Originally posted by: PPak
Well written.
I also very much admire J for her restraint here. For that matter Ani too. Physically he did not push anything with her, he never does.
The way he communicated his love for her this week has been spectacular - love, concern, respect, humor, fun, chiding, teasing, desire, one of the best MLs in TV land.
I've said before I think Ani took J home because of her mom's letter and he did not want to also be a man who married her and left her unsupported, thats why I want him to turn out diff and not make the same mistakes and make it a like mom like daughter story
I have always wondered if Ani has some other reason for sticking woth Arshi. He tells Jhanak there are very few people he cares abt and given his ability to pick the right people in his family, his trying to keep his relationship with Arshi and Shristi alive is very contradictory to his charcaterization
Sometimes, as human beings, we are too inexperienced to differentiate between the actual love and a temporary attraction, and thus, we lack solid decision-making skills. Therefore, we can now begin to witness from today's episode how Ani is considerably getting suffocated and controlled by his family as well as Arshi, whereas he becomes happy and natural in Jhanak's presence, and hence, his entirely changed avatar can be observed now๐ฅ
With Jhanak's presence in his life, he got a taste of what actual love is and has continuously experienced all aspects of his love since he met her from the very beginning. Whether it is in the form of care, concern, sympathy, possessiveness, deep emotional attachment, trust, and mutual understanding or physical attraction, this is his first time going through this, resulting in better emotional intelligence along with the enhanced ability to differentiate between experiencing real love and saying 'I love you' to Arshi. (This thing is nowadays very common among us too, as we always take things at face value and words, whereas actions are totally contrary.)
As a result, he has now become a completely changed person and learned to perceive reality from an individual perspective rather than being a social puppet. This changing point of Ani is highly plausible, as humans are always born with flaws and negative traits but have a great tendency to learn, explore and get better when experiencing multiple aspects of life. He even seems ashamed of the abuse and mistreatment of her previously, across different scenarios, which was visible in today's episode too, though he still needs to tone down his possessiveness.
Certainly, from now on, he will not go with Arshi at all unless something unfortunate happens that lets him sacrifice himself for Jhanak or surrender himself to social and family pressure. Now, he has stepped into the Kohli's shoes and is hitting everyone outside the boundary, whether it's his own family or Arshi๐๐
Aj we have already witnessed that introductory session and preparation event of the upcoming toofan when Ani will take Jhanak back from Kashmir into bose house and proudly declare her as HIS only 'Wife" and phir sb milky ping-pong games play krengy in that court. Sadqay! ๐
Additionally, he's also got a booster shot from his lady love for his electrified handshake and pre-honeymoon rain event so the hormonal imbalance has been amplified too...๐ฏ๐ค
Abtk Arshi k sath aisa hota to cricket team bngye hti......but she doesnโt possess that ability and our shareef Ani pro max only conduct energy from his exclusive Jhanak rani. HAYEE! ๐
To sum it all up:
Ani poora ka poora badal gya h....๐ฅ
jbsey Jhanak ke pyar ka rung chada h....๐ฏ
Note: @bold
This is what I came across to learn how lifeโs teachings and our perceptions can be vastly different. Even I have seen people referring to someone as their best friend while spending more time and witnessing stronger emotions with others. I would say that things here should not be judged at face value or by words alone, but rather conceived from a different perspective of actions.
We have also witnessed multiple times how Ani hugs Arshi while he keeps thinking about Jhanak.
Edited by xnbstar - 1 years ago
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