Armaan - Abhira: A match made in hell

Hey,

I am returning after a long time but today's episode made me want to compare the last season and try to understand why would anyone want Abhira and Armaan together.

The one thing I honestly loved about Abhimanyu was that he never wanted to take his kid away from his mother, all he wanted was his time with him, it was Akshara filling for sole custody that for me made her a bad mother because she didn't put her son first but rather her anger against Abhimanyu. Even her marriage with Abhinav, the only issue I had was that marriage was done hurriedly AFTER she saw Abhimanyu and Arohi were engaged, and Abhimanyu told her he loved her still and would even accept her child from another man (as he thought), same as Abhinav had done, so it wasn't out of love or even gratitude, but to me, it felt out of zidd that I need to save my happy illusion so better quickly marry.

Here Armaan has made the one mistake that's unforgivable over every other he has made, he himself lived without his mother and left kaveri and vidya when he found out they kept him away from her, but he did the same with his child. He knew how much Abhira loved her daughter, even if in that instance he thought she wasn't a good mother, it never occurred to him even once in 7 years that she would be in pain missing her daughter, even if she lived in a big house. He was convinced Abhira would die if she found out Daksh wasn't her son, he used that so many times to guilt Rohit into not returning Daksh, but then conveniently figured living in a big house with a loving family will make her forget her baby. Did he care about living in a big house with loving family when he found out about his mother or child?

I saw a few comments about people saying Armaan will now come and fix his mistakes, he will prove he loves only Abhira and she should also accept him since he now knows they suffered and because he loves only her. They can only love each other and perfect couple and all that, but when Abhimanyu tried any of that, he was the evil man trying to break a happy family because Akshara was married and had a kid, BUT Armaan kidnapped his own daughter over his anger issues with his wife and suddenly his anger issues make him human? I understand he was pressured by Vidya to be her Rohit, but instead of talking to her, he just got passive aggressive against helping anyone in his family and started being that I only care for my wife and my child and then wife was also deleted from it.

Why would anyone want a husband like Armaan? Akshara only saw the student she knew, so she gave her daughter to him, but this man is neither Abhimanyu, nor Abhinav, he is the perfect combination of the worst traits of both. Anger issues from one and perpetual feeling of bechara from another.

I agree with Dadisa about Anshuman because he seems to have the best traits of Abhimanyu and Abhinav, driven, caring and non pushy, but I do agree with Abhira that it needs to be her making that call, not Dadisa. But since Dadisa is the only one who knows the extent to which Armaan has fallen, I can understand her being pushy because she knows Abhira will break when she finds out the truth and also that Armaan doesn't deserve her anymore, where Abhira might go for her baby and well by loving the kind of man who called her a bad mother and what not (even her mother moved on from such a man in this time frame) she has proven she will do gulu gulu with him again happily.

Ok am done ranting! 🤣

Originally posted by: cutepigs

Hey,

I am returning after a long time but today's episode made me want to compare the last season and try to understand why would anyone want Abhira and Armaan together.

The one thing I honestly loved about Abhimanyu was that he never wanted to take his kid away from his mother, all he wanted was his time with him, it was Akshara filling for sole custody that for me made her a bad mother because she didn't put her son first but rather her anger against Abhimanyu. Even her marriage with Abhinav, the only issue I had was that marriage was done hurriedly AFTER she saw Abhimanyu and Arohi were engaged, and Abhimanyu told her he loved her still and would even accept her child from another man (as he thought), same as Abhinav had done, so it wasn't out of love or even gratitude, but to me, it felt out of zidd that I need to save my happy illusion so better quickly marry.

Here Armaan has made the one mistake that's unforgivable over every other he has made, he himself lived without his mother and left kaveri and vidya when he found out they kept him away from her, but he did the same with his child. He knew how much Abhira loved her daughter, even if in that instance he thought she wasn't a good mother, it never occurred to him even once in 7 years that she would be in pain missing her daughter, even if she lived in a big house. He was convinced Abhira would die if she found out Daksh wasn't her son, he used that so many times to guilt Rohit into not returning Daksh, but then conveniently figured living in a big house with a loving family will make her forget her baby. Did he care about living in a big house with loving family when he found out about his mother or child?

I saw a few comments about people saying Armaan will now come and fix his mistakes, he will prove he loves only Abhira and she should also accept him since he now knows they suffered and because he loves only her. They can only love each other and perfect couple and all that, but when Abhimanyu tried any of that, he was the evil man trying to break a happy family because Akshara was married and had a kid, BUT Armaan kidnapped his own daughter over his anger issues with his wife and suddenly his anger issues make him human? I understand he was pressured by Vidya to be her Rohit, but instead of talking to her, he just got passive aggressive against helping anyone in his family and started being that I only care for my wife and my child and then wife was also deleted from it.

Why would anyone want a husband like Armaan? Akshara only saw the student she knew, so she gave her daughter to him, but this man is neither Abhimanyu, nor Abhinav, he is the perfect combination of the worst traits of both. Anger issues from one and perpetual feeling of bechara from another.

I agree with Dadisa about Anshuman because he seems to have the best traits of Abhimanyu and Abhinav, driven, caring and non pushy, but I do agree with Abhira that it needs to be her making that call, not Dadisa. But since Dadisa is the only one who knows the extent to which Armaan has fallen, I can understand her being pushy because she knows Abhira will break when she finds out the truth and also that Armaan doesn't deserve her anymore, where Abhira might go for her baby and well by loving the kind of man who called her a bad mother and what not (even her mother moved on from such a man in this time frame) she has proven she will do gulu gulu with him again happily.

Ok am done ranting! 🤣

His ww has already started lol

And silly girl herself said she has no feelings for anshu boy

So that means she is still hung up on armaan

And armaan toh obviously silly girl se he pyar karta hai chahe kuch bhi ho jaye😂

But but but abhimanyu the black flag threw away his biwi in this style

It's so funny to see defense for Arman when the same wasn't extended to last gen. I guess ropu is too pretty to look at 🤣🤣 people had issues with voice behavior etc. nothing for this criminal who just keeps crying. I guess ropus tears have filled few villages underground water in rajasthan, poor hc he lacked in that department as well 🤣🤣🤣

Arman was abused. He was also brainwashed gaslighted etc. then he was mentally not right. So many excuses for that awful man..and you know what? Abhira and the supporter deserves this man only. Mubarak ho the greatest green flag in town

Originally posted by: Nydv

His ww has already started lol

And silly girl herself said she has no feelings for anshu boy

So that means she is still hung up on armaan

And armaan toh obviously silly girl se he pyar karta hai chahe kuch bhi ho jaye😂

I know and I get her saying no to Anshuman, but loving a man after everything he said to her, is something even her own mother moved on from like 30 years ago, in the show timeline. So is it to believe she only moved on because she found a replacement family and if she had gone Naira path, she won't have needed even an apology from Abhimanyu to fall back in his arms? Even Abhira's grandmother didnt stand by the man who questioned her character and moved on another 25-30 years earlier.

Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat

But but but abhimanyu the black flag threw away his biwi in this style

It's so funny to see defense for Arman when the same wasn't extended to last gen. I guess ropu is too pretty to look at 🤣🤣 people had issues with voice behavior etc. nothing for this criminal who just keeps crying. I guess ropus tears have filled few villages underground water in rajasthan, poor hc he lacked in that department as well 🤣🤣🤣

Arman was abused. He was also brainwashed gaslighted etc. then he was mentally not right. So many excuses for that awful man..and you know what? Abhira and the supporter deserves this man only. Mubarak ho the greatest green flag in town

Thats what my point is. You can be a fan but to defend such a man? I never defend Abhimanyu for how he treated Akshara that time, I just believe he redeemed himself by taking care of everyone and never trying to take his son from Akshara, and then choosing Akshara when the choice came between his mother and her again. But this man actually separated a child and mother, knowingly, and is now acting like he is the victim who is forced to marry without his say??. What rubbish! Last time also he did that, and this time also.. he is the ultimate judge of parenthood in his head when he throws away and keeps vidya as and when he chooses!

And what dumb ass behavior was her running to meet and talk to him, happily?? He knew where you lived last 7 years, he thought you were in Poddar House, and yet he never tried to contact you because he didnt care for you in his life, and you are happy to go talk to him and be with him now that you know where he is?? What? Abhira is the worst of doormat FL to want to be with such a man and that too so happily..

Originally posted by: cutepigs

I know and I get her saying no to Anshuman, but loving a man after everything he said to her, is something even her own mother moved on from like 30 years ago, in the show timeline. So is it to believe she only moved on because she found a replacement family and if she had gone Naira path, she won't have needed even an apology from Abhimanyu to fall back in his arms? Even Abhira's grandmother didnt stand by the man who questioned her character and moved on another 25-30 years earlier.

Abhira's character has been pathetic from the start

No comparisons with the previous generation bec its done & dusted , the characters were different & their circumstances too..ur right , abhimanyu was redeemed but he never got a chance at proper redemption coz they decided to end his character .. akshu was equally pathetic bec she kept changing partners ..

Arman & abhira were never a perfect couple , just that one sentence frm abhira sums up their relationship frm wedding to present date "main aise admi ke peeche pagal ho rahi hoon jo meri band bajaye jaa raha hai" .

Arman cannot be redeemed, if all the men on this earth are dead and abhira has to marry him, I won't ask her but this is what they're going to show ..first he will bring the excuse of love, then poddars then maira , i dunno how long abhira can take it bec frankly, in the past she has only disappointed when it came to her self respect ..she's the biggest doormat in yrkkh history who's idea of existence is to serve her abusers ..

Originally posted by: cutepigs

Thats what my point is. You can be a fan but to defend such a man? I never defend Abhimanyu for how he treated Akshara that time, I just believe he redeemed himself by taking care of everyone and never trying to take his son from Akshara, and then choosing Akshara when the choice came between his mother and her again. But this man actually separated a child and mother, knowingly, and is now acting like he is the victim who is forced to marry without his say??. What rubbish! Last time also he did that, and this time also.. he is the ultimate judge of parenthood in his head when he throws away and keeps vidya as and when he chooses!

And what dumb ass behavior was her running to meet and talk to him, happily?? He knew where you lived last 7 years, he thought you were in Poddar House, and yet he never tried to contact you because he didnt care for you in his life, and you are happy to go talk to him and be with him now that you know where he is?? What? Abhira is the worst of doormat FL to want to be with such a man and that too so happily..

Manyu acknowledged his wrongs and mistakes. He accepted that he is made up of anger and ego. Armaan ka door door tak kuch nazar nahi aata. Koi bhi situation ho, he is the victim. All his redemption is done that way.

During the deal marriage, he claimed he did not know what love was and was confused between infatuation and love, hence it was implied he was also a victim. After marriage, he ignored his wife because his mom wasn't happy. But he married her against his mom's wishes, so what did he expect? Here he was the bechara son, and hence a victim In baby swap kaand, he was a bechara husband who was just looking out for his wife's interests. After the bribery case, his bio mom appeared, and he automatically became the bigger victim. He agreed to free her from that only because he couldn't take RK helping her; instead, if she had suffered, then it wouldn't have mattered at all. When Abhira had asked her to stay away from Ruhi, he gave all kind of gyaan and went on to behave like a jilted lover in RK's case. Now after 7 years, he is again the biggest victim, as their parenting style was different, so he had no choice but to keep her daughter away from her mother.

There's no sight of him accepting any of his mistakes. Even this time, he would be turned a victim and voila redeemed

Hi cuty .after a long time on forum. Abheera has no fl qualities she is an extra in story against fl shown in yrkkh. Ar is another nonsense suitable for the cringe abheera. This girl was shown as strong shouting barking girl whenever she was humiliated. Next it started her bending for ar as he has family which she wants. He used her for her family bent her to dadi Vidya tunes when needed. She has no options except ilu I need u I have to roll on bed with you.

I have a friend who is working in big govt post her hubby is useless. He had no job properly except a bigg house in posh area. Seeing that my friend parents hooked her. After 2 small kids he left her one day saying he got bored. He went to another place lived with another woman didn't turn up to see kids. This girl got her mil support rised kids worked in office maintained life. After 5 ,6 yrs he got buddhi came back to his phamillly back as he realised he can't live wo them. This maa earth has forgiven him and accepted happily my kids got father karke. Again after 4 yrs he jumped to another place. This is her format even after 26 yrs of shadi. Her mil is alive so staying with her she had no other go except invite him give arti again. To live like that 🙏

Seeing abheera I am getting my friends life.

If abheera had kid with her she could have forgotten ar or let go of him his abuse to hell

Abheera had ar ki nishani his mother and grand mother, ar has abheera ki nishani. So they can't go ahead.

Abheera telling I can't love anshuman is right to her character as she didn't think that way except dosti. Ar using geetu for maira is as for his character as he always uses people ditch simply. Dadu should slap him soon for the mischap. These two are the worst in rista. We have seen naksh kirti the parallel pair with such a grace dignity had second innings in life. Quality of story is degraded from long.

Originally posted by: strancho

Manyu acknowledged his wrongs and mistakes. He accepted that he is made up of anger and ego. Armaan ka door door tak kuch nazar nahi aata. Koi bhi situation ho, he is the victim. All his redemption is done that way.

During the deal marriage, he claimed he did not know what love was and was confused between infatuation and love, hence it was implied he was also a victim. After marriage, he ignored his wife because his mom wasn't happy. But he married her against his mom's wishes, so what did he expect? Here he was the bechara son, and hence a victim In baby swap kaand, he was a bechara husband who was just looking out for his wife's interests. After the bribery case, his bio mom appeared, and he automatically became the bigger victim. He agreed to free her from that only because he couldn't take RK helping her; instead, if she had suffered, then it wouldn't have mattered at all. When Abhira had asked her to stay away from Ruhi, he gave all kind of gyaan and went on to behave like a jilted lover in RK's case. Now after 7 years, he is again the biggest victim, as their parenting style was different, so he had no choice but to keep her daughter away from her mother.

There's no sight of him accepting any of his mistakes. Even this time, he would be turned a victim and voila redeemed

Deal shadi out Vidya threw abheera away held ruhi. His mother father fought for separation and he applied divorce first after deal shadi. His father got her to outhouse mother flipped to abheera so he wanted to marry her.

His mother is angry on him for choosing infertile abheera so he tortured her. Later got buddhi and accepted his wife after 3 months with cabin issue too. Mata ji flipped to gabheera as she got kid in hand. Dakah truth time too she supported ar as she knew the truth. Divorce. Applied but jaipur jhanga went on with mata ji going to mandir for blessings of union accident by mata ji .

Ar never felt for abhir paralysed legs of his pain except meri maa.As mataji sent to jail ar signed divorce. With shivani real mom truth out abhimaan union done.

Ar was angry on Vidya mata for shivani issue so he left home it's not for abheera or shivani. Mataji didn't give shivani any haq nor let dadi accept shivani so beta ji gone.

From Pookie in tummy mata ji supported ar saying his darr barrr garrrr. Dani bonda. As Vidya went against ar for pookie and supported abheera ar left abheera went away. If that day Vidya kicked abheera away in blames he could have stayed there.

This maa beta duo are the potty in story change their colours all time. Abheera has no other go like an orphan struck there as beggar.

Like cuty told match made in hell.