Sunn Mere Dil (GEO) #12 - Wahaj Ali, Maya Ali, Hira Mani - Page 29

Originally posted by: bips

How is this show sanskaari and A-sanskaari both at the same time?

because sadaf wore a dupatta on her head in his office while in iddat...mkay. that makes this a certified sanskaari show, irrespective of any shenanigans and kartoots that may happen during iddat

Here’s the English translation:

"If you research the Qur'an and other Abrahamic religions, you will come to the conclusion that both genders are instructed not to engage in behaviors that encourage lust, to protect their chastity and honor, to be careful in their actions, and not to provoke each other physically or emotionally. The relationship and separation between husband and wife is described as follows: if you cannot get along with your wife, refrain from speaking to her for a while. If you still cannot agree, separate your beds; if the situation continues, separate your homes. If it persists, lightly strike her (some may exaggerate this situation). In marriage, it is said that the husband has a slight superiority over the wife... some exaggerate this slight superiority... it is not even 1%. Now, regarding divorced couples waiting, the waiting period for divorced couples is entirely related to the woman’s pregnancy. There is no specific time mentioned. Nowhere in the Qur'an does it state a waiting period. You can look at verses 223-225 of Surah Al-Baqarah. If the woman is pregnant, there is no harm in her separation. Allah’s only condition regarding pregnancy is that the woman should not hide her pregnancy from the man. In today’s technology and medicine, it is immediately apparent whether a woman is pregnant or not. Why does Allah say they should wait? In the conditions of that time, if a woman had relations with someone else and became pregnant, the paternity of the child could not be determined. But today, there is the reality of DNA testing. It’s time to move past the customs and traditions from 1,000 years ago. My view is that if someone has made a definite decision to separate, there is no harm in immediately or within a few days forming a relationship with someone else. No marriage ends suddenly or immediately. Relationships deteriorate first, with love and respect fading, followed by emotional distance, leading to the inevitable end."

Exactly my feelings. I don’t know where it’s going but it seems interesting. And more of wahaj today.

Billu is so soft with sadaf the moment he realised she is angry with him he told sorry with that husky voice wahaj

Originally posted by: hypnotoad

i did not like the eyelock scene when BA enters the house.

It should have been Sadaf opening the door, Bilal ka hairaani wala eyelock, then Zaviyar interrupting them. Or Bilalto talking to Zaviyar in the doorwar but getting distracted by Sada's intense stares at him, looking at her and then looking away.

The way he goes directly to her stands so close to her and gazes intensely into her eyes while smirking made no sense. Literally, 2 scenes later he is telling her mother why didn't you stop her and that he's there to talk to her and patch up her marriage, Before that on the phone in the car he was also telling her to forgive Ammar. Now same man is acting like he is going to seduce her on the doorstep.

Haseeb wanted to make it romantic but it didn't fit the situation or cktr. They could have still had that eyelock in the doorway but it could have been set up differently to fit the situation and cktrs arc at that point, like I described above.

Tbh,I had the same feelings. That eyelock scene had unfortunately no impact because of lack of character consistency.

Infact the last scene where he says sorry and she smiles made more sense than the eyelock scene.

Originally posted by: unicornhugs

I agree that it’s in line with his character…I’m just hoping that won’t be the message of the show in the end. I’m not getting those vibes so hopefully not.

I agree with you.

As I have said earlier, I have a very few complains on SMD, I'm even ok with the pace - I think it is the tone Haseeb chose for it, and the pace doesn't bother me much, as I always watch it as a re-watch (Wed and Thurs I watch it mostly quickly while doing something else, and trust me SMD is not that bad when you binge watch!) My major complain was the cringefest of Ammar-Dania.

But if they send Sadaf back to Ammar, or there will be a redemption arc for him and Sadaf will forgive him, well, that'd be it for me. They can do any thing else - kill Bilal (though I think he deserves a bit of happiness) or keep Sadaf alone, bring another lady for Bilal, kuch bhi chalega, I think I may probably have it in me to accept if they make Bilal-Humsha the end game. But if Sadaf goes back to Ammar, I am going to rant about it forever and going to disown all my time wasted on this!!

I mean it is not even the whole Dania issue -whether Ammar cheated Sadaf with Dania, or whether they had an intimate relationship or not- it is the fact that Ammar has a toxic personality, he is bad in the core - take the way he always lies through his teeth so smoothly, or how he gaslight Sadaf - you have eaten without me, so, I was so ashamed I had to drink etc. etc., he has no remorse, he never apologized for that slap, or for that do takey ki dialogue. He makes the whole thing about himself, right from his 'love proclamation' everything was and still is about him. If they let him go scot-free, and gave the girl too...Anything, but that!!!!

P.s. And to top it all, I don't think he was ever in love with Sadaf.

Originally posted by: hakanturkey

Here’s the English translation:

"If you research the Qur'an and other Abrahamic religions, you will come to the conclusion that both genders are instructed not to engage in behaviors that encourage lust, to protect their chastity and honor, to be careful in their actions, and not to provoke each other physically or emotionally. The relationship and separation between husband and wife is described as follows: if you cannot get along with your wife, refrain from speaking to her for a while. If you still cannot agree, separate your beds; if the situation continues, separate your homes. If it persists, lightly strike her (some may exaggerate this situation). In marriage, it is said that the husband has a slight superiority over the wife... some exaggerate this slight superiority... it is not even 1%. Now, regarding divorced couples waiting, the waiting period for divorced couples is entirely related to the woman’s pregnancy. There is no specific time mentioned. Nowhere in the Qur'an does it state a waiting period. You can look at verses 223-225 of Surah Al-Baqarah. If the woman is pregnant, there is no harm in her separation. Allah’s only condition regarding pregnancy is that the woman should not hide her pregnancy from the man. In today’s technology and medicine, it is immediately apparent whether a woman is pregnant or not. Why does Allah say they should wait? In the conditions of that time, if a woman had relations with someone else and became pregnant, the paternity of the child could not be determined. But today, there is the reality of DNA testing. It’s time to move past the customs and traditions from 1,000 years ago. My view is that if someone has made a definite decision to separate, there is no harm in immediately or within a few days forming a relationship with someone else. No marriage ends suddenly or immediately. Relationships deteriorate first, with love and respect fading, followed by emotional distance, leading to the inevitable end."

This is Pakistani law on divorce. The divorce is not deemed final until after the 3 month reconciliation period is over.

Originally posted by: hypnotoad

because sadaf wore a dupatta on her head in his office while in iddat...mkay. that makes this a certified sanskaari show, irrespective of any shenanigans and kartoots that may happen during iddat

they could have easily taken 6 months leap if bilal and sadaf were meant to be together.

if ammar accepts sadaf after iddat dating, it will be proved he is a selfless lover like bilal

i really don't think KRQ will show any good outcome of this iddat dating. tbh, this is ridiculous.

on the one hand ammar is coming for reconciliation. on the other hand she is dating bilal. moreover, she is telling ammar her dating story

Originally posted by: bips

But why do we even need suspense in a love story?

.... Pehle family drama, phir social messaging with domestic violence, beech mein daniya ka psycho thriller.....

Romance ke elava sab daal diya hai yahan

Originally posted by: hypnotoad

This is Pakistani law on divorce. The divorce is not deemed final until after the 3 month reconciliation period is over.

this is mentioned in Quran.... it is islamic law. not a pakistani law.

everything mentioned in Quran is obligatory for muslims.