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So setting up a narrative to show FL is bechari is fine??

But Ruhi should be considerate to Abheera, because of who Armaan, broke his promise and left her at the alter, Ruhi should love??

And after Akshara's truth revelation how can anyone expect her to play behen behen game with her? Did Abheera try to prove her mom's innocence?? No.. she got busy with her marriage.

And now with the bachha chori, Ruhi was wrong in blaming Abheera. But again she is proving Ruhi right by actually kidnapping the baby!!

And whoever wants to deny, they can, but Ruhi and Abhir does have childhood trauma.

Atleast Ruhi is real, unlike Abheera who fakes to be mahaan, but is selfish.

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

So setting up a narrative to show FL is bechari is fine??

But Ruhi should be considerate to Abheera, because of who Armaan, broke his promise and left her at the alter, Ruhi should love??

And after Akshara's truth revelation how can anyone expect her to play behen behen game with her? Did Abheera try to prove her mom's innocence?? No.. she got busy with her marriage.

And now with the bachha chori, Ruhi was wrong in blaming Abheera. But again she is proving Ruhi right by actually kidnapping the baby!!

And whoever wants to deny, they can, but Ruhi and Abhir does have childhood trauma.

Atleast Ruhi is real, unlike Abheera who fakes to be mahaan, but is selfish.

@bold - ikr! It is still hilarious how she acted all high and mighty by saying aao behen co-parenting karein, I will be the Mom and you be the Matashree but then she dreams about Ruhi taking the baby away and is so scared

Ruhi aise baby ko kidnap kar ke bhaagi hoti na toh bawaal mach jaata, Abhira ne kiya hai toh everybody is like, arre don't worry, woh bas baby ko vacation pe lekar gayi hai, kuch naya kaarnaama karne ke baad she will come back home. Chillax!

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

Isnt she the one who was married to Armaan and challenged Kaveri to destroy their law firm??

And then she became a succesful lawyer in the same firm?? Self respect where?? Strong where?? Independent where??

So working in Poddar firm means she’s no longer strong or independent? Wahan ke lawyers strong and independent nahi hote? Her relationship with Kaveri has improved with time so that makes no sense. Not everyone is raised to hold grudges.

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

So setting up a narrative to show FL is bechari is fine??

But Ruhi should be considerate to Abheera, because of who Armaan, broke his promise and left her at the alter, Ruhi should love??

And after Akshara's truth revelation how can anyone expect her to play behen behen game with her? Did Abheera try to prove her mom's innocence?? No.. she got busy with her marriage.

And now with the bachha chori, Ruhi was wrong in blaming Abheera. But again she is proving Ruhi right by actually kidnapping the baby!!

And whoever wants to deny, they can, but Ruhi and Abhir does have childhood trauma.

Atleast Ruhi is real, unlike Abheera who fakes to be mahaan, but is selfish.

No one is denying her childhood trauma but how is her hating Abhira because the man she loved left her and chose Abhira over her? Lol let’s not get there. No one wants Ruhi to be considerate, she can’t even keep her mouth shut and continues to spit venom against Abhira forget about anything else. The man she wanted didn’t want her, not Abhira’s fault and has nothing to do with her childhood trauma. She should seek therapy for that and not plan and plot against others.

Originally posted by: Noorain13

The forum will not turn positive because after reading so many posts, it’s completely my POV that people hate Abhira on this forum because she’s a Sharma and Abhinav’s daughter. People that didn’t watch the previous season may be more neutral. She’s the female lead and ITV basically makes their FL without flaws whereas Ruhi is the negative PL and she is shown to be negative but we as viewers fail to see that.

It’s not just ur POV I have read ppl saying that they want to see Abhira crying Khon ki asso because she is Abhinav’s daughter . Ppl are saying as if everyone is so perfect and flawless , and only a fictional character Abhira is flawed. She was never shown flawless , she was always shown flawed messing up things ,her mom correcting her but with a good ,kind heart. Agree or not after disastrous S3 n Lota couple, ppl came back to the show only because of Abhira Sharma and she got the show back to TOp and it’s still on TOP after an year.

When we want to spread hatred on a character we try to find faults which was never shown ,marrying Armani is wrong ,how ? That was Her mom’s last wish and Ak forced Abhira to marry him ,even then she wanted to leave him but goons were behind her and she have no option but go with that man. With time things keep changing and now most of the poddar’s love her and she loves them too ,they r her family . Why would she destroy their firm now ?Waise Abhira Sharma ki bashing tho day 1 se ho rahi hai because she is Abhinav’s daughter . There’s a lot of difference btwn criticism and deliberately spreading hatred.
If ppl watch the episodes they will understand how she won the cases and became good lawyer . Kabhi apne ankhon se S3 erased character ki pyaar ki Patti hatake dekho tho HS pe jo dikha raha hai vo dikhega.

Abhira shouldn’t be a mahan , she shouldn’t be a flawed one or selfish one tho kya kare ? Ruhi ko FL banadhe ? Vo tho hone se raha , Ruhi is the most disgusting,cheap vamp ever shown on ristha.

Originally posted by: Noorain13

The forum will not turn positive because after reading so many posts, it’s completely my POV that people hate Abhira on this forum because she’s a Sharma and Abhinav’s daughter. People that didn’t watch the previous season may be more neutral. She’s the female lead and ITV basically makes their FL without flaws whereas Ruhi is the negative PL and she is shown to be negative but we as viewers fail to see that.

I find it absurd when people say that they don't like FL, fine... Woh thik hai imo... Even I don't like her.. But goes on to worship trash character like Ruhi is beyond me

Matlab isse ghatiya character Rishta kabhi likh hi nai sakta...

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

I find it absurd when people say that they don't like FL, fine... Woh thik hai imo... Even I don't like her.. But goes on to worship trash character like Ruhi is beyond me

Matlab isse ghatiya character Rishta kabhi likh hi nai sakta...

Ruhi at everybody this season :

Originally posted by: Noorain13

There are certain things we’re forgetting. Her mother asked her to marry Armaan and yes she had the choice to just leave him after she passed away but to set the narrative, they showed a gunda after her and a girl all by herself in her early 20s who just lost her mother made that decision. There’s a reason why Abhira had no family whatsoever or was not revealed so that she starts to rely on Armaan. If she had Abhir or any of the Goenkas, will she ever rely on Armaan. She used to stand up for herself and did it numerous times, even left the house and was completely on her own and eventually when she fell in love, then yes she started doing so many things out of love. But in all of this we can’t forget that she was raised by a single mother in a small town who probably couldn’t survive on her own in a bigger city thus relied on Armaan.

Coming to Ruhi, although there’s childhood trauma but we can’t emphasize with her because of her actions. If she found out on day 1 that she’s Akshara’s daughter, it would’ve been a whole different story but she had always hated Abhira because of her love for Armaan so now her hating her just seems like an excuse. Her hatred towards Abhira before finding out the truth has nothing to do with her childhood trauma. She wanted a man who didn’t want her. If she’s shown to be negative, why is it so hard for her to accept her as a dark person instead of justifying her actions and relating it to childhood trauma?

Also you may be a few that dislike Abhira for other reasons which is okay but there are way too many that hate her because shes’s Abhinav’s daughter and that makes no sense to me.

Yeah I don't even have any problem if she took Armaan's help since he was a very successful lawyer with a family who might have connections to help her from the psycho But marriage was not needed She need not acknowledge a forced marriage which might even be void since their consent was out of coercion (I dont know complete law much just saying from the info of law that I know ) As it is Armaan would have helped her due to Ak saving him n his respect for her She need not stay at Poddars n suffer so much humiliation n everything Her sufferings were/are the results of her own decisions and Girl got firsthand experience of the life she'll have at Poddars still she's craving for those people's acceptance She use to stand up for herself but what is the result was there any change First it was KP who was regressive n toxic n now Vidya Has took over that's it Why crave for acceptance from such people who think a woman is a baby producing machine n if she doesn't then she deserves curses n that too after giving such big big lectures on self respect n Independence

She left but who helped her Madhav her ex's father due to whom she was somewhere still connected to her toxic ex n his pathetic other family Why did she not remain firm in her determination to leave why return to OH of the same family where has she n her parents were insulted her mother was CA n what not Her then ex n current husband was not the best person She definitely deserved someone better back then Now It's okay She has turned into another Armaan though she is still better human than him

Ruhi has a childhood trauma n that's a fact and of course that doesn't justify her wrongs that's also true Maybe you didn't see but many who supported Ruhi had called her many names during her Armaan obsession track n the wedding nonsense she did n we all were disappointed that Rohit didn't get to know the truth n didn't get Ruhi's redemption track for that nonsense I really felt that Rohit should have brutally humiliated her n divorced her during that track Even now if Rohit gets to know the truth he can divorce Ruhi But what he did to Ruhi is much worse So he should also get his karma after Ruhi gets her's If writers for once use their brain

And I really don't find Ruhi hating Abhira wrong but it should be due to Abhira's insensitivity without any guilt most of the times making everything about herself Never giving others the space n then faking Love n being victim This are the perfect reasons for Ruhi to hate Abhira Hating Abhira for Ak n Armaan does feel not right But tbh sometimes Abhira's annoying actions doesn't help anyone can start getting frustrated with her I know Ruhi should have hated Armaan more she was clearly a cheater delulu dumb woman with no self love to not hate Armaan for the way he played with her feelings for almost a year n dumped her at the altar Her Toffeelusion was too disgusting after his betrayal Even now she should hate Armaan more than Abhira tbh n that's why I hate Armaan n cvs even more they'll show it as a female vs female track Instead of Abhira Ruhi vs Armaan Rohit

That's what has been happening Ruhi vs Abhira Instead of both the girls giving a reality check to Poddars Armaan n Rohit n leaving that Madhouse for good