Anupama as a Character - Page 2

Originally posted by: darkknight420

I really dont know whoever watches Anupama.

I mean this Anupama character is pretty irritating and interfering.

She lectures like stupid, but her character already had lost all credibility.

She is full of self-obsession, but delivers faulty wisdom here and there.

Anyone will think twice before marrying off their children into her family, so then where is Prem's family wrong?

Not only her two marriage, her kids, even her Sautan's marriage did not go well, lol

I am not saying divorces are bad, but somehow if its happening again and again, then you are not well fit with the idea of marriage, otherwise it will become a joke. They are somehow portraying modern society in the wrong way.

And she is extremely problematic.

Vanraj did not keep coming to her house, but she stomps again and again into his house.

Also When She divorced Anuj, she came back for her adopted daughter, but never cared for that new woman of Anuj's life, definitely that woman's love life will hamper, that idiot woman Anupama hardly cares.

Also the writers are pretty bad.

I mean they try to show Anupama superior and divine one, but some of these plots have very shit logic.

I mean she really cares a lot less about her kids,

Married off her only obedient kid (Samar) so hastily to prove her ego, that kid suffered with that bad woman.

Toshu and Pakhi are baddies but Anupama never let them to become better, always lecture, always comparing, always taunting.

She is basically that paroswali bua, but those buas dont create disaster in own house, Anupama did it in her own house.

And which woman on earth adopts a kid after having three kids of her own? And loves that kid over own ones? This is not even realistic.

"""She claims to be modern parent, and fair one, but to speak on behalf of self or her adoptive daughter, she berates her own daughter's issue (divorce) in front of some strangers (whose topic was literally dragged unnecessarily) """

She berates her own daughter (who was unrelated to the marriage proposal) in front of strangers outside, but Her daughter cant berate her favorite adopted daughter (who was related to the marriage proposal) inside the house, lol.

i mean she is clearly an abusive mother too, towards Toshu and Pakhi. Not just Toshu and Pakhi are bad kids, Anupama is full of favoritism.

She kept interfering into her adult kids life again and again unnecessarily, not for the betterment, but to make them realize, she is right and they are wrong, she is quite a psycho about her ego issues. But after interfering what? are their lives got better?? lol, a lot worser actually, now it seems like they did not get better because Anupama's extreme interference in their lives, did not let them life lessons on their own, actually the became more adamant to stay unchanged.

also Anupama interfered into his Ex-husband's life,even into his new marriage life with Kavya,
Technically she is a toxic ex-wife.

Talks about self respect, but stays in her first husband's house, also the house members have to accept her adopted child too, because she wishes to, otherwise they will be depicted bad.

Honestly Baa is a very good saas of her generation, a lot of time she took side of Anupama over Vanraj. but I dont know what kind of delusional mahan kalpanik saas Anupama wants which in reality nowhere exists.

The writers did a mistake at first, modern woman does not compulsorily divorce,

I mean they could keep her married to vanraj and teach both Kavya and Vanraj lessons.

Like Vanraj coming under her heel.

But they choose romance track for Anupama with some other guy, rushed for that track. technically Vanraj ended up well leaving her, Lol.

Okay. but that stuff kind of encouraged Kavya type woman a lot, I mean you can get anything and get away, no matter how bad it is. She actually got what she had wanted, Vanraj

Later Anuj, the boring shit ass character,

Like this character only exist to reality just to hail "Anupama, Anupama, Anupama"

I know Anupama had a lot of fans, also I had watched in the beginning too.

But so far the lead character is heavily irritating.

I disliked Vanraj in the beginning, but if Anupama in her full form is like what she is now. Then I will say Vanraj is lucky to not have her.

She is a self obsessed walking talking Queen bee or lecture ATM.

Agree with everything and the part in bold 👌

But disagree with below, Pakhi Toshu are no saints and yes all blame for their bad upbringing goes to Anupama equally along with Vanraj and Baa!

And people do adopt kids even after having their biological ones and can love them like their own if not more or less.

“”””””And which woman on earth adopts a kid after having three kids of her own? And loves that kid over own ones? This is...

She claims to be modern parent, and fair one, but to speak on behalf of self or her adoptive daughter, she berates her own daughter (who was unrelated to the marriage proposal) in front of strangers outside, but Her daughter cant berate her favorite adopted daughter (who was related to the marriage proposal) inside the house, lol.

i mean she is clearly an abusive mother too, towards Toshu and Pakhi. Not just Toshu and Pakhi are bad kids, Anupama is full of favoritism.”””””

You lost me on that loving the adopted child more than bio ones line. She doesn't. Never did.

Originally posted by: Asur

You lost me on that loving the adopted child more than bio ones line. She doesn't. Never did.

Yes. No idea which show they watched, but in actual show she constantly neglected ghe little kid to run away to her ex and her grown children. She also abandoned the little kid for 5 years. In any other country she would be behind bars for neglect of a small kid.

Originally posted by: Harish111

Yes. No idea which show they watched, but in actual show she constantly neglected ghe little kid to run away to her ex and her grown children. She also abandoned the little kid for 5 years. In any other country she would be behind bars for neglect of a small kid.

Originally posted by: Asur

You lost me on that loving the adopted child more than bio ones line. She doesn't. Never did.

It's seen clearly in the fact that she never made her laadlas Pakhi or Tosu do one small task in the house (still doesn't) but has trained/brainwashed her adopted child Rahi or unofficial adopted child Malevolent Mahi, to be the unpaid maids of Shah family and do all the work.

Is show ki sabse sabse sabse badi Khalanayikaa

Anupama Joshi Kapadia khud hai!!!😐

Anupama Joshi Kapadia us bala ka naam hai jo sabla naari ko bhi apne jaise abla naari banane ki kshamata rakhti hai 🙄

Anupama had a great opportunity to start afresh after divorcing Vanraj. But she went back by staying in the toxic SH even after divorce. She had a great opportunity to complete her education with funding from Anuj (There is no age limit for studying and no age limit for friendship as well). Toshu, Vanraj, Leela and Kavya had spewed venom on Anupama and Anuj's friendship.

The story could have been written better after Rakhi Ji (Rakhi Dave) had exposed Vanraj and Kavya's EMA.

1. All 3 children of Anupama should have gone against Vanraj and Leela and should have supported Anupama's decision to divorce Vanraj.

2. Toshu should have built a career for himself instead of marrying Kinjal.

3. Toshu and Anuj could have contributed equally for Anupama's education.

4. Anupama could have gone to her biological mother (Kanta Joshi's) house with all her 3 children.

5. Toshu could have taken tuitions for Anupama in order to make her understand the subject.

6. If Samar was so passionate about dance, Toshu could have helped him set up "Anupama Dance Academy" and could have allowed Anupama to pursue a career other than dance.

7. Toshu could have helped Anupama in her job search by preparing a good resume for her.

But what we got to see was the multiple failed udaans of Anupama.

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