Annoying- The Main Leads - Page 5

Chalo someone else also agrees that picking a kid just to please husband and in laws is stupid

Whenever these kinda tracks we see on itv the men are like omg I can't live without you but fl being mahan goes ahead has the baby and everyone happy in the end. And men always bows down ha ha tum sahi thi tum achi tum besttt etc etc. I feel how little self worth these women must have. They will pick an imaginary person over their established life and also expects their men to move on with the kid, without her in side, and keeping the door open that step mom will enter some time. The person is also fine without seeing the kid, not stay during their imp ocassion like high school college first love marriage their kids etc. they are happy with giving a child trauma of being motherless and society/ people around her cursing her Bin ma ki beti aisi waise and ma ko khane wali dayan, etc.

They are also placing so much faith that the kid will grow up to be a nice responsible citizen and not like murderer rpist terrorist etc. they can die and from heaven they can be like main humesha tumhara sath hu but never ka actually there handling things cause woh responsibility ka 100% to husband ko de Diya tumne. And I just wonder how. How man. How you chose that kinda morbid life for yourself and your spouse and kid and family? Itna Kam self worth? Man cindrella had more self love.

And abhira to its soo tragic. Grew up with single mom. Mom died in front of her. Suddenly thrust into unwanted wife role and orthodox bahu. Fought hard for becoming lawyer then the love was reciprocated by people. This kinda girl is fine wasting all those things for an idea of kid and happy family. And the kid can die too, i don't think doctors have that rule to pick one over other. And if the kid dies, the what? What about the men? He's all alone.

Wtf

Originally posted by: Sneha.Narayanan

Most of the names you have stated aren't even Abhira fans, so i doubt they are offended

Like I said, it is natural to feel frustrated with characters when they seem different from who they used to be. But to me, Abhira’s evolution feels realistic, though sometimes I don't connect with her. Even I liked initial outspoken version more. But for me, that doesn’t make her weaker.

Do i like this version? Honestly, not as much as the initial Abhira, but that abhira and this abhira have seen a very different life. That firecracker Abhira led a cushioned , protected life with her mother whereas this Abhira in one year, saw the death of her mother by her Stalker, on her wedding day got married to an almost stranger, was hated by his family members, and so much more, recently came to know her sister in law who was obsessed with her husband (once upon a time) is now her sister, got a whole new family of 3 senior citizens, that same day got to know her mother is perceived as a murderer. Something or else is happening every day, that girl hasn't got a breather.

Even the strongest, most outspoken people go through phases where they feel vulnerable or make sacrifices for their loved ones. Life can soften or challenge us in unexpected ways, and I think that is what is happening with Abhira. She is still the same person inside, but the struggles she has faced have brought out a new side of her, the subdued version.

Yes the baby swap track is horrible, but here also it is not her fault.

It is completely fine if you can't relate to her. We can agree to disagree.

Your first line 🤣

Anyhow .I'm neither a fan not anti fan ..I try to look at things objectively..n many times I appreciate it when others help me understand certain angles which I miss

Originally posted by: nancy56

@firewings_diya

@Sneha.Narayanan

@Krinya

@Rosh4rose

@Life_Is_Dutiful

I feel my annoyance on Abhira isn't a one day thing.

A lot of you are offended by me- as I try to express my perspective as an audience. Yes, it's irritating me, that I have to watch a woman- who is educated- get so easily spun, in the family dynamics of a family that is archaic in its thinking.

I guess, it started the day she started to poach Vidya to accept her and Armaan's marraige, even when her own husband wanted to move out.

Then she kept quiet like a saint when Armaan ignored the f*ck out of her in the initial days without actually shoving some lecture down his throat. Because he eventually came around. Even when his mother was continuing with her ar$ehole behaviour.

Rather than proving her worth as a woman, she got herself into believing the infertility crap. In what time are we living in?

And there was a point when the doctor said that she isn't medically fit to bear a pregnancy. That doesn't mean infertile.

That means you are having some medical disorder that will make u'r baby die in uterus or get born as a defective piece. Or maybe you can face deadly complications as a mother.

That isn't infertile.

Because she got pregnant with first sex. 100% fecundity. Even normal people can't afford that.

Still her MIL kept on behaving like shit. Even when she was with a child.

And then our dear Abhira is all about "this child will win Armaan his mother"

I really wanna puke!

She completely overlooked the real problem. Instead of focusing on the real issue, on whatever medical condition that prevailed in her body, she decided to get pregnant in consciousness, agreeing to a dying wish. Leaving her husband and child alone if it were to happen.

While going in labour, she was like "baby ko bachchana"

People who actually just want to give birth to mend relationships shouldn't get pregnant.

Because a baby isn't a toy.

Being a parent isn't a joke.

With all this built up annoyance, I proceeded to watch the whole kid swap track.

It has made the situation just more sick.

Armaan should do Abhira a favor. He should tell her the real deal and then go for therapy with her. In no sense these 2 had any idea why someone wants a child.

It's like a silly teenage wish fulfillment.

I wish I wasn't this brutal while writing this.

I can't help it's my perception.

That's another thing that none of the chars are close to sane but since the leads are at the center of attraction, expectations from them are max.

So, a 22-year-old girl was bullied for being "infertile" But still the ounce is on her as the OP Wants" TO prove worth as a woman". Why not?
I mean a person who has been so severely traumatized should proof her worth.

Why should we expect people around her to help her. No. No. That is wrong. Nobody should help her, care for her.

Abhira should proof her worth

Also, she shows love to kids who she thinks are her own is somehow blood boiling because that is such a terrible thing to do.

Also, just because she did not want a kid for 2 years, she has no right to grieve/mourn her kid's loss. SHe should just be ok be with

I understand not liking for Abhira for her excessive Maa or Didi Jaap. Or seeking validation from her bullies. Trust nobody here likes that aspect of her character

But the way you have put everything on Her op tells me that your criticism is anything but objective.

Abhira after going through a major surgery should ask all the write questions instead of more experienced parents in the family

ABhira after being bullied should "proof her worth as a woman"

Abhira has no right to even think about the trauma she might have gone through had her baby died.

Abhira should be okay with her baby's death because she did not even want kids for two years.

There is difference between objective criticism and straight up bashing.

Originally posted by: nancy56

@firewings_diya

@Sneha.Narayanan

@Krinya

@Rosh4rose

@Life_Is_Dutiful

I feel my annoyance on Abhira isn't a one day thing.

A lot of you are offended by me- as I try to express my perspective as an audience. Yes, it's irritating me, that I have to watch a woman- who is educated- get so easily spun, in the family dynamics of a family that is archaic in its thinking.

I guess, it started the day she started to poach Vidya to accept her and Armaan's marraige, even when her own husband wanted to move out.

Then she kept quiet like a saint when Armaan ignored the f*ck out of her in the initial days without actually shoving some lecture down his throat. Because he eventually came around. Even when his mother was continuing with her ar$ehole behaviour.

Rather than proving her worth as a woman, she got herself into believing the infertility crap. In what time are we living in?

And there was a point when the doctor said that she isn't medically fit to bear a pregnancy. That doesn't mean infertile.

That means you are having some medical disorder that will make u'r baby die in uterus or get born as a defective piece. Or maybe you can face deadly complications as a mother.

That isn't infertile.

Because she got pregnant with first sex. 100% fecundity. Even normal people can't afford that.

Still her MIL kept on behaving like shit. Even when she was with a child.

And then our dear Abhira is all about "this child will win Armaan his mother"

I really wanna puke!

She completely overlooked the real problem. Instead of focusing on the real issue, on whatever medical condition that prevailed in her body, she decided to get pregnant in consciousness, agreeing to a dying wish. Leaving her husband and child alone if it were to happen.

While going in labour, she was like "baby ko bachchana"

People who actually just want to give birth to mend relationships shouldn't get pregnant.

Because a baby isn't a toy.

Being a parent isn't a joke.

With all this built up annoyance, I proceeded to watch the whole kid swap track.

It has made the situation just more sick.

Armaan should do Abhira a favor. He should tell her the real deal and then go for therapy with her. In no sense these 2 had any idea why someone wants a child.

It's like a silly teenage wish fulfillment.

I wish I wasn't this brutal while writing this.

I can't help it's my perception.

I am not a fan any character or Actor

I watch or read update on and off for pure entertainment but this crap is ridiculously cheap 😐

Yes parenting is not " children's play " or a joke

A baby is not a " toy"

Abhira had a very " risky pregnancy " but she was not infertile

The most hilarious 😂 track was when she was secretly preparing 🤣 " the baby's nursery school kit" seriously woman...

Arman should tell Abhira the truth ...It is a crime what the brothers are doing !.She will be heart broken fir a while then get over it !.There are millions of women who had still birth 🤔.

They all moved on had children later .Now Abhira couldn't hug her own baby ...couldn't shed few tears for her , didn't pray for the little soul to rest in peace..None of the Poddars are bothered either what kind of people .

Worse Abhira didn't even see the baby's face , no truth stays hidden forever . YES " gifting " inlaws a baccha" shouldn't be the the aim of getting pregnant ...

Totally pukeworthy track !

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

I still supported AK until the very end , when she agreed to marry Abhi again I was so done .

What was the entire drama then she could have made another visit to AbhiM while she was carrying Abhir could have explained in person Abhi also lost he lost a lot his brother 😢 ....Could have patched up that time, she changed biological father's name too..

She was not shown crying for Neil.much there was not much regret , Akshara with ger stupid decisions finished of too many lives esp her "foolish actions " wiped off Ruhi's entire family .Never seen a FL getting so much hatred like AK ...It was ridiculous 🙄

Fit abhimanyu upar gaya.

Fit arohi upar gayi

Fit neil upar gaya

The sharmaji jo ithne saalon se akele the fit they woh bhi gaye.

Unfit and stupidest ak bach gayi. Jisne prove ne kiya bina mard ke mera kuch nahi ho saktha 🤭

Now when i look back at gen 3 she was just a joke 🤷‍♀️😂