Sunn Mere Dil (GEO) #12 - Wahaj Ali, Maya Ali, Hira Mani - Page 30

Originally posted by: kuhelidebbarma

Tbh,I had the same feelings. That eyelock scene had unfortunately no impact because of lack of character consistency.

Infact the last scene where he says sorry and she smiles made more sense than the eyelock scene.

Exactly. The office eyelock and smiles were so much more impactful. The sorry was in keeping with Bilal's cktr and their eyelocks and smiles had actual meaning and were in context.

Originally posted by: bips

It was either this or "mirza sahab ne kaha tha......."

Originally posted by: dennisdmenace

Exactly my feelings. I don’t know where it’s going but it seems interesting. And more of wahaj today.

Originally posted by: NutellaWaffle

krq is capable of writing shit not romance. Even Haseeb admitted in insta story wish this show was bilal sadaf centric . What’s the use now what’s done is already done

krq did not write a romance or love story. we were sold a lie by PH and director and actors. this is not a sadaf and bilal story. or bilal ki story. it is sadaf ki story and maps her emotional trajectory. we are getting all of this because the writer is trying to show the chaotic, irrational, angry emotional state and turmoil of Sadaf. She went through a traumatic separation. Her self esteem is an all time low. She is mad at Ammar and wants to get back at him. She regrets how her bad choices effed up her life and how she erased her own personality for an ass like Ammar. She is showing classic rebound behaviour and unhealthy trauma response. Many divorcees go through it. If you see it from that pov, and not expect that this a Bilsad love story or even a one-sided love story, all of it makes sense.

Originally posted by: anu41982

I agree with you.

As I have said earlier, I have a very few complains on SMD, I'm even ok with the pace - I think it is the tone Haseeb chose for it, and the pace doesn't bother me much, as I always watch it as a re-watch (Wed and Thurs I watch it mostly quickly while doing something else, and trust me SMD is not that bad when you binge watch!) My major complain was the cringefest of Ammar-Dania.

But if they send Sadaf back to Ammar, or there will be a redemption arc for him and Sadaf will forgive him, well, that'd be it for me. They can do any thing else - kill Bilal (though I think he deserves a bit of happiness) or keep Sadaf alone, bring another lady for Bilal, kuch bhi chalega, I think I may probably have it in me to accept if they make Bilal-Humsha the end game. But if Sadaf goes back to Ammar, I am going to rant about it forever and going to disown all my time wasted on this!!

I mean it is not even the whole Dania issue -whether Ammar cheated Sadaf with Dania, or whether they had an intimate relationship or not- it is the fact that Ammar has a toxic personality, he is bad in the core - take the way he always lies through his teeth so smoothly, or how he gaslight Sadaf - you have eaten without me, so, I was so ashamed I had to drink etc. etc., he has no remorse, he never apologized for that slap, or for that do takey ki dialogue. He makes the whole thing about himself, right from his 'love proclamation' everything was and still is about him. If they let him go scot-free, and gave the girl too...Anything, but that!!!!

P.s. And to top it all, I don't think he was ever in love with Sadaf.

Originally posted by: hypnotoad

krq did not write a romance or love story. we were sold a lie by PH and director and actors. this is not a sadaf and bilal story. or bilal ki story. it is sadaf ki story and maps her emotional trajectory. we are getting all of this because the writer is trying to show the chaotic, irrational, angry emotional state and turmoil of Sadaf. She went through a traumatic separation. Her self esteem is an all time low. She is mad at Ammar and wants to get back at him. She regrets how her bad choices effed up her life and how she erased her own personality for an ass like Ammar. She is showing classic rebound behaviour and unhealthy trauma response. Many divorcees go through it. If you see it from that pov, and not expect that this a Bilsad love story or even a one-sided love story, all of it makes sense.

It's not even sadaf's story tbh... It's ammar's story... He is the character who has multiple scenes in every episode with every other character in the show... He has a separate equation with everyone... We are maximum in his head... We know his thoughts, his feelings, his emotions the most.

Originally posted by: hypnotoad

krq did not write a romance or love story. we were sold a lie by PH and director and actors. this is not a sadaf and bilal story. or bilal ki story. it is sadaf ki story and maps her emotional trajectory. we are getting all of this because the writer is trying to show the chaotic, irrational, angry emotional state and turmoil of Sadaf. She went through a traumatic separation. Her self esteem is an all time low. She is mad at Ammar and wants to get back at him. She regrets how her bad choices effed up her life and how she erased her own personality for an ass like Ammar. She is showing classic rebound behaviour and unhealthy trauma response. Many divorcees go through it. If you see it from that pov, and not expect that this a Bilsad love story or even a one-sided love story, all of it makes sense.

Originally posted by: bips

It's not even sadaf's story tbh... It's ammar's story... He is the character who has multiple scenes in every episode with every other character in the show... He has a separate equation with everyone... We are maximum in his head... We know his thoughts, his feelings, his emotions the most.

Originally posted by: hypnotoad

This is Pakistani law on divorce. The divorce is not deemed final until after the 3 month reconciliation period is over.

Originally posted by: hypnotoad

krq did not write a romance or love story. we were sold a lie by PH and director and actors. this is not a sadaf and bilal story. or bilal ki story. it is sadaf ki story and maps her emotional trajectory. we are getting all of this because the writer is trying to show the chaotic, irrational, angry emotional state and turmoil of Sadaf. She went through a traumatic separation. Her self esteem is an all time low. She is mad at Ammar and wants to get back at him. She regrets how her bad choices effed up her life and how she erased her own personality for an ass like Ammar. She is showing classic rebound behaviour and unhealthy trauma response. Many divorcees go through it. If you see it from that pov, and not expect that this a Bilsad love story or even a one-sided love story, all of it makes sense.

I dont think she is showing a rebound behaviour...She has emotionally distanced herself from Ammar long time back...Rebound is a relationship when a person goes through a sudden traumatic breakup...but we all have witnessed Sadaf-Ammar marriage breaking everyday bit by bit..thaf breaking up of marriage wasnt sudden.

Sadaf is not a perfect FL but I actually dont feel like she is just trying to use BA's feelings for rebound or revenge.. She actually wants to move on in life and give a chance to someone who is genuinely in love with her.