YRKKH BTS, SM updates and Spoilers Thread! #121 - Page 17

Originally posted by: Indira1211

Armaan is a piece of shit..the most toxic male lead in this show and one of the worst we’ve seen ..he does kaand upon kaand and they make him cry in every other scene to gain viewers sympathy…and abhira is a battered wife..who returns time and again to her abuser because she believes he loves her very much and is sorry for his abuse ..so she forgives him. Like today when he was saying sorry for all the horrible stuff he said and did to her before the leap..she’s holding his face and saying its fine..like really. Pre leap When he said she was not pookies mother and kept the baby away from her..she should have dealt with him sternly. No woman in real life will tolerate that crap..but abhira is beyond our comprehension 🤷🏻‍♀️

1st of all, let's agree on one thing...This entire is leap has been soo loosely executed that no character feels truly consistent. Everyone seems a little off. So yes, calling out Arman's past action is absolutely valid. Wht he did pre-leap was unacceptable, completely out of character and quite honestly-Indefensible. Even he himself admitted today, and I'm sure, every AbhiMaan Shipped out here has been angry with him and still are.. We didn't supported his silence, especially not keeping the truth hidden for 7yrs long.. That was beyond stupid.

BUT.. today, when he finally gathered the courage Not to justify the unjustifiable, But to accept, to confess , to tell the truth and take accountability of his past actions, How did he become the Villain again? He kneeled down, accepting his faults, his deeds and was ready to own his mess... Wht is there to Questioned "Why now?" I’m not saying what he did was right....not then, and not now. But let’s not ignore the fact that realization and acceptance of one’s mistakes is no small thing. He was actually prepared to face her wrath. And let’s be honest, if G2 hadn’t walked in right at that moment, he would’ve told her the truth. He knew it would change everything… still, he chose to reveal it...To compensate for what he totally broke.

And let's talk about Abhira , Just becoz she saw his raw remorse, felt their shared pain, and considered starting fresh... she becomes a doormat? Really?
It's not her weakness..It;s there LOVE.. The same irrational, inconvenient, messy love that never left either of them. The kind that's been keeping them alive for these years. Sounds Poetic? YesBut that's how real love and real marriages works. You stop seeing each other as two separate entities. You can be mad at them — just like you get mad at yourself , but you can’t truly hate them.. You become one team, no matter how much broken you both are.

And no, I'm not saying Arman deserves infinite forgiveness on a golden plate. But every time he's hurt her, He's tried..In his own flawed way, desperate way.. To make amends. Today was just the beginning of that process again. It dosen't make him toxic, shameless, or irredeemable. And IF forgiving him out of choice dosen't make Abhira a spineless doormat. It just makes them...human. And in love

Now, with all due respect let’s talk about Anshuman....Everyone’s suddenly rooting for him like he’s the solution now. What do we really know about Anshuman? A bond barely a month old, built more on sympathy than depth. He’s a good man, sure. But does he truly love her? Or is he just drawn to her pain ... But if he too hurts her someday, then wht? Do we ask her to move on again? From person to person?

Wht I'm trying to say is: This isn't about self respect and ego battles. Love sometimes means letting your guards down, being vulnerable, and choosing to trust even if they broke you before..becoz you still believes in wht you had....

I'm not saying Abhira should forget everything and blindly just fall into Arman's arms, But I am saying is: Don't demonize her for still FEELING. And don't villainize him for finally TRYING.
That's all.. It came out too long
I rest my case.
And I truly means no offense..Just wanted to put forth a different perspective🌸

Originally posted by: BUSH146

See dear, I respectfully beg to differ…

1st of all, let's agree on one thing...This entire is leap has been soo loosely executed that no character feels truly consistent. Everyone seems a little off. So yes, calling out Arman's past action is absolutely valid. Wht he did pre-leap was unacceptable, completely out of character and quite honestly-Indefensible. Even he himself admitted today, and I'm sure, every AbhiMaan Shipped out here has been angry with him and still are.. We didn't supported his silence, especially not keeping the truth hidden for 7yrs long.. That was beyond stupid.

BUT.. today, when he finally gathered the courage Not to justify the unjustifiable, But to accept, to confess , to tell the truth and take accountability of his past actions, How did he become the Villain again? He kneeled down, accepting his faults, his deeds and was ready to own his mess... Wht is there to Questioned "Why now?" I’m not saying what he did was right....not then, and not now. But let’s not ignore the fact that realization and acceptance of one’s mistakes is no small thing. He was actually prepared to face her wrath. And let’s be honest, if G2 hadn’t walked in right at that moment, he would’ve told her the truth. He knew it would change everything… still, he chose to reveal it...To compensate for what he totally broke.

And let's talk about Abhira , Just becoz she saw his raw remorse, felt their shared pain, and considered starting fresh... she becomes a doormat? Really?
It's not her weakness..It;s there LOVE.. The same irrational, inconvenient, messy love that never left either of them. The kind that's been keeping them alive for these years. Sounds Poetic? YesBut that's how real love and real marriages works. You stop seeing each other as two separate entities. You can be mad at them — just like you get mad at yourself , but you can’t truly hate them.. You become one team, no matter how much broken you both are.

And no, I'm not saying Arman deserves infinite forgiveness on a golden plate. But every time he's hurt her, He's tried..In his own flawed way, desperate way.. To make amends. Today was just the beginning of that process again. It dosen't make him toxic, shameless, or irredeemable. And IF forgiving him out of choice dosen't make Abhira a spineless doormat. It just makes them...human. And in love

Now, with all due respect let’s talk about Anshuman....Everyone’s suddenly rooting for him like he’s the solution now. What do we really know about Anshuman? A bond barely a month old, built more on sympathy than depth. He’s a good man, sure. But does he truly love her? Or is he just drawn to her pain ... But if he too hurts her someday, then wht? Do we ask her to move on again? From person to person?

Wht I'm trying to say is: This isn't about self respect and ego battles. Love sometimes means letting your guards down, being vulnerable, and choosing to trust even if they broke you before..becoz you still believes in wht you had....

I'm not saying Abhira should forget everything and blindly just fall into Arman's arms, But I am saying is: Don't demonize her for still FEELING. And don't villainize him for finally TRYING.
That's all.. It came out too long
I rest my case.
And I truly means no offense..Just wanted to put forth a different perspective🌸

You're free to have your opinion on characters but I have a.problem with the bold part ..no..thats certainly NOT how real life love & marriages work..if they're still working in these conditions , nobody would be happy , if you call that love..

Originally posted by: BUSH146

See dear, I respectfully beg to differ…

1st of all, let's agree on one thing...This entire is leap has been soo loosely executed that no character feels truly consistent. Everyone seems a little off. So yes, calling out Arman's past action is absolutely valid. Wht he did pre-leap was unacceptable, completely out of character and quite honestly-Indefensible. Even he himself admitted today, and I'm sure, every AbhiMaan Shipped out here has been angry with him and still are.. We didn't supported his silence, especially not keeping the truth hidden for 7yrs long.. That was beyond stupid.

BUT.. today, when he finally gathered the courage Not to justify the unjustifiable, But to accept, to confess , to tell the truth and take accountability of his past actions, How did he become the Villain again? He kneeled down, accepting his faults, his deeds and was ready to own his mess... Wht is there to Questioned "Why now?" I’m not saying what he did was right....not then, and not now. But let’s not ignore the fact that realization and acceptance of one’s mistakes is no small thing. He was actually prepared to face her wrath. And let’s be honest, if G2 hadn’t walked in right at that moment, he would’ve told her the truth. He knew it would change everything… still, he chose to reveal it...To compensate for what he totally broke.

And let's talk about Abhira , Just becoz she saw his raw remorse, felt their shared pain, and considered starting fresh... she becomes a doormat? Really?
It's not her weakness..It;s there LOVE.. The same irrational, inconvenient, messy love that never left either of them. The kind that's been keeping them alive for these years. Sounds Poetic? YesBut that's how real love and real marriages works. You stop seeing each other as two separate entities. You can be mad at them — just like you get mad at yourself , but you can’t truly hate them.. You become one team, no matter how much broken you both are.

And no, I'm not saying Arman deserves infinite forgiveness on a golden plate. But every time he's hurt her, He's tried..In his own flawed way, desperate way.. To make amends. Today was just the beginning of that process again. It dosen't make him toxic, shameless, or irredeemable. And IF forgiving him out of choice dosen't make Abhira a spineless doormat. It just makes them...human. And in love

Now, with all due respect let’s talk about Anshuman....Everyone’s suddenly rooting for him like he’s the solution now. What do we really know about Anshuman? A bond barely a month old, built more on sympathy than depth. He’s a good man, sure. But does he truly love her? Or is he just drawn to her pain ... But if he too hurts her someday, then wht? Do we ask her to move on again? From person to person?

Wht I'm trying to say is: This isn't about self respect and ego battles. Love sometimes means letting your guards down, being vulnerable, and choosing to trust even if they broke you before..becoz you still believes in wht you had....

I'm not saying Abhira should forget everything and blindly just fall into Arman's arms, But I am saying is: Don't demonize her for still FEELING. And don't villainize him for finally TRYING.
That's all.. It came out too long
I rest my case.
And I truly means no offense..Just wanted to put forth a different perspective🌸

This is Unironicly the funniest shit I've read

Originally posted by: BUSH146

See dear, I respectfully beg to differ…

1st of all, let's agree on one thing...This entire is leap has been soo loosely executed that no character feels truly consistent. Everyone seems a little off. So yes, calling out Arman's past action is absolutely valid. Wht he did pre-leap was unacceptable, completely out of character and quite honestly-Indefensible. Even he himself admitted today, and I'm sure, every AbhiMaan Shipped out here has been angry with him and still are.. We didn't supported his silence, especially not keeping the truth hidden for 7yrs long.. That was beyond stupid.

BUT.. today, when he finally gathered the courage Not to justify the unjustifiable, But to accept, to confess , to tell the truth and take accountability of his past actions, How did he become the Villain again? He kneeled down, accepting his faults, his deeds and was ready to own his mess... Wht is there to Questioned "Why now?" I’m not saying what he did was right....not then, and not now. But let’s not ignore the fact that realization and acceptance of one’s mistakes is no small thing. He was actually prepared to face her wrath. And let’s be honest, if G2 hadn’t walked in right at that moment, he would’ve told her the truth. He knew it would change everything… still, he chose to reveal it...To compensate for what he totally broke.

And let's talk about Abhira , Just becoz she saw his raw remorse, felt their shared pain, and considered starting fresh... she becomes a doormat? Really?
It's not her weakness..It;s there LOVE.. The same irrational, inconvenient, messy love that never left either of them. The kind that's been keeping them alive for these years. Sounds Poetic? YesBut that's how real love and real marriages works. You stop seeing each other as two separate entities. You can be mad at them — just like you get mad at yourself , but you can’t truly hate them.. You become one team, no matter how much broken you both are.

And no, I'm not saying Arman deserves infinite forgiveness on a golden plate. But every time he's hurt her, He's tried..In his own flawed way, desperate way.. To make amends. Today was just the beginning of that process again. It dosen't make him toxic, shameless, or irredeemable. And IF forgiving him out of choice dosen't make Abhira a spineless doormat. It just makes them...human. And in love

Now, with all due respect let’s talk about Anshuman....Everyone’s suddenly rooting for him like he’s the solution now. What do we really know about Anshuman? A bond barely a month old, built more on sympathy than depth. He’s a good man, sure. But does he truly love her? Or is he just drawn to her pain ... But if he too hurts her someday, then wht? Do we ask her to move on again? From person to person?

Wht I'm trying to say is: This isn't about self respect and ego battles. Love sometimes means letting your guards down, being vulnerable, and choosing to trust even if they broke you before..becoz you still believes in wht you had....

I'm not saying Abhira should forget everything and blindly just fall into Arman's arms, But I am saying is: Don't demonize her for still FEELING. And don't villainize him for finally TRYING.
That's all.. It came out too long
I rest my case.
And I truly means no offense..Just wanted to put forth a different perspective🌸

Beautifully penned

Originally posted by: BUSH146

See dear, I respectfully beg to differ…

1st of all, let's agree on one thing...This entire is leap has been soo loosely executed that no character feels truly consistent. Everyone seems a little off. So yes, calling out Arman's past action is absolutely valid. Wht he did pre-leap was unacceptable, completely out of character and quite honestly-Indefensible. Even he himself admitted today, and I'm sure, every AbhiMaan Shipped out here has been angry with him and still are.. We didn't supported his silence, especially not keeping the truth hidden for 7yrs long.. That was beyond stupid.

BUT.. today, when he finally gathered the courage Not to justify the unjustifiable, But to accept, to confess , to tell the truth and take accountability of his past actions, How did he become the Villain again? He kneeled down, accepting his faults, his deeds and was ready to own his mess... Wht is there to Questioned "Why now?" I’m not saying what he did was right....not then, and not now. But let’s not ignore the fact that realization and acceptance of one’s mistakes is no small thing. He was actually prepared to face her wrath. And let’s be honest, if G2 hadn’t walked in right at that moment, he would’ve told her the truth. He knew it would change everything… still, he chose to reveal it...To compensate for what he totally broke.

And let's talk about Abhira , Just becoz she saw his raw remorse, felt their shared pain, and considered starting fresh... she becomes a doormat? Really?
It's not her weakness..It;s there LOVE.. The same irrational, inconvenient, messy love that never left either of them. The kind that's been keeping them alive for these years. Sounds Poetic? YesBut that's how real love and real marriages works. You stop seeing each other as two separate entities. You can be mad at them — just like you get mad at yourself , but you can’t truly hate them.. You become one team, no matter how much broken you both are.

And no, I'm not saying Arman deserves infinite forgiveness on a golden plate. But every time he's hurt her, He's tried..In his own flawed way, desperate way.. To make amends. Today was just the beginning of that process again. It dosen't make him toxic, shameless, or irredeemable. And IF forgiving him out of choice dosen't make Abhira a spineless doormat. It just makes them...human. And in love

Now, with all due respect let’s talk about Anshuman....Everyone’s suddenly rooting for him like he’s the solution now. What do we really know about Anshuman? A bond barely a month old, built more on sympathy than depth. He’s a good man, sure. But does he truly love her? Or is he just drawn to her pain ... But if he too hurts her someday, then wht? Do we ask her to move on again? From person to person?

Wht I'm trying to say is: This isn't about self respect and ego battles. Love sometimes means letting your guards down, being vulnerable, and choosing to trust even if they broke you before..becoz you still believes in wht you had....

I'm not saying Abhira should forget everything and blindly just fall into Arman's arms, But I am saying is: Don't demonize her for still FEELING. And don't villainize him for finally TRYING.
That's all.. It came out too long
I rest my case.
And I truly means no offense..Just wanted to put forth a different perspective🌸

Originally posted by: Sajini235

Well, this might be an out of topic question. But since sam is on a holiday, what are they gonna do with abhira's character till sam returns from holiday? Are we getting a hospital track or abhira will go missing for few days as ss guy earlier said? I personally would love the second option. Abhira better spend some alone time away from all these chaos and asks herself some honest questions.

Originally posted by: Krinya

You're free to have your opinion on characters but I have a.problem with the bold part ..no..thats certainly NOT how real life love & marriages work..if they're still working in these conditions , nobody would be happy , if you call that love..

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

One partner forgives other partner's sin of taking away child because partner himself did something unpardonable, which Abhira didn't.

Abhimanyu divorced Akshara when she had a miscarriage. Kartik questioned Naira's character. Abhira didn't do anything wrong. She would've if something happened to the child but it didn't.

@bold bhaisahab ek woh Aadmi mar gya tha aese kuch 25-26 saal ka tha. Bhai kehta Abhimanyu woh aese mar gya tha coz choti si galati hogayi thi Akshara se. Miscarriage wala aese mudda tha nahi waise par obviously convenience 😂😂

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

i have a question. If abheera ran away with kid in some issues and ar didn't get father haq at all will their eternal love is same the feeling their bond real life marriage work? Then it's custody fight. Doormat is told bhagodi or bacha chor. Will humanity work then? Behaving like in human for 7 yrs is humanity

I would point out Ab then for separating from father!

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

i have a question. If abheera ran away with kid in some issues and ar didn't get father haq at all will their eternal love is same the feeling their bond real life marriage work? Then it's custody fight. Doormat is told bhagodi or bacha chor. Will humanity work then? Behaving like in human for 7 yrs is humanity

I don't understand the same thing it's okay for a mother seperate the child from father by giving absolute bullshit reasons. Naira i can still understand as he doubted her character and might have questioned about the father of the child. But saying what akshara did is correct and what armaan is doing is wrong looks really illogical to me..

No one has rights to seperate a child from the parent be it a woman or a man. Either we all should let go saying it's a fictional show. If akshara never apologized to abhimanyu for seperating him from his child and replacing him from his son's life then why expect armaan to do that. Atleast maira knows she has a mother. Maira can choose between her real mother and her neighbour. But unfortunately abhir never had that option as ak made him to believe a road side stranger was his father.