SISTERS & COLLEGE 20.12 - Page 10

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

true she does not understand others trauma and insensitivity. Sometimes it's so amusing her doing all this thinking it will make ppl happy.

Like ruhi has lost her child she goes and says bsp ye hai tumhari mathashri 🤷‍♀️ these dialogues really annoy me. More than she getting beizatti ke ladoo after that it shows how foolish and insensitive character she is.

This is where many felt it was insensitive ..trp audience is mostly female ... atleast folks who love ab ar jodi also felt the same ..

My mami was staying which first time mom says I will share my child ..it's wierd esp one who had after a medical miracle

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

true she does not understand others trauma and insensitivity. Sometimes it's so amusing her doing all this thinking it will make ppl happy.

Like ruhi has lost her child she goes and says bsp ye hai tumhari mathashri 🤷‍♀️ these dialogues really annoy me. More than she getting beizatti ke ladoo after that it shows how foolish and insensitive character she is.

I had hoped that since this is the first time she has been faced with trauma trauma, she might self reflect but sadly nothing. I am not counting her mother's death because she was instantly thrown in a forced marriage and even Armaan's truth coming out was a 2 day pain before she decided that her love with Armaan was true, despite knowing that till she confessed, he was going to marry his ex lover.

It is understandable they showed her naive about how these things work, but the complete lack of progress is astonishing.

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

My mom came to know I have started watching due to kid track..even she was saying the same ..that usually FL do grieve for the kid ..so for trp are they doing what they did in brham ..make Adarsh bahu suddenly villan and grey suddenly diff..I told mom she is watching too much tv 😂😂4

Hahahaha.. My mother just made fun of the stupidity and said it is sad that such a huge thing like losing a baby, is being made into so little.. And also that if I want to stick to definition of self respect, stick to the original Akshara!

Originally posted by: cutepigs

I had hoped that since this is the first time she has been faced with trauma trauma, she might self reflect but sadly nothing. I am not counting her mother's death because she was instantly thrown in a forced marriage and even Armaan's truth coming out was a 2 day pain before she decided that her love with Armaan was true, despite knowing that till she confessed, he was going to marry his ex lover.

It is understandable they showed her naive about how these things work, but the complete lack of progress is astonishing.

https://youtu.be/Hsd4ypzJSWw

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Originally posted by: Mehersudha

ak too never felt for anything much of loss just moved on holding what's available in front. That's what abheera too has in built. They are showing clearly ak ka traits in her. Not to hold and grieve. Whereas abhir and ruhi are different their trauma can't be filled in Nor moved ahead until they got something in hand of their own.

There is nothing wrong with holding on to what you have and move on, if it works for your mental health, superb! But completely disregarding what was lost, just seems like a cop out somehow. Everyone wants to forget trauma and move on, but our traumas turn us into who we are. Like Ruhi turned into our insecure person who tried to hold on to a love longer than it made sense. Like Abhir turned into someone who can't process loneliness so fills it with alcohol and whatever he can find, someone who didn't get to live his dreams because he was alone. And even Abhira, growing up alone has turned her into someone who is ready to give up her self respect also for a big family. But because she hasn't bothered to self reflect and think, she doesn't realize it and hence, keeps preaching "how does past matter". And if she really believes that, then why leave Armaan? Baby swap is also past now na.

Originally posted by: cutepigs

There is nothing wrong with holding on to what you have and move on, if it works for your mental health, superb! But completely disregarding what was lost, just seems like a cop out somehow. Everyone wants to forget trauma and move on, but our traumas turn us into who we are. Like Ruhi turned into our insecure person who tried to hold on to a love longer than it made sense. Like Abhir turned into someone who can't process loneliness so fills it with alcohol and whatever he can find, someone who didn't get to live his dreams because he was alone. And even Abhira, growing up alone has turned her into someone who is ready to give up her self respect also for a big family. But because she hasn't bothered to self reflect and think, she doesn't realize it and hence, keeps preaching "how does past matter". And if she really believes that, then why leave Armaan? Baby swap is also past now na.

https://www.indiaforums.com/article/yeh-rishta-kya-kehlata-hai-goenkas-and-poddars-clash-at-an-unplanned-picnic-armaan-tries-to-win-abhi_215680

https://www.indiaforums.com/article/yrkkh-abhir-to-become-rock-solid-support-for-abhira-amid-her-divorce-proceedings-with-armaan_215656

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https://youtu.be/KBGPXwBGkvQ?si=AvpaSbFHt2Ef1j9D

https://youtu.be/OKoxW81Jl80?si=f-HCQO30FO-y7Q99

https://youtu.be/J1H_ET-eBCU?si=vvAWHQqjAMHuHb_d

Madhav is still calling dakshu. Iska ego cut next with shivani ka beta coming 🤣

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

https://youtu.be/Hsd4ypzJSWw

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Does her stylist hate her? I feel her stylist does hate her.