YRKKH BTS, SM updates and Spoilers Thread! #121 - Page 18

Originally posted by: chaaipani

@bold bhaisahab ek woh Aadmi mar gya tha aese kuch 25-26 saal ka tha. Bhai kehta Abhimanyu woh aese mar gya tha coz choti si galati hogayi thi Akshara se. Miscarriage wala aese mudda tha nahi waise par obviously convenience 😂😂

Everyone is so focused on miscarriage as if Abhimanyu didn't lose anything??? His freaking brother died also. Didn't he also feel pain as much as Akshara felt? He divorced her because Akshara didn't realize her irreversable mistakes. No one can tolerate death.

I guess people wanted Abhimanyu to praise her for heroic action. Sacrifices ho jata hai nuh

Originally posted by: BUSH146

See dear, I respectfully beg to differ…

1st of all, let's agree on one thing...This entire is leap has been soo loosely executed that no character feels truly consistent. Everyone seems a little off. So yes, calling out Arman's past action is absolutely valid. Wht he did pre-leap was unacceptable, completely out of character and quite honestly-Indefensible. Even he himself admitted today, and I'm sure, every AbhiMaan Shipped out here has been angry with him and still are.. We didn't supported his silence, especially not keeping the truth hidden for 7yrs long.. That was beyond stupid.

BUT.. today, when he finally gathered the courage Not to justify the unjustifiable, But to accept, to confess , to tell the truth and take accountability of his past actions, How did he become the Villain again? He kneeled down, accepting his faults, his deeds and was ready to own his mess... Wht is there to Questioned "Why now?" I’m not saying what he did was right....not then, and not now. But let’s not ignore the fact that realization and acceptance of one’s mistakes is no small thing. He was actually prepared to face her wrath. And let’s be honest, if G2 hadn’t walked in right at that moment, he would’ve told her the truth. He knew it would change everything… still, he chose to reveal it...To compensate for what he totally broke.

And let's talk about Abhira , Just becoz she saw his raw remorse, felt their shared pain, and considered starting fresh... she becomes a doormat? Really?
It's not her weakness..It;s there LOVE.. The same irrational, inconvenient, messy love that never left either of them. The kind that's been keeping them alive for these years. Sounds Poetic? YesBut that's how real love and real marriages works. You stop seeing each other as two separate entities. You can be mad at them — just like you get mad at yourself , but you can’t truly hate them.. You become one team, no matter how much broken you both are.

And no, I'm not saying Arman deserves infinite forgiveness on a golden plate. But every time he's hurt her, He's tried..In his own flawed way, desperate way.. To make amends. Today was just the beginning of that process again. It dosen't make him toxic, shameless, or irredeemable. And IF forgiving him out of choice dosen't make Abhira a spineless doormat. It just makes them...human. And in love

Now, with all due respect let’s talk about Anshuman....Everyone’s suddenly rooting for him like he’s the solution now. What do we really know about Anshuman? A bond barely a month old, built more on sympathy than depth. He’s a good man, sure. But does he truly love her? Or is he just drawn to her pain ... But if he too hurts her someday, then wht? Do we ask her to move on again? From person to person?

Wht I'm trying to say is: This isn't about self respect and ego battles. Love sometimes means letting your guards down, being vulnerable, and choosing to trust even if they broke you before..becoz you still believes in wht you had....

I'm not saying Abhira should forget everything and blindly just fall into Arman's arms, But I am saying is: Don't demonize her for still FEELING. And don't villainize him for finally TRYING.
That's all.. It came out too long
I rest my case.
And I truly means no offense..Just wanted to put forth a different perspective🌸

Originally posted by: Manny_123

Everyone is so focused on miscarriage as if Abhimanyu didn't lose anything??? His freaking brother died also. Didn't he also feel pain as much as Akshara felt? He divorced her because Akshara didn't realize her irreversable mistakes. No one can tolerate death.

I guess people wanted Abhimanyu to praise her for heroic action. Sacrifices ho jata hai nuh

Wahi be sir pair ki baatein aj bhi 🤣 usko jab conceive nahi kr payegi wala mudda tha toh pagal the Manju aur Abhi jo dhyaan rakh rhe the tabhi naa nikal dete - not something that doesn't happen in irl 🤷🏻‍♀️

Apni alag narrative chalarhe hain sadiyon se 🤣🤣🤣 khair bura hua baby Sharma k saath

Shauqeen sa ne aese badla nahi lena chahiye tha.

Yeh shauqeen sa ne kya seekh liya Saasu Sasura se tauba tauba buraa hua

Originally posted by: Manny_123

Everyone is so focused on miscarriage as if Abhimanyu didn't lose anything??? His freaking brother died also. Didn't he also feel pain as much as Akshara felt? He divorced her because Akshara didn't realize her irreversable mistakes. No one can tolerate death.

Like if a child is dead a man will loose all hope that it will come back. Abhimanyu was literally was in depression after loosing so many ppl in one day. Then he realized he lost 6 years with his son too. Just because so called woman was building her happy family with stranger met on bus by replacing his name from birth certificate of his son. Still akshara is an angel but armaan is a devil. I atleast appreciate armaan that he never lied to maira.

Originally posted by: KyaBakwaashi

I would point out Ab then for separating from father!

Originally posted by: BUSH146

See dear, I respectfully beg to differ…

1st of all, let's agree on one thing...This entire is leap has been soo loosely executed that no character feels truly consistent. Everyone seems a little off. So yes, calling out Arman's past action is absolutely valid. Wht he did pre-leap was unacceptable, completely out of character and quite honestly-Indefensible. Even he himself admitted today, and I'm sure, every AbhiMaan Shipped out here has been angry with him and still are.. We didn't supported his silence, especially not keeping the truth hidden for 7yrs long.. That was beyond stupid.

BUT.. today, when he finally gathered the courage Not to justify the unjustifiable, But to accept, to confess , to tell the truth and take accountability of his past actions, How did he become the Villain again? He kneeled down, accepting his faults, his deeds and was ready to own his mess... Wht is there to Questioned "Why now?" I’m not saying what he did was right....not then, and not now. But let’s not ignore the fact that realization and acceptance of one’s mistakes is no small thing. He was actually prepared to face her wrath. And let’s be honest, if G2 hadn’t walked in right at that moment, he would’ve told her the truth. He knew it would change everything… still, he chose to reveal it...To compensate for what he totally broke.

And let's talk about Abhira , Just becoz she saw his raw remorse, felt their shared pain, and considered starting fresh... she becomes a doormat? Really?
It's not her weakness..It;s there LOVE.. The same irrational, inconvenient, messy love that never left either of them. The kind that's been keeping them alive for these years. Sounds Poetic? YesBut that's how real love and real marriages works. You stop seeing each other as two separate entities. You can be mad at them — just like you get mad at yourself , but you can’t truly hate them.. You become one team, no matter how much broken you both are.

And no, I'm not saying Arman deserves infinite forgiveness on a golden plate. But every time he's hurt her, He's tried..In his own flawed way, desperate way.. To make amends. Today was just the beginning of that process again. It dosen't make him toxic, shameless, or irredeemable. And IF forgiving him out of choice dosen't make Abhira a spineless doormat. It just makes them...human. And in love

Now, with all due respect let’s talk about Anshuman....Everyone’s suddenly rooting for him like he’s the solution now. What do we really know about Anshuman? A bond barely a month old, built more on sympathy than depth. He’s a good man, sure. But does he truly love her? Or is he just drawn to her pain ... But if he too hurts her someday, then wht? Do we ask her to move on again? From person to person?

Wht I'm trying to say is: This isn't about self respect and ego battles. Love sometimes means letting your guards down, being vulnerable, and choosing to trust even if they broke you before..becoz you still believes in wht you had....

I'm not saying Abhira should forget everything and blindly just fall into Arman's arms, But I am saying is: Don't demonize her for still FEELING. And don't villainize him for finally TRYING.
That's all.. It came out too long
I rest my case.
And I truly means no offense..Just wanted to put forth a different perspective🌸

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

apparently divorce is greater than death for which abhimanyu was punished by making him to believe that he lost his both kids that day. And also we can also weigh parents love.

Like if a child is dead a man will loose all hope that it will come back. Abhimanyu was literally was in depression after loosing so many ppl in one day. Then he realized he lost 6 years with his son too. Just because so called woman was building her happy family with stranger met on bus by replacing his name from birth certificate of his son. Still akshara is an angel but armaan is a devil. I atleast appreciate armaan that he never lied to maira.

Isliye toh Armaan is >>> Abhimanyu

Usne bus letter likha, sunaya hi toh hai, bachi legya par mind you guys divorce nahi diya woh ab hogaa.

Beech beech mein bhi bus hote hote hogya types rha par kabhi divorce nahi hua. Ek baar annulment phir ek baar woh alimony blames and what not par he didn't Sin like Abhi and divorced Abhira ❤️❤️❤️

Originally posted by: KyaBakwaashi

I would point out Ab then for separating from father!

Originally posted by: chaaipani

@bold bhaisahab ek woh Aadmi mar gya tha aese kuch 25-26 saal ka tha. Bhai kehta Abhimanyu woh aese mar gya tha coz choti si galati hogayi thi Akshara se. Miscarriage wala aese mudda tha nahi waise par obviously convenience 😂😂