Mahi the ideal daughter

It's good that anupama chose maahi. For once anupamaa chose self respect. Otherwise she always prioritized abusers like baa and raahi over herself. No one can deny that maahi is the ideal daughter and not the ill mannered raahi or pakhi.

Why would anupama chose raahi who always misunderstood her and ran away every chance she got. Raahi even emotionally manipulated anuj and was responsible for maan separations.

You are right. Jagat Maata is the besht. Surri suri not just the besht but she is the God who can do no wrong because woh Maa Hey Ney. She deserves all the respect and greatness that shah phamily provides. Anuj and Raahi always misunderstood our jagat Maata and dropped her like hot potato to escape the trauma. Beryy bad. Shah phamily se seekhna chahiye tha. Jagat Mata can do no wrong. Her countless udaan failed because all the world conspired against her not letting her to succeed in any of her udaans. Pura kapadiya empire barbaad ho gaya and nri successful business man bhi...because he was not doing his business properly. Instead voh humesha pyaari si jagat Maata ko lecture deta rehta tha...to prioritise him over the shahs. Raahi/Adhya/Bebli bhi ajeeb thi. Matlab how dare she demanded more attention than Jagat Maata's grown up adult biological kids. How dare she? Beryy bed. Everyone needs to be surri to Jagat Maata including me. We all say in unison 'Surri Zhandupamaa '

Too bad the "ideal daughter" doesn't follow Anupama's bhashan of badon ka sammaan, infact Anupama herself does take her own advice seriously. I mean its just Anupama ne apni Saas aur jethani (Anuj ki Maa samaan Bhabhi) ko sirf dhamkaya aur chaaku dikhaya aur Maahi, woh toh apne se almost 9-10 saal "badi behan" se badtameezi aur haathapaayi karti hn.

Well, yeh toh Anupama ke sanskaaron wale Ansh aur Ishaani ne bhi kiya hain🤔. How come?

Rahi too is an adult grown woman. She isn't some kid that she is going mad for anupama's pallu.

As for respecting elders , maahi respects every adult and that included raahi too untill raahi started throwing tantrums. It's good and a breath of fresh air everytime when maahi answers back to rahi. If rahi can do battmeeji with everyone then surely mahi can do battmeeji with rahi.

So, the criteria for doing "correct" badtameezi is "throwing tantrums".

Hmm. What tantrums has Raahi thrown, by the by?

If throwing tantrums is the criteria then Raahi is facing enough tantrums from EVERYONE in Shah House from the moment she set foot. So, her reaction is justified in your own words.

And what is Maahi answering back? She is only shouting on, pulling her and things in her hand and mindlessly questioning.

About Raahi going mad for Anupama's pallu? Yeh kaunse season me hua tha? Because Anupama khud Dwarka gayi thi aur zabardasti ek deal ke chalte Raahi ko Shah House le aayi thi.

Jab tak Ans ne khud ek "grown up ladki" ki zarrorat samajhke khud apna kamra nnahindiya Raahi (aur uss choti bachchi ko) tab tak toh woh hall ya tabele me rehti thi. Jo baat ek ladke ko samajh aayi "grown-up, mature" Maahi ko samajh nhi aayi? Besides, woh room toh Ans ka tha na, Maahi was bothered ki Prem ko room se nikalna pada and not Ans🤔?

Again, it is not Maahi's fault. Saanche me ho problem hn, end result toh faulty hona hi tha.

O yeah 'throwing tantrums' isn't the apt description for raahi's long list of battmeeji with everyone. Tantrums could have been ignored for once but not the verbal abuse inflicted on others by this grown adult woman raahi.

Raahi is pakhi 2.0.

Verbal abuse?

That too when we have Leela, Pakhi, Paritosh and Dolly and even Maahi to contest.

Let's start with the first time Raahi was introduced, chodo Choti Anu was introduced. Then when she set foot in Shah House, isnt it? The kind of childhood she got only dealing with life and abuses she dealt with, ALL thanks to Anupama.

The 'kind of childhood' and bla bla stuff can never be a justification for a grown adult woman's battmeeji. For that matter even raahi didn't spend so much time with shahs to suffer any kind of trauma.

Raahi's present situation is more because she didn't get more treatments from devika to set her straight.

Originally posted by: Pixie-Dust

The 'kind of childhood' and bla bla stuff can never be a justification for a grown adult woman's battmeeji. For that matter even raahi didn't spend so much time with shahs to suffer any kind of trauma.

Raahi's present situation is more because she didn't get more treatments from devika to set her straight.

Again, please spell out what is the badtameezi she has done?

First you said Maahi doing badtameezi due to tantrums is justified but the same does not apply to Raahi. Then you said Raahi verbally abuses people but say nothing about the verbal abuse she has faced from the time she has set foot in Shah House from every single person including Maahi.

So when Raahi stands up for herself against the abuse, you call it badtameezi. Why should anyone put up with Shahs' (including Maahi, not so Shah's) Abuse?

About reprimanding.

True true. Maahi mindlessly abusing Raahi is also a consequence of her own insecurities which could have been "set right" by Anupama from childhood. Alas did not happen. Now she doesn't care for Ans not having a room but is bothered that Prem doesn't have a room in Shah House.

You mean, Anupama should have long before got the kind of dose Malati Devi gave when she betrayed the Gurukul, so she wouldn't have dared show a knife and threaten elders.

What do you have to say about Maahi pulling Raahi at the dinner table while having her meal also resulting in food spilling over or trying to snatch Anupama' work diary which Raahi had or questioning her mindlessly? ALL of these account for unprovoked physical abuse or because Maahi has done it, it is justified.

Finally, "kind of childhood" is the reason for one's personality. It is a proven fact

Even maahi and samar surely would have suffered at the hands of shahs through all those years of childhood but they never misbehaved with elders. On the other hand here is this raahi who wasn't even with the so called toxic shahs for the majority of her life but still is so toxic and misbehaved.

Everyone has a problem with raahi , the cause being her spoilt demeanour and sense of entitlement.