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Posted: 1 years ago
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The forum will not turn positive because after reading so many posts, it’s completely my POV that people hate Abhira on this forum because she’s a Sharma and Abhinav’s daughter. People that didn’t watch the previous season may be more neutral. She’s the female lead and ITV basically makes their FL without flaws whereas Ruhi is the negative PL and she is shown to be negative but we as viewers fail to see that.

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Indira, biological or not, but I have full faith in Ruhi, she will prove that she is most incapable and useless Maa, like how her Poppy was as a father!

I hope makers finally focus on the fact that it's never just a blood relations that make someone a good parent smiley36 and have Abhira be with Daksh as her mother because Ruhi is a pathetic woman in general!

Posted: 1 years ago
#13

FL is flawless..🤣🤣

Isnt this FL supposed to be strong independent woman?? Atleast in the beginning she had lil self respect. But since she married Armaan under contract, she has been portrayed as a bechaci dukhiyari abla nari who couldn't survive without a man. And after the actual marriage she has become a doormat to Poddar's. Does everything to please them and get their acceptance. She went through a complicated pregnancy just to please her MIL and give her a "waris".

Not only that because of her a month old baby was kidnapped and now she herself is going to kidnap the baby!!!

Yeah.. FL is flawless. 🤭🤭

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Originally posted by: Noorain13

The forum will not turn positive because after reading so many posts, it’s completely my POV that people hate Abhira on this forum because she’s a Sharma and Abhinav’s daughter. People that didn’t watch the previous season may be more neutral. She’s the female lead and ITV basically makes their FL without flaws whereas Ruhi is the negative PL and she is shown to be negative but we as viewers fail to see that.

@Bold Please I have liked Abhinav in prev gen n hated n hate Manyu very much even now Still I dislike Abhira Only because she had been a hypocrite since she accepted the deal marriage

All the tall claims of Independent Strong woman who takes no nonsense from anyone but Abhira Sharma Abhinav's daughter died the moment she married Armaan for safety n financial security for 1 year She is totally her mother Ak's daughter except that atleast even Ak had more self respect n self love because the Abhira Sharma who was introduced to us was the one who might even murder her mother's murderer but won't back down without a fight But All I saw Abhira doing was instead of fighting for justice n also doing something by practicing what she preached Abhira turned into a hypocrite with double standards n currently since her marriage she has been indirectly even encouraging the misogynistic patriarchal mindset of her in laws specially her dear Vidya Maa

The one of the most important reasons to also dislike her is that since start writers ruined Ruhi's character to highlight Abhira's which as a child Ruhi fan I hated Cvs showed how so called Career oriented Abhira is so different n then we see Abhira n Ruhi in respect towards their career are same both remember their Career as per convenience Ruhi is insensitive is highlighted so many times but Abhira's insensitivity towards anyone other than her own self is becharified Yes Ruhi is worse But Abhira is only a little bit better than Ruhi Atleast Ruhi is whatever she is openly her hate n love are known to all Abhira is too sly hiding behind I love my didi fake nautanki though she clearly doesn't have sisterly feelings which is okay given their history

Note : I know you said that it's your POV but I just wanted to say that this narrative that people hate/dislike Abhira because she is Abhinav's daughter is wrong n trust me on other SM there are Abhinav fans who really dislike Abhira as well n don't like to acknowledge her as his daughter at all

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Originally posted by: JustaFan13

FL is flawless..🤣🤣

Isnt this FL supposed to be strong independent woman?? Atleast in the beginning she had lil self respect. But since she married Armaan under contract, she has been portrayed as a bechaci dukhiyari abla nari who couldn't survive without a man. And after the actual marriage she has become a doormat to Poddar's. Does everything to please them and get their acceptance. She went through a complicated pregnancy just to please her MIL and give her a "waris".

Not only that because of her a month old baby was kidnapped and now she herself is going to kidnap the baby!!!

Yeah.. FL is flawless. 🤭🤭

I will be soo happy if Ruhi is parenting like her poppy! Poppy when alive was the best of the 3 and always put his son first. And even marte marte, saved his son! smiley27
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Posted: 1 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dora-cakes

@Bold Please I have liked Abhinav in prev gen n hated n hate Manyu very much even now Still I dislike Abhira Only because she had been a hypocrite since she accepted the deal marriage

All the tall claims of Independent Strong woman who takes no nonsense from anyone but Abhira Sharma Abhinav's daughter died the moment she married Armaan for safety n financial security for 1 year She is totally her mother Ak's daughter except that atleast even Ak had more self respect n self love because the Abhira Sharma who was introduced to us was the one who might even murder her mother's murderer but won't back down without a fight But All I saw Abhira doing was instead of fighting for justice n also doing something by practicing what she preached Abhira turned into a hypocrite with double standards n currently since her marriage she has been indirectly even encouraging the misogynistic patriarchal mindset of her in laws specially her dear Vidya Maa

The one of the most important reasons to also dislike her is that since start writers ruined Ruhi's character to highlight Abhira's which as a child Ruhi fan I hated Cvs showed how so called Career oriented Abhira is so different n then we see Abhira n Ruhi in respect towards their career are same both remember their Career as per convenience Ruhi is insensitive is highlighted so many times but Abhira's insensitivity towards anyone other than her own self is becharified Yes Ruhi is worse But Abhira is only a little bit better than Ruhi Atleast Ruhi is whatever she is openly her hate n love are known to all Abhira is too sly hiding behind I love my didi fake nautanki though she clearly doesn't have sisterly feelings which is okay given their history

Note : I know you said that it's your POV but I just wanted to say that this narrative that people hate/dislike Abhira because she is Abhinav's daughter is wrong n trust me on other SM there are Abhinav fans who really dislike Abhira as well n don't like to acknowledge her as his daughter at all

There are certain things we’re forgetting. Her mother asked her to marry Armaan and yes she had the choice to just leave him after she passed away but to set the narrative, they showed a gunda after her and a girl all by herself in her early 20s who just lost her mother made that decision. There’s a reason why Abhira had no family whatsoever or was not revealed so that she starts to rely on Armaan. If she had Abhir or any of the Goenkas, will she ever rely on Armaan. She used to stand up for herself and did it numerous times, even left the house and was completely on her own and eventually when she fell in love, then yes she started doing so many things out of love. But in all of this we can’t forget that she was raised by a single mother in a small town who probably couldn’t survive on her own in a bigger city thus relied on Armaan.

Coming to Ruhi, although there’s childhood trauma but we can’t emphasize with her because of her actions. If she found out on day 1 that she’s Akshara’s daughter, it would’ve been a whole different story but she had always hated Abhira because of her love for Armaan so now her hating her just seems like an excuse. Her hatred towards Abhira before finding out the truth has nothing to do with her childhood trauma. She wanted a man who didn’t want her. If she’s shown to be negative, why is it so hard for her to accept her as a dark person instead of justifying her actions and relating it to childhood trauma?

Also you may be a few that dislike Abhira for other reasons which is okay but there are way too many that hate her because shes’s Abhinav’s daughter and that makes no sense to me.

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Originally posted by: JustaFan13

FL is flawless..🤣🤣

Isnt this FL supposed to be strong independent woman?? Atleast in the beginning she had lil self respect. But since she married Armaan under contract, she has been portrayed as a bechaci dukhiyari abla nari who couldn't survive without a man. And after the actual marriage she has become a doormat to Poddar's. Does everything to please them and get their acceptance. She went through a complicated pregnancy just to please her MIL and give her a "waris".

Not only that because of her a month old baby was kidnapped and now she herself is going to kidnap the baby!!!

Yeah.. FL is flawless. 🤭🤭

That doesn’t change the fact that she’s a strong independent woman. She’s a lawyer and that too one of the best lawyers in town. Regardless of how the dynamics are at home, doesn’t change those facts.

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Fl is also a human right so obviously she will have faults so how can she can be be someone who has no flaws ? smiley3smiley37

Posted: 1 years ago
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Originally posted by: Noorain13

That doesn’t change the fact that she’s a strong independent woman. She’s a lawyer and that too one of the best lawyers in town. Regardless of how the dynamics are at home, doesn’t change those facts.

Isnt she the one who was married to Armaan and challenged Kaveri to destroy their law firm??

And then she became a succesful lawyer in the same firm?? Self respect where?? Strong where?? Independent where??

Posted: 1 years ago
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Originally posted by: JustaFan13

Isnt she the one who was married to Armaan and challenged Kaveri to destroy their law firm??

And then she became a succesful lawyer in the same firm?? Self respect where?? Strong where?? Independent where??

Wait.. I m confused.! She finished her degree abt an year back, busy planning Wedding with Armaan and having to roam around for all the prep work, 3 mahine mein pregnant, not to mention, 5-6 mahine mein delivery, and in between cabin drama, she became the best lawyer?? smiley3 Seedha Salman khan ki lawyer bani kya?

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