Originally posted by: prerna4rishav
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I had complications during pregnancy and I lost like 10 lbs instead of gaining weight for my 10 lb baby.
No part of my body showed any pregnancy fat. Was I pregnant or it was surrogacy ?
God these online discussions and logic ! Definitely beyond me. 
I don't know why people are even taking so much offense to surrogacy??
It is a boon if done responsibly....for the women who are for some reason not able to carry the baby for 9 months.......like in case of Gauri.....her pregnancy with Suhana was almost life threatening......she almost died due to complications and the doctor advised them not to have any more babies.....but I guess they wanted another kid.....so thy opted for surrogacy......and had AbRam......the backlash at that time was sickening.......people judging them left , right and center...
Now surrogacy doesn't carry that negative connotations......I know .....no one has the right to comment on Deepu's pregnancy....its totally their decision.....but if someone did say surrogacy......toh gaali toh nahi hai na....I remember.....Kareena ke time per bhi this discussion happened......people were debating it for Kat also...and its OK......
Nothing as bad as saying that a woman just got pregnant to trap her man into marriage...now that is sl ut shaming....
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