Qarz E Jaan (HUM) #4 - Usama, Nameer, Yumna

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Posted: 6 months ago

#921

Originally posted by: pilot100

That's what I don't understand, why is Bisma emotionally and psychologically still binded with that house. She clearly hates them too. And I don't think Nashwa is emotionally or psychologically attached to this house either. She could have thought more rationally, taken someone advice or help, bur not taken such a huge decision on her own

This is the harsh reality of trauma and victim behavior. Years and decades of it. The real chains are psychological.

Nashwa didn’t even feel comfortable letting her mother go alone with Barkat and Bakhtiyar to her ex husband’s grave. She went with her mother as her protector. Despite knowing her daughter is not wrong, Bisma slaps her in front of everyone else. There is so much internalised oppression that Bisma does to herself which goes beyond her real oppressors. She silences herself and is comfortable remaining a ghost in that house. Rationality doesn’t come into the picture when survival is at stake.

Banaya tha na rational plan Nashwa ne. To say no to Ammar once her mother got married? Kya faida howa uss ka? Was Bakhtiyar going to let her mother do that without securing something in return FIRST? Of course not. Kachi goliyaan nahi kheli hain uss ne.

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Posted: 6 months ago

#922

Why people suddenly become cry babies when they are called out on their toxic behaviour. And people also need to brush up on what 'bullying' actually is? Bullying is mocking, bashing ridiculing others in the name of FunNnNnn. Bullying is not standing up to this behaviour and showing the mirror to the actual bullies.

Is anybody going to deny THE FACT that Usama was mercilessly mocked and shamed and ridiculed on THIS forum. Remember! the screenshots WERE shared! There is a huge difference between criticizing and mocking. LEARN THAT DIFFERENCE! and I am not talking in Martian, mocking and bashing IS ACTUALLY AGAINST THIS FORUM's RULES!

People want to criticize Usama's acting. They can criticize all they want! They have been doing it constantly! Never stopped! after all it is THIER RIGHT to share their opinion but then same people criticizing others' 'opinion' and bringing Yumna Stans into it IS a problem! and another thing to clarify for people having 'great deduction skills' (apparently others don't have any).. that no .. bashing/mocking is not equal to criticizing/sharing opinion as former was continuously happening on this forum (still happening to be honest), which people called out and shared evidence in form of THE SCREEN SHOTS!

About comparing! the same people who continuously criticize and compare an actor that oh if Usama wasn't there, if an A B C D actor was there, especially if WaHaAjJJjjJJJ was there then Oh my God then stars and moons and sun would have been dangling from this show. The same people have the audacity to criticize others on their sort of comparison because they don't agree with it.

And btw Usama's comparison to Fawad did not even happen on THIS forum. It happened somewhere else. It was brought on this forum (which is again AGAISNT THIS FORUM RULES) and Yumna Stans were brought into it and then bashed and ridiculed! Wah! kia non-toxic behaviour hai??? smiley32

These people want 'their NEGATIVE comparison' to be respected because they have supposedly ALL THE RIGHTS but they don't want to respect others' POSITIVE comparison???! once again wah! kia non-toxic behaviour hai??? smiley32

And also people very well know what 'toxicity' and 'bullying' actually means. No need to invent the new dictionary. Toxicity is being negative all the time and bullying is constantly demean, bash and ridicule a person. Can anybody deny? Calling out bullying and negativity is not bullying and toxicity! GET THAT PLEASE!

Edited by WabalMunni - 6 months ago