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Posted: 6 months ago

It's kinda sad to see Burhan being labeled as foolish, especially when Asim, who waited for years for someone as passive as Bisma, isn’t being given the same judgment. Why is Nashwa being called cold-hearted, when she has done everything in her power for the well-being of her mother? A truly cold-hearted person would be entirely self-centered, putting their own desires above everyone else’s. But Nashwa sacrificed so much for the sake of her mom— making countless sacrifices, even when it means her own happiness is put on hold.

In the same vein, just as Faryal and any other female character has the right to choose her life partner, Burhan, too, deserves that same autonomy. His right to choose shouldn’t be undermined. Similarly, while Faryal's strength and courage are admirable, it's important to recognize that she has a solid foundation: a loving family, financial security, and unwavering parental support. It's easier to stand firm when you know you have a safety net beneath you. Faryal's character is strong because she's had the privilege of support from her parents, which gives her the courage to speak her truth and take a stand.

But Nashwa’s reality couldn’t be more different. She’s grown up with no safety net. She’s always been on her own, bearing the weight of a harsh, tragic childhood. Her mother's timidness and the family's financial dependency on the taya have left her feeling isolated and vulnerable. Even basic comforts like having an AC in her room were things she couldn’t take for granted, let alone the emotional support she so desperately needed. From a young age, Nashwa had to fend for herself, navigating a world where the people who should have supported her were either too afraid to act or too absorbed in their own struggles. The emotional toll of growing up in such a cold, oppressive environment is immense. It's not easy to simply rise above this, to suddenly find the strength to stand up for herself when she's never had anyone to back her.

The recent episodes have made it glaringly obvious how trapped Nashwa feels. Her taya is not just emotionally abusive—he's shown that he’s willing to go to any lengths to control her, even resorting to violence, as seen with Maheen's case. Nashwa could have walked away and left the suffocating grip of Barkhat Villa, but she chose not to. She stayed, not out of submission, but because she understood the cost of leaving—she knew the toll it would take on hermother. This decision required an immense amount of strength, the kind that only someone who has endured such hardship could possess. She didn’t just give up or succumb to her circumstances; she chose to fight, to stand tall in the face of overwhelming adversity.

Nashwa's journey isn’t about being cold-hearted or uncaring. It’s about survival. It's about finding a way to be strong in a world that has constantly put her down. Her character is defined not by the easy choices she could have made but by the difficult ones—ones that required sacrifice, courage, and, above all, a sense of responsibility to the ones she loves. She may not have the luxury of a secure, loving family like Faryal, but that doesn't make her any less deserving of understanding or empathy. fact, it makes her strength even more remarkable.

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Posted: 6 months ago

Originally posted by: nightingale1234

It's kinda sad to see Burhan being labeled as foolish, especially when Asim, who waited for years for someone as passive as Bisma, isn’t being given the same judgment. Why is Nashwa being called cold-hearted, when she has done everything in her power for the well-being of her mother? A truly cold-hearted person would be entirely self-centered, putting their own desires above everyone else’s. But Nashwa sacrificed so much for the sake of her mom— making countless sacrifices, even when it means her own happiness is put on hold.

In the same vein, just as Faryal and any other female character has the right to choose her life partner, Burhan, too, deserves that same autonomy. His right to choose shouldn’t be undermined. Similarly, while Faryal's strength and courage are admirable, it's important to recognize that she has a solid foundation: a loving family, financial security, and unwavering parental support. It's easier to stand firm when you know you have a safety net beneath you. Faryal's character is strong because she's had the privilege of support from her parents, which gives her the courage to speak her truth and take a stand.

But Nashwa’s reality couldn’t be more different. She’s grown up with no safety net. She’s always been on her own, bearing the weight of a harsh, tragic childhood. Her mother's timidness and the family's financial dependency on the taya have left her feeling isolated and vulnerable. Even basic comforts like having an AC in her room were things she couldn’t take for granted, let alone the emotional support she so desperately needed. From a young age, Nashwa had to fend for herself, navigating a world where the people who should have supported her were either too afraid to act or too absorbed in their own struggles. The emotional toll of growing up in such a cold, oppressive environment is immense. It's not easy to simply rise above this, to suddenly find the strength to stand up for herself when she's never had anyone to back her.

The recent episodes have made it glaringly obvious how trapped Nashwa feels. Her taya is not just emotionally abusive—he's shown that he’s willing to go to any lengths to control her, even resorting to violence, as seen with Maheen's case. Nashwa could have walked away and left the suffocating grip of Barkhat Villa, but she chose not to. She stayed, not out of submission, but because she understood the cost of leaving—she knew the toll it would take on hermother. This decision required an immense amount of strength, the kind that only someone who has endured such hardship could possess. She didn’t just give up or succumb to her circumstances; she chose to fight, to stand tall in the face of overwhelming adversity.

Nashwa's journey isn’t about being cold-hearted or uncaring. It’s about survival. It's about finding a way to be strong in a world that has constantly put her down. Her character is defined not by the easy choices she could have made but by the difficult ones—ones that required sacrifice, courage, and, above all, a sense of responsibility to the ones she loves. She may not have the luxury of a secure, loving family like Faryal, but that doesn't make her any less deserving of understanding or empathy. fact, it makes her strength even more remarkable.

Wow yaar u described everything so nicely

Exactly same thoughts

Ammar is giving creepy vibes...I hope he gets punished for all his crimes

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Posted: 6 months ago

Originally posted by: nightingale1234

It's kinda sad to see Burhan being labeled as foolish, especially when Asim, who waited for years for someone as passive as Bisma, isn’t being given the same judgment. Why is Nashwa being called cold-hearted, when she has done everything in her power for the well-being of her mother? A truly cold-hearted person would be entirely self-centered, putting their own desires above everyone else’s. But Nashwa sacrificed so much for the sake of her mom— making countless sacrifices, even when it means her own happiness is put on hold.

In the same vein, just as Faryal and any other female character has the right to choose her life partner, Burhan, too, deserves that same autonomy. His right to choose shouldn’t be undermined. Similarly, while Faryal's strength and courage are admirable, it's important to recognize that she has a solid foundation: a loving family, financial security, and unwavering parental support. It's easier to stand firm when you know you have a safety net beneath you. Faryal's character is strong because she's had the privilege of support from her parents, which gives her the courage to speak her truth and take a stand.

But Nashwa’s reality couldn’t be more different. She’s grown up with no safety net. She’s always been on her own, bearing the weight of a harsh, tragic childhood. Her mother's timidness and the family's financial dependency on the taya have left her feeling isolated and vulnerable. Even basic comforts like having an AC in her room were things she couldn’t take for granted, let alone the emotional support she so desperately needed. From a young age, Nashwa had to fend for herself, navigating a world where the people who should have supported her were either too afraid to act or too absorbed in their own struggles. The emotional toll of growing up in such a cold, oppressive environment is immense. It's not easy to simply rise above this, to suddenly find the strength to stand up for herself when she's never had anyone to back her.

The recent episodes have made it glaringly obvious how trapped Nashwa feels. Her taya is not just emotionally abusive—he's shown that he’s willing to go to any lengths to control her, even resorting to violence, as seen with Maheen's case. Nashwa could have walked away and left the suffocating grip of Barkhat Villa, but she chose not to. She stayed, not out of submission, but because she understood the cost of leaving—she knew the toll it would take on hermother. This decision required an immense amount of strength, the kind that only someone who has endured such hardship could possess. She didn’t just give up or succumb to her circumstances; she chose to fight, to stand tall in the face of overwhelming adversity.

Nashwa's journey isn’t about being cold-hearted or uncaring. It’s about survival. It's about finding a way to be strong in a world that has constantly put her down. Her character is defined not by the easy choices she could have made but by the difficult ones—ones that required sacrifice, courage, and, above all, a sense of responsibility to the ones she loves. She may not have the luxury of a secure, loving family like Faryal, but that doesn't make her any less deserving of understanding or empathy. fact, it makes her strength even more remarkable.

Your points are valid, But Nashwa is extremely rude to Burhan. So I wonder why would a descent and respectfull guy like Burhan love a girl so much who is so cold and disrespectful towards him..

Also he can't follow Asim footsteps, because Asim and Bisma truly loved each other. Asim had that sense of satisfaction that his love was not one sided and its only destiny which drifted them away. But Burhan Nashwa case is different. Nashwa doesn't love Burhan, then why should he sacrifice his life.

Infact Faryal character is more admirable because inspite of having a luxurious life, she never had that pride. She was so matured and humble. Infact humility is the best trait of a human being. So yes I do feel Burhan made a huge mistake by refusing Faryal. Like I said before, always marry a person who loves, respect and understands you. Not whom you love

Posted: 6 months ago

Just like a girl or a woman has the right to choose, so does Burhan. He didn't lead Faryal on and that's huge. Most man would marry. Faryal wouldn't deserve that.

Now the thing is, Nashwa and Bisma has been shown and portrayed as growing up with no strong support. No one said that Nashwa has everything. She's trying to get somewhere. But the treatment Faryal receives from people is ugly. They just see her as kabab main haddi. They hope Nashwa will be like her but also feel insecure of how confident she is.

Nashwa is now in a difficult place. She has no other option than to push Burhan away. She is not cold.

Faryal was very mature graceful about the rejection. But Burhan will show huge reaction to Nashwa's rejection. That's understandable as it will be a shock.

The problem for me personally is people taking Faryal and Nashwa as a competition. Faryal k pas things hai to Kiya ab usey Pyaar hi na miley? She doesn't deserve Burhan because Nashwa had a hard life ? How does that even work?

Burhan doesn't love her,he loves Nashwa. That's fine. But not the where Faryal comes from. How does that even play into who she deserves?

Imagine not giving a student an A in class to control grading because rest of the class is at C.

Equality is not always fair

Also, inqar ka haq har kisi k pas hai. I fear the day when Nashwa breaks Burhan's heart (by situation or by choice) and if that happens...I can only think of the galis she'll get from people who talk about choice. We can see that on X now.

Many people on X are saying she should have an affair with Burhan and it's not morally wrong. Inka morality bilkul ek goal post ki tarha hai. It moves around everyday depending how convenient it is to their ship.

They'll blame her and label her as cold -hearted.

I think the point is about being genuine when it comes to rights and choices. All parties should have choice. You stand by your conviction even when it doesn't benefit you.

It's about perspective.

Mujhe to Asim ka nahi samajh. How is he so chill? How will Nashwa figure everything out on her own? He and his son couldn't fight the barkats on their own.

Edited by Alizba63 - 6 months ago
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Posted: 6 months ago

Read many comments of Ammar fans asking writer to make burhan negative and make Nashwa Ammar endgame forgetting easily what all he did and even romanticising his aggression in promo

Posted: 6 months ago

Originally posted by: Achelvi

Read many comments of Ammar fans asking writer to make burhan negative and make Nashwa Ammar endgame forgetting easily what all he did and even romanticising his aggression in promo

Isn't burhan the ml Even they showed in promos

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Posted: 6 months ago

Originally posted by: anikamathur

Isn't burhan the ml Even they showed in promos

He is but many wishing Ammar to be one

Posted: 6 months ago

Originally posted by: Achelvi

He is but many wishing Ammar to be one

He is 2nd lead not a lead BTW nameer is getting his first solo lead role for a telefilm

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