🌸🌸𝓙𝓱𝓪𝓷𝓪𝓴 Written Update And Episode Discussion thread 64🌸🌸 - Page 96

Originally posted by: Anusha16

You can leave that to me lol.

Originally posted by: tellyme

we are all on same boat. lets mutually not be mad at each other for not getting time to read. All busy with their own stories.

No worries I can understand. I am continuously swimming in this boat from last 2.5 years ,still that does not discourage me from starting new one if the idea gets stuck in my head.

Amen to that.

Let's all hope to have sometime to read the other's.

Originally posted by: Manoshono

Bade ache lagte hein 2.0 with Shubo and Srishti- by Nush🤣

Chi. Ile BALH. No no.

This is not that.

Originally posted by: vira76

Either they cry , or just ignore or talk in their minds !!

Minds me bhi bast nhi kar rahy hn ab to 😥

...

Aisi bhi kya ignorance?

Ani ki side se to phir bhi show kra but Jhanak ki side sirf ek baar

Originally posted by: vira76

Don’t know would rather not think about it ! But arshi room me aane ke baad bol rahi hai , why do you want to do SR?!! Why didn’t she say it in front of the family ? these people don’t do any work completely all the way , Sab kuch bich me chodate hai!! If she didn’t want to do SR,why did she went to the room , why didn’t say in front of everyone that their marriage isn’t complete 🤦🏽‍♀️

Now I hope she doesn’t flip ! Ani ka convincing power is not to be taken lightly !

On the other hand , if she had said it , family will again try to force them to get married , then we will have official anishit wedding 😬 for us viewers ek taraph kua and ek taraph khai hai ! 😂

Drama kasey show hoga agr seedhi saadi life dhikhygy to?

Originally posted by: vira76

Seems like it !! Yaha se obv she gonna go back to BH 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ I just can’t with makers

🤣 Kashmir se kolkata, Kolkata se mumbai, Mumbai se kolkata 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: vira76

No more now ! Now arshi wants to hear he hates her ! 🤦🏽‍♀️ chikh ke bol rahi thi kal , ani tell me who else do you love 😂 other than me ! lol 😆

Originally posted by: samarp2

Yaa that only & expressions were also not like he was caught as he always does but he was like.. ohh Arshi also knows what’s in my heart then he started stammering & not looking at her eyes

I love the expressions after he gets caught.. so endearing ♥️

Originally posted by: asmitamohanty

You know your this post reminded me of one of my recent favourite movie " Qala"...I had initially thought that Arshi 's character would be a character inspired from that..

Qala’s case, too, . Growing up in a strictly hierarchical environment where her mother is also her teacher and her master, her caretaker and guardian, and seemingly the main influence in her life, Qala has internalised her mother’s dreams for her and dedicates her whole life and career trying to win her approval, even to the detriment of her own sanity and wellbeing. Throughout the movie, one can see Qala following her mom’s commands without questioning it.....

I also saw the glimpse of this in her ...Hungry for validation from a mother whose prejudices are extremely extrinsic finding herself nailed into the loop of being inadequate and deficient in her mother’s eyes....The essence of dance has lost its meaning for her as her priority shifts to gratify her mother..

But then gradually I lost that connection... I started disliking her more and more for how she was presented...she appeared classist and elitist to me...and became just a tool in her mother's hand

On the contrary I found this "death mother archetype" more prevalent with Ani...

I have read about this concept & it says Death Mother wields a cold, fierce, violent, and corrosive power. When Death Mother's gaze is directed at us, it penetrates both psyche and body, turning us into stone. It kills hope. It cuts us dead. We collapse..

I found that with Tanuja...This energy is most destructive when it comes from somebody that we love and trust. Like he is with somebody who is supposed to love him and all of a sudden– bang! It’s what happened in the original trauma; we trusted our beloved mother and suddenly we were hit with the realization that we were not acceptable. We realized that our mother wished that we, or some part of us, was dead.... Isn't it the same with Tanuja???...

She knows her son's happiness lies with whom..She probably understands what their actions are doing to him..yet she is there doing her things pushing him towards a metaphorical death...

But yes...one thing is sure that she has grown up seeing her parents' failed relationship soo may be she is also carrying that intergenerational trauma of making her romantic relationship work at any cost....so she tried to cling to Ani ....but nothing justifies the way she has chosen to deal with it by attacking the weaker one... wishing evil for her...

And I also think that Arshi also exhibit same symptoms of narcicism by victimising herself to a large extent.... always resorting to emotional manipulation, guilt-tripping...

Soo mother-daughter duo are narcissistic characters ...but Arshi is more dangerous...

So deep dear Asmita..Interesting..

yeh ... ani ne isse bhi hamari tarah pagal kar diya !

Originally posted by: Euphoria_V

did you see whenever he said I love you arshi in yesterday's episode, she was either angry or laughing at him.