Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 16 Nov 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 5

Originally posted by: Honey-Friend

Tbh, I don't agree with this sentiment! A child deserves all the love in the world and if a parent is unfit to be a mother or father then that person doesn't deserve the child! And here I am not talking about Ruhi! I am talking in general! That's why there are social services and other organizations. Giving birth automatically doesn't make someone a parent. And blood ties are not the ultimate parent-child bond in the world! If that was the case then adoption wouldn't have been an option!

I don't feel an ounce of sympathy for Ruhi because of the person she is! But she deserves to know that her child is alive (if that baby indeed is hers as DKP can change the narrative anytime and I am hoping Abhira is spared of the heartbreak somehow and the baby himself is bonding with Abhira and Armaan and if anyone comes at me with the baby is crying when he is with Abhimaan, I would like to remind them that it is only showed one time and babies do cry even to their parents). Whether she is fit to be a mother or not should be decided by Drs and the court or the appropriate authority! Not by Rohit!

Honestly even by the show's narrative, the reason is not about Ruhi or her being a good/bad mother. The narrative is solely that for Rohit, it's his way of compensating for all the years of "ehsaan" that his brother & then bhabhi did for him. It's his way of becoming the bigger person. That is it. There is no other reason for this choice. Is it wrong - of course yes. Is it understandable - actually even here yes. But what h is doing with Ruhi is really terrible. Like you said, Ruhi deserves to know the truth of her child. Sh also has lost a lot in life & this trauma is going to scar her like nothing else. That her own husband chose to give away the baby that was supposed to be her one person, she doesn't deserve to live a lie.

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Honey, this is the same girl who called Ruhi behen after knowing of their relationship for a few minutes. She literally termed their fights as funny nok jhok that happens between siblings/cousins. Woh sab chodo, she made Manish Par nanu the minute she met him.

So yeah, Abhira ke liye relationships are like Pokemon that she collects wherever she goes & now that is the dharohar she wants to give her child (this can be taken in both positive & negative ways depending on who reads this)

Future BSP, may bhagawan give sadhbudhi to both of your parents🙌🙌

Ruhi gonna act bitter towards a small kid (which is inexcusable). If even after this, clown brothers didn't open their mouth

Originally posted by: Pinecone

I love that Manisha told V that she cursed Abhimaan and thats why its backfired on Ru-Ro. Good going manisha. someone giving a reality check to the woman about her vileness.

Abhira struggling to console her baby is such a realistic touch and the way she is blaming herself for being a bad mumma because she cant get him to quieten is so heartbreaking. Armaan finally tries to help out with baby. Abhira even says- I wonder if I am even the mother of this child if I cant get him to quieten. And both of them together try to get baby to stop crying and flipper V has to do nautanki. V tells Abhira to calm down and gives tips to calm baby. And her tips work and baby calms down when she sings O Kanha. Its a nice touch. If only they didnt keep showing pathetic Ruhi in between the song.

V even hugs Armaan.wow! is that it?! all sorted between V and Abhimaan ig. is she really getting away with all her crap so easily.

V taking balaiyaan of Abhimaan with baby and all looks so pretentious.

V brings them to puja also. suddenly she is some adarsh elder. what crap. and Kaveri is also praising V for finally being a decent human. so everything is now magically fixed.

V doing all rasams for puja after all the kaands she has done is so infuriating.

Abhira is thoughtful and asks to add an offering for Ru-Ro also. Abhira's kindness is wasted on people like Ruhi though. Please Abhira, stop being so sweet to those who are unworthy

Abhira's generosity and forgiving tendency is wasted on people like Vidya as well. that woman takes 2 seconds to flip. today she is pro Abhimaan, tomorrow she will flip.

Ruhi is so vile she calls a baby as "saaman" . ghatiya aurat . this is precisely why she deserves to suffer and get no sympathy. She may get her biological child back but she will never be happy because she is truly hopeless.

I so agree. I told u yesterday only she will enjoy abhiras pain and suffering and if the narrative changes, after Ruhi gets the kid and then too she gets to know abt the baby being abhira ka she will not spare that kid too

Best mother in the world don't mind forcing others to accept her kid even though they clearly hate and her kid's existence

Originally posted by: Aslesha99

Armaan should never forget what she did to him her recent behaviour makes it look like she only pretended to accept him all these years. If Rohit was in place of Armaan would she have done the same? I am sure once the swap comes out she will flip again that woman can't be trusted she was a flipper, is a flipper and will always be one. For her woman is a baby making machine only she thinks Abhira has given the family a heir so she is all sweet just wait and watch till the truth comes out.

Armaan has no right to accept someone elses baby as his own that too by lying to the entire family and biological mother. I am hoping he and his moron brother get thrashed badly when the swap is revealed.

I don't want him to be BSP the focus should be on Abhimaan after this since they got married baby obsession started they haven't shown their story or honeymoon. They should go on dates, holiday and romance just enjoy life they don't need a baby so soon. There is so much they can show before bringing kids into the picture as once they do it limits the scope for the tracks they can show. I just want that baby returned to Ruhit soon as possible so Abhimaan can move on in their lifes and focus on their relationship and careers.

Having a kid doesn't mean the end of the world!

And I don't think Abhimaan will be in that frame of mind if they lose the child to have a honeymoon and romance! I too wanted them to have a happy married life before baby track came!

I have reservations about the baby, but I want them to be happy with or without the baby and I don't want Vidya's curse to come true!

And ultimately they deserve happiness and whatever they want! It's not our lives and it's not our choices! As viewers, we often project ourselves as our favorite characters unknowingly and want them to behave like we think they should do. But even in real life, we are not logical or practical always! Right? The characters will do what they are supposed to do! I love Abhimaan vs the World and I want them to be together and happy! But knowing DKP and their current mental state, I don't know! As long as they are together I am fine! With or without baby doesn't matter!

Originally posted by: Honey-Friend

Tbh, I don't agree with this sentiment! A child deserves all the love in the world and if a parent is unfit to be a mother or father then that person doesn't deserve the child! And here I am not talking about Ruhi! I am talking in general! That's why there are social services and other organizations. Giving birth automatically doesn't make someone a parent. And blood ties are not the ultimate parent-child bond in the world! If that was the case then adoption wouldn't have been an option!

I don't feel an ounce of sympathy for Ruhi because of the person she is! But she deserves to know that her child is alive (if that baby indeed is hers as DKP can change the narrative anytime and I am hoping Abhira is spared of the heartbreak somehow and the baby himself is bonding with Abhira and Armaan and if anyone comes at me with the baby is crying when he is with Abhimaan, I would like to remind them that it is only showed one time and babies do cry even to their parents). Whether she is fit to be a mother or not should be decided by Drs and the court or the appropriate authority! Not by Rohit!

ruhi ko baby ke liye care karte dikhaya hota, to i would have felt her pain...but she was shown as totaly careless for te baby..and only planning an plotting harm for abhira and her baby....to I really dont feel her pain.....

If mothers can give shraap, tab aisi maaa ka bhi kya karna....😂

Originally posted by: zohakhan7

Go n adopt a kid if u want to become a papa...yeh kya kisi ka baccha leke kudh ko baap bol rahe ho ?

I am getting a solid bucket 🍿🍿

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Honestly even by the show's narrative, the reason is not about Ruhi or her being a good/bad mother. The narrative is solely that for Rohit, it's his way of compensating for all the years of "ehsaan" that his brother & then bhabhi did for him. It's his way of becoming the bigger person. That is it. There is no other reason for this choice. Is it wrong - of course yes. Is it understandable - actually even here yes. But what h is doing with Ruhi is really terrible. Like you said, Ruhi deserves to know the truth of her child. Sh also has lost a lot in life & this trauma is going to scar her like nothing else. That her own husband chose to give away the baby that was supposed to be her one person, she doesn't deserve to live a lie.

What Rohit did was in the heat of moment honestly I feel he never thought aftermaths of it. He never thought that Ruhi would come out of coma so early. His intentions could be good for Abhira, but ruhis behavior towards abhiras kid, he might be sure it’s good Ruhi is away from the kid. That girl will never give good values to the kid. She will teach the kid to be jealous and all the hatred when the kid is not given anything. I understand a mother is mother but the same mother who did not took care of herself during pregnancy days. She was so negative and jealous about the other kid of the house. Let’s think this way what if both the babies where alive and she have birth to girl child, the way she is she wouldn’t have loved that kid too.