perfect.

This is the same for ManVik and here Vikrant's issue lies in trust, impulsive nature and ManVik will have to figure this out if they love each other and want to stay together. Mannat for example, tired to evade the ONS apology and didn't tell Vikrant until he kind of asked her what she knows which he doesn't. When she revealed the truth, he was mad still forgave her immediately. From what we have seen they love each other irrespective of what SM or viewers think which is the reason they forgive each other and got married.

Done with the rambling, not sure if I made sense but tagging a few who might be able to add more details agreeing or disagreeing since everyone has different experience.

Can I just say why I feel this lightning fast patchup happened??

I have always said Mannat needs rights over Vikku before Amans truth is out. Thats how she can fight Neetu. Turns out theres another mom she needs to fight.

But this shaadi might be kept secret for sometime.. and ARS back again... as per Mallas blackmail.

All I am wondering is why the rush to such quick shaadi when all things were in place anyway and they could have had usual week long rituals.

But the way this one has happened secretly (only between the 2) it has to be for a bigger dhamaka... maybe the real truth behind Aman and not the Vishakha version...

Both will hide it... and Mannat will fight like a wife getting into constant conflict with the Moms now 🙄

Originally posted by: Rdigest

Great topic Uma 🤩

Marriage does come with some compromises on both the partners.

No chappals but Vikrant agreeing he is impulsive and does mistakes is a huge step for him. However, like you all pointed out the elephant in the room is not yet addressed and this is going to come back full fledged soon which will shake their relationship.

Coming to your question, just my personal opinion, yes it is still considered true love since we don't love someone hoping to change something in them, we love someone in spite of these qualities. Think of it more like a seesaw , where each have their own flaws and when one partner goes down , the other partner pull them up and vice versa. Per my opinion, I don't believe in pre-existing perfect partnership or perfect couples, every couple have to work on their relationship to make it perfect.

This is the same for ManVik and here Vikrant's issue lies in trust, impulsive nature and ManVik will have to figure this out if they love each other and want to stay together. Mannat for example, tired to evade the ONS apology and didn't tell Vikrant until he kind of asked her what she knows which he doesn't. When she revealed the truth, he was mad still forgave her immediately. From what we have seen they love each other irrespective of what SM or viewers think which is the reason they forgive each other and got married.

Done with the rambling, not sure if I made sense but tagging a few who might be able to add more details agreeing or disagreeing since everyone has different experience.

Love it girl @RD ..ty :)

Bring it on my lovelies..just trying to understand everyone's perspective and thoughts..that's all ..nothing too serious and definitely not looking to debate or argue :)

Originally posted by: Moor278

Can I just say why I feel this lightning fast patchup happened??

I have always said Mannat needs rights over Vikku before Amans truth is out. Thats how she can fight Neetu. Turns out theres another mom she needs to fight.

But this shaadi might be kept secret for sometime.. and ARS back again... as per Mallas blackmail.

All I am wondering is why the rush to such quick shaadi when all things were in place anyway and they could have had usual week long rituals.

But the way this one has happened secretly (only between the 2) it has to be for a bigger dhamaka... maybe the real truth behind Aman and not the Vishakha version...

Both will hide it... and Mannat will fight like a wife getting into constant conflict with the Moms now 🙄

Oh no Moor..But I am not ready for another dose of Neetu's verbal torture

I don’t understand why can’t these shows take tip from the playbook of TRP Number 1 show. That show is full of toxicity but the makers make sure to put a pause onto it and let the fam celebrate occasions and festivals. There’s fun, frolick, dance and masti, which serves as a break from constant chillam chilli. Then they again go back to the drama after all of it. So there’s a balance b/w the two! Yahan pe they wasted over a month on Vimal Vivaah and for the leads, they couldn’t spare a happy couple of episodes where they’re celebrating a grand wedding?

Waise bhi its festival time, TRPs are gonna go down regardless as no one is interested in watching toxic crap, so why not serve something wholesome for a change?

Originally posted by: Moor278

Can I just say why I feel this lightning fast patchup happened??

I have always said Mannat needs rights over Vikku before Amans truth is out. Thats how she can fight Neetu. Turns out theres another mom she needs to fight.

But this shaadi might be kept secret for sometime.. and ARS back again... as per Mallas blackmail.

All I am wondering is why the rush to such quick shaadi when all things were in place anyway and they could have had usual week long rituals.

But the way this one has happened secretly (only between the 2) it has to be for a bigger dhamaka... maybe the real truth behind Aman and not the Vishakha version...

Both will hide it... and Mannat will fight like a wife getting into constant conflict with the Moms now 🙄

Don't you think that right needs to be kullam khullam not a secret one for Mannat to assert her right as his wife ?

Originally posted by: Uma85

Oh no Moor..But I am not ready for another dose of Neetu's verbal torture

Me too... but if Vik has realised he has this problem and has to correct it then its time for him to step up ... now more than ever for his secret wife

Pretty sure Mannat will be counting on him more if Neetu vomits again

Chalo at least we will get some haq wala lollipops (those sweet hubby wifey secret moments) now small mercies which will keep us going for some more time amidst all the chaos they’re about to serve us !

Originally posted by: Uma85

@Bold Hmm..this is exactly what is bit bothering me too!

How do we really interpret this kind of love..I don't know..may be some of you folks can help me understand it more clearly ..we know Vik truly loves Mannat , he can't live without her ..but in a spousal relationship how does it work if a person though acknowledges his/her flaws but still doesn't make efforts to change and it causes pain to the other , will that be still considered true love or does it start bordering on obsession? I honestly don't know , would love to hear what you all think !

Note : I am not doubting Vik's love here at all (just trying to understand the emotions bit more) As most of you guys know I am pro #Manvik #Amanat #Addy #Ayesha fan :)

Great question Uma...

What can I say apart from the decade plus experience of married life 😅

I am firm believer that you cant change a person completely. There can be few tweaks here and there but a person cannot completely change. That is losing your own identity to another.

So you have the love/live with your spouse with all of their flaws... a package deal. ... just like Vikku said. 🙃

It gets on nerves and the only reason the marriage can survive is if both are ready to ignore the other persons flaws. Only one compensating is not enough. Ghutan like Mannat said 🙃

That said... self respect and self worth cant be compromised and shouldn't be taken lightly. Mannat is absolutely right here 🙌

Also its a saying that to correct something you have to first acknowledge it is messed up.

In a way, this is the first mature thing Vik has said... he has finally understood his flaws and what hurts Mannat. She clearly told him how it affects her. Thats the best thing about ManVik... communication 🥰

Had it been a real couple and him ready to work on it... then its all well.

In ITV ecosystem... not sure if Vikku is going to rectify his own shortcomings so easily. 🤣

Loved how Mannu correctly pointed out that I am not your teacher and its not my sole responsibility to handle this relationship ❤️