YRKKH BTS, SM updates and Spoilers Thread! #121 - Page 13

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I can't believe this is the same show....😯

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

Kartik regretted for 5 years, there wasn't self-victimization but only guilt and self-blame (just like Abhira) infact he isolated himself in a room where Kartik counted days he spent without Naira. That room was a jail for him. When Naira returned he felt betrayed because she not only kept him away from the child, but let him live in the guilt of her death too. Abhimanyu completely changed in 6 years, even after knowing what Akshu did he didn't want to separate mother-child, he gave up custody even when he get to spend time with his son after six long years. Abhimanyu let another man take fatherly rights in his place for his son's happiness. He supported Ak over his mother, he agreed to accept her unborn child and left his mother when she was adamant not to accept Abhinav's unborn child.

If Armaan has similar regret or redemption for 5-6 years after Pookie's truth revelation, even if it is for 1-2 years and then Abhira accepts him, I will have no problem.

@red Abhira is NOT the worst FL in the fictional world for me. I'm watching the show for her. Why would I consider her worst? It's just that I can't support her when she is wrong or illogical. I can't be a blind fan.

Originally posted by: Krinya

Suppose the track isn't played out the way you described..but reading it made me so happy

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

BUt one question - isn't that what happened in every gen? Be it Naira, Akshara or Abhira, all 3 have always given a pass to their sasural wale. In fact sab main se atleats Abhira ne apne sasuma ko jail toh bheja, despite getting her out in a week.

Originally posted by: Sajini235

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I can't believe this is the same show....😯

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

That's your perspective, because if apology matters the most then Abhira asking Armaan to meet Vidya because she wanted to apologize, wasn't wrong. Armaan should've apologized her for the first time, yes he agreed to meet her, but could only apologize her and lived with her when her son Rohit died. From your perspective, Armaan will always be superior to any other character no matter he does and that's completely fine, as it's your choice and perspective

But for discussion's sake Naira and Akshu cannot be compared with Armaan as they were victims unlike Armaan. Questioning your wife's character might not be a sin for you but it is, so Naira's sin of separating Kairav from Kartik came directly from her fear that he will question paternity of the child and she saw him talking against her when she returned and thought he still hates her. Both were equally wrong. If Naira was wrong Kartik was equally wrong. Akshu was blamed for Neil's death and her own child's death, she was divorced while having a miscarriage, she tried to inform Abhimanyu about Abhir, but he didn't listen to her. Akshu was still sinful in separating father and son. But being blamed for your own child's death and divorced makes her a victim just like Abhimanyu who lost his brother and their child. What did Armaan lose that day to make him a victim? For a mother there can be no bigger guilt then being the reason of her child's injury, disappearance or hurt. Abhira lived with that guilt for 7 years! She was abandoned by Armaan, even when he found Pookie safe. Armaan didn't face even 5% of what Naira and Akshu faced to be called victim, he considers himself to be. Nothing can justify what Naira and Akshu did similarly nothing can justify what Kartik and Abhimanyu did. Here Armaan's comparison isn't with Naira/Akshu it is with Abhira. What did she do to Armaan to be distanced from her child from the time Pookie was born? Did she wrong Armaan the way Kartik/Abhimanyu wronged their partners?

Armaan’s action in taking the child away and letting Abhira stew for seven years without knowing where her child was and in what condition is absolutely indefensible ….no one can argue on that point …however the choice to do whatever she wants to do about the truth whenever she gets to know it rests entirely with Abhira ..,if she chooses to, she can forgive him and become a family along with Maira …or move on with some other man …or stay single if that is what she wants …bottom line it is about her agency ..her right to choose …if I have to stand up for Akshu’s right to move on, then I have to stand up for Abhira’s right not to …if that is what she eventually wants …if she believes that she can get over the past and build a meaningful relationship with Armaan all over again and be a family with Maira and he…then she has a right to her belief …if she believes that her happiness or peace lies in moving on, then that is also her right …🤷🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

You just said in your post that no FL in the fictional world will accept what she did - that's where I drew my conclusion.

On what you mentioned for Karthik & Abhimanyu, even Armaan has been in utter guilt after he realised just how badly his actions have affected Abhira. He has tried to tell her the truth twice already and today made Abhira realise that what happened 7 years back was his mistake alone and that Abhira is not just blameless, but that he had done complete injustice to her and her motherhood by questioning it 7 years back. We cannot say what they will do in the future and if Armaan will be punished or what consequences he will face. But on that assumption calling Abhira names today because she felt that her husband wants to give their relationship another chance based on the limited information she has, doesn't seem right to me atleast.

@bold from my perspective there should be a punishment like Maira getting kidnapped by Geetu (without getting harmed) and him realizing that he can't trust strangers too for child's safety and then him facing same blames and guilt-tripping, Abhira faced. It would've been logical scenario before Armaan's redemption or apology than focusing on his assumptions, from story perspective. The guilt would've made more sense or appeared genuine. Maybe many liked it but I personally didn't. What's with Armaan's "I assumed u were happy without me or the child so I didn't tell about the child?" It's not just wrong, it's stupid, illogical and worst possible reason to separate mother and child. If a mother is happy and thriving in her career, living lavishly, healed from pain, presumably happy in her world, even if she remarried (let's assume for discussion sake) and father ran away with the child. Is it right to even justify that? Mother/Father is happy without the child so let's separate the child from parent? Abhira had the right to know her child was alive or not. She had the right to know Pookie was safe or not. Armaan's guilt stems from the wrong reason. He should be guilty for even thinking of separate Abhira and Maira, even if Abhira was happy in her world. Writers should've given him a better reason than assumptions.

@red Armaan is not Abhira's husband, Is he? Then why is Abhira's husband Geetanjali's fiance'?

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Which is why when Naira came back or even Akshu for that matter never apologised for anything. Keeping a child away from his father and not telling them about said child is a crime. They too did a sin by keeping the child from its father, especially when that child has no danger from his father. Yet neither apologised for their choices and more so Akshu toh even illegally changed the name of the father in her child's birth certificate.

Armaan assumed Abhira had moved on and that Abhira didn't care about him or their child. That was his assumption which was wrong, which was why when he came back he made sure to apologise to everyone he felt he had hurt when he left - most of all Abhira. Forgiving him or staying away from him is Abhira's choice. That doesn't disregard Armaan's apology or him feeling that he needs to make things right. Armaan may not deserve Abhira, but he definitely wants to atone for his mistakes, which was why he wanted to tell Abhira about what he did 7 years back. Now how Abhira chooses to punish him is on Abhira. And knowing her, once she finds out the whole truth, she will definitely not forgive him easily.

IMO what Armaan did today is still so much better than what the FL's did in the previous 2 gens, despite being wronged by the ML's.

Thank you Principal Madame

That's why I hate comparison when the incident that leads to the situation and person is so different. All these characters from previous Gen were flawed human being, Abhimaanyu wasn't perfect and definitely wasn't great. I don't know about Naira so I won't comment on it. True Akshu never apologize if I'm not mistaken I don't think she regretted it either. Abhi never press charges but Akshu did lose custody as she should cause what she did was a crime, regarding birth certificate. Armaan committed a crime by kidnapping their child, and all his assumption, insecurity and perfection he was looking for as a mother in Abhira for Pookie in reason he justify his leaving falls flat by having G2 around as a stand in mother for Miara.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

so they’re shooting anshuman and abhiras engagement according to star station guy. Tanya will probably want the wedding to happen on the same day as hers as she loves her bhaiya very much.. and on the wedding day Mairas truth will come out. I think anshuman will become mahaan and send abhira to Maira and Armaan…like KKHH . Geetu is already grey ..maybe she’ll go negative..and kaveri will get away with hiding the truth from abhira..as they’re showing it as something she’s doing for abhiras benefit 🙄

Is Ar invited for the event?

Originally posted by: Swathi_7

Naya safar insaan hua tho bolega